Akungabazeki ukuthi kuyoba khona owesifazane ozohlala ezolile futhi ejabule ngemva kokuhamba ngenqubo yokuqedwa kokukhulelwa kokufakelwa .
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhipha isisu kuxazulula izinkinga zabesifazane abathile, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi - kuholela ekukhuleni kwamasha. Ukukhipha isisu kumfazi onenhloso eyinhloko ukuzalwa kwezingane akuyona nje inkinga engokwenyama, njenge-endabortion endometritis, kodwa futhi nokuhlukunyezwa okungokomzwelo, kwengqondo, nokomoya. Uma ehamba ngokweqile, khona-ke kuleli cala bathi nge-postabortny syndrome.
Ngokuvamile kuvame ukuthi lesi sifo senzeke kwabesifazane:
- ngubani okwesikhathi eside engazange aqaphele ukuphazamisa ukukhulelwa, ngesimo esakhiwe ngokukhululekile somama;
- abaphoqelelwe ukukhipha isisu ngabalingani babo besilisa, amalungu omndeni noma odokotela;
- oye wahlupheka esikhathini esidlule ngezinkinga zengqondo, kuhlanganise nokucindezeleka;
- abangakaze bahlakulele ubuhlobo nabomama babo;
- ngubani osevele akhiphe isisu;
- owayesebenzile ngasese noma ngemuva kwesikhathi.
I-syndrome ye-post-isisu ibonakala kanjani?
Izimpawu zalesi syndrome ziyi:
- ukucindezeleka ;
- umuzwa wokuphelelwa ithemba nokunganaki;
- umqondo olahlekile wokulahlekelwa kanye nesifiso sokukhala;
- izinsolo ezimbi kanye namaphupho amabi;
- ukuzitholela;
- izinkumbulo ezingunaphakade zokukhipha isisu;
- intukuthelo engenangqondo;
- ukulahlekelwa isithunzi somuntu siqu.
Konke lokhu kungaholela ekuphambukeni okuthile ekuziphatheni kwabesifazane. Angase aqale ukusebenzisa kabi utshwala noma izidakamizwa; kungase kube nezinkinga ekusebenzelaneni namadoda; ukubandana ekuziphatheni ngokocansi, ukuhlaselwa kwesibindi noma ukucindezeleka ngokomzimba uma kuqhathaniswa nokukhipha isisu; sigwema okunamathiselwe kunoma ubani.
I-Postabortal Ukuvuselelwa
Ukuphulukiswa emva kokukhipha isisu owesifazane angasizwa ngokusekelwa kwabathandekayo bakhe noma ngosizo lomqondo wezengqondo onolwazi. Ngaphandle kwalokho, izinkinga zomzwelo zowesifazane osinda ekuqedeni kokukhulelwa kokufakelwa, zingahle zibe phansi ekucindezelekeni okujulile.
Owesifazane kuleso simo kudingeka adedele imizwa yakhe kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe engxoxweni nezihlobo, abangane noma isazi sezengqondo esizoyiqonda futhi siyisekele. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, lona wesifazane naye kumele enze imizamo "yokuzikhandla" ekucindezelekeni kokukhipha isisu. Ukwenza lokhu, udinga ukuzijabulisa - ukuxhumana nabantu, ukwenza izinto azithandayo, ukuthola izithakazelo ezintsha, noma ngabe konke lokhu kubonakala kungenangqondo.
Abesifazane abaningi baxazulula isifo sabo sokuthunyelwa kwesisu ngokuzalwa kwengane noma ukutholwa (njengokubuyisana kwecala labo).