Ubusuku bokuqala bomuntu ngamunye buhamba ngokuvumelana nesimo sabo, ngesinye sezimo ezihlukile ukukhula. Lo mcimbi othakazelisayo oyohlala enkumbulweni yakho isikhathi eside. Abantu abaningi banesithakazelo ukuthi uneminyaka engakanani ongayanga ukuzwa uhla lwemizwa egcwele. Iningi elikhulu labantu, ngokusho kocwaningo, bakhumbule konke ukuphila kwabo, lapho futhi ngaphansi kweziphi izimo ukuthintana kokuqala komshado kwenzeka.
Uneminyaka emingaki ongayishaya ezindebeni?
Ngokwezibalo, umcimbi onjalo kwenzeka ngesikhathi sokukhula, cishe eminyakeni engu-12-16. Njengoba amantombazane ethuthuka masinyane kunabesilisa, bayaqala ngaphambili, bazikhethele abalingani abanolwazi. Amantombazane amaningi amancane, esaba ukulahlwa futhi engafuni ukulahla ngemuva kontanga, anqume ngokumanga kokuqala futhi, ngokombono wezengqondo, lokhu kuyiphutha elikhulu, ngoba lesi senzakalo singashiya ukuhlukumezeka okukhulu kwengqondo ngemuva kwayo. Ubusuku bokuqala kufanele bube buqotho.
Akunakwenzeka ukusho ukuthi ungamanga kangakanani, ngoba imizwa yangempela ayibekezelele noma imiphi imingcele nemithetho. Yingakho kungenakwenzeka ukuqamba iminyaka eqondile, ngoba umuntu ngamunye unalo mcimbi ngamunye.
Uneminyaka emingaki ongamanga:
- Isikhathi seminyaka engu-4-6. Isikhathi sokuqala babanga ngesikhathi besenkulisa. Inzalo ingabonisa kokubili umfana nentombazane. Abantu abadala bavusa abantwana ukuba babonise uthando lwabo nobuhlobo obufudumele, futhi njengoba izingane zifunda kubantu abadala, nazo zibonisa ukuzwelana ngomngane enkulisa. Abantu abakubheki lokhu okungathí sina futhi lokhu kukhunjulwa kuvame ukukhohlwa.
- Isikhathi seminyaka engu-7-9. Ukuxhumana okuthandanayo ngalesi sikhathi kukhunjulwa kangcono kakhulu. Ngokusho kwamavoti, kwenzeka njalo ezikoleni noma kunoma imiphi imicimbi, isibonelo, i-discos yokuqala. Kule minyaka yobudala, kunezizwela zokuqala, eziqhubezela izingane ukuba zibange.
- Isikhathi seminyaka engu-10-12. Ngalesi sikhathi, sekukhona isifiso sokuphila kwamalungu obulili obuhlukile. Yingakho ukubanga kakade, akusebenzi nje kuphela ukubonakaliswa kwesihawu, kepha kukuvumela ukuba ujabule. Bambalwa abantu kule minyaka yobudala bayamanga kakhulu abantu abadala.
- Uneminyaka engu-13. Ukuqonda ukuthi uneminyaka engakanani ongamanga izingane, le minyaka kufanele ikhethwe ngokuhlukile, ngoba, ngokusho kwezibalo, kulesi sikhathi lapho abantu abaningi bekhulile. Ukubamba ingenye yezindlela eziyinhloko zokuthola injabulo yomzimba ekuthintaneni nobulili obuhlukile.
- Isikhathi seminyaka engu-14-16. Ngalesi sikhathi, intsha isivele isenza ngamandla amakhulu ngezingqungquthela, hhayi nje ngabantu abanesihawu. Lokhu kuchazwa kuphela ngokukhangwa komzimba.
- Isikhathi seminyaka engu-17-18. Uma kuyathakazelisa, kungakanani iminyaka ongayishaya ngolimi, bese le nkathi ilungele ukubonakaliswa kwemizwa enjalo, ngoba umuntu usevele esekhulile futhi angaziphendulela ngokuzimela ngezenzo zabo. Naphezu kokukhululwa kwentsha yanamuhla ingatholakala
abantu abangazange babange ngalesi sikhathi. - Isikhathi seminyaka engu-20-30. Amacala anjalo ayingqayizivele kakhulu futhi izazi zengqondo zithandeka ukukhuluma ngokukhona kwezimpikiswano ezithile.
Ngesikhathi esingazi kahle, abantu ngaphambi komhlangano bazama futhi balungise ngokucophelela ukumanga. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukunakekelwa umoya omusha, futhi okwesibili, ukulungiswa ngokomzwelo. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhathazeki, ngoba injabulo enkulu ingaba yisithiyo esikhulu ngaphambi kokuthola injabulo kule nqubo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi amaqabunga wokuqala abangele ngemuva kokuzwa okuhle, okuzokhumbula ngakho konke ukuphila.