Ukuphila komuntu kuyisimo sakhe sengqondo ezweni elizungezile, kubonakala emicabangweni nasezenzo zakhe. Lokhu kuyithinta iso uma uhlangana futhi usihlukanisa komunye nomunye ngomqondo wengqondo. Ithinta ikhono lokunqoba ubunzima, empumelelweni yethu futhi inquma amandla phezu kokuphela komuntu.
Isimo sokuphila esicacile sibonakala kuzo zonke izigaba zomsebenzi wesintu: ukuziphatha, okungokomoya, ezenhlalo nezombusazwe kanye nokusebenza. Iveza ukuhlukunyezwa kokuziphatha komuntu, okungukuthi, ukulungela kwakhe ukwenza isenzo esiwusizo.
Ukwakhiwa kwesimo sokuphila kuqala ngokuzalwa futhi kuncike ikakhulukazi kumvelo umuntu ahlala kuwo. Isisekelo saso sizalwa lapho ingane ifunda ukuxhumana nabazali, abangane, othisha, bahlala emphakathini. Kuye ngalezi zinsuku, ukuzikhethela komuntu kubaluliwe.
Isikhundla sokuphila - esebenzayo futhi engenzi lutho
Ukuphila okusebenzayo kuyimfihlo yokuziqhenya nokuphumelela. Kubonakala ngesibindi sokuqala nokuzimisela ukwenza okuthile. Ukuze siyifake, sidinga injini ezosithuthukisa. Esikhundleni senjini enjalo, izifiso zethu zisebenza, okuzosiphakamisa ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinkinga futhi zisisize sifinyelele imigomo yethu. Umuntu onesikhundla sokuphila esebenzayo angaba umholi, futhi mhlawumbe alandele umholi, kodwa uhlale enombono wakhe kanye namandla akhe ukuyivikela.
Kukhona izinhlobo ezilandelayo zokuphila okusebenzayo:
- Isimo sengqondo esihle. Iqondiswe ezindinganisweni zokuziphatha zomphakathi, ukwamukelwa okuhle nokunqoba okubi kokuziphatha.
- Okubi. Akukhona njalo abantu abakhuthele nabasebenzayo abachitha imizamo yabo ezintweni ezinhle, izenzo zabo zingalimaza abanye kanye nabo. Isibonelo sendawo yokuphila engasebenzi kahle singabamba iqhaza emaqenjini ahlukahlukene. Umholi weqembu lezigebengu - lowo muntu ujabule nabasebenza, ngokuqiniseka okuqinile, imigomo ethile, kodwa izinkolelo zakhe ziyingozi emphakathini, hhayi ngokuthanda kwakhe.
Ukuphikisana kwalesi simo esibalulekile ukungabi namusa. Umuntu onesikhundla sokuphila esingenasici uyangena futhi ayinandaba. Amazwi akhe nezenzo zakhe ziyahlukana, akafuni ukuhlanganyela ekuxazululeni izinkinga nezinkinga zomphakathi ahlala kuwo. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kufana nokuziphatha kwentshe, efihle ikhanda layo esihlabathini, ecabanga ukuthi lena yindlela ephephile kakhulu yokuziqeda izinkinga. Izimiso ezinjalo aziyingozi kakhulu kunezinga eliphikisayo lokuphila. Kungakanani ukungabi nabulungisa nobugebengu okwenziwa ngokungahambisani kwethu?
Isikhundla sokuphila esingahle singabonakaliswa ngezindlela ezilandelayo:
- Qedela ukungasebenzi. Abantu abakulesi sigaba babhekene nokubhekana nokubhekana nezinkinga. Izingozi nezinkinga zibaphazamisa, futhi zilinde ukuxazulula lezi zimo.
- Ukuhambisa. Umuntu ugcina ngokucophelela imithetho nemigomo yabanye abantu, ngaphandle kokucabanga ngokwanele nesidingo sale mithetho.
- Ukuzijabulisa. Ukuqaliswa kwanoma yiziphi izenzo ezingenayo imigomo eyakhayo. Isibonelo, umsindo, ukuphikisana, okukhulu
umsebenzi, uqondiswa kuphela esiqondisweni esingalungile. - Ukuziphatha okulimazayo. Umuntu wehlisa icala ngenxa yokuhluleka kwakhe kubantu abangagunyaziwe kulokhu. Isibonelo, umama ophuza intukuthelo yakhe ezinganeni ngenxa yezinkinga emsebenzini.
Naphezu kokuthi isimo sokuphila sikhiwa ebuntwaneni futhi sincike emphakathini esiphila kuwo, akusikhathi sekwephuzile ukuyeka futhi ucabange ngokuthi isimo sakho siphila, yiziphi izinzuzo oziletha kulabo abakuzungezile. Futhi uma, umphumela wokuzindla awukwanelisi - akuphuzi kakhulu ukuzishintsha wena.