Njengomthetho, izingane zibhapathizwa zisencane, futhi abazali bavame ukuhlela ukugubha ekhaya ngalesi senzakalo. Uma umenyiwe kumcimbi onjalo, kufanelekile ukwazi kusengaphambili lokho okunikezwa umfana noma intombazane yobuKristu. Futhi uma ukhethwe esikhundleni senkosikazi, kuzodingeka unikeze izipho eziphawulekayo kuqala ezinganeni ezizodlula nayo yonke impilo yakhe.
Ziziphi izipho abazinikela kubanikazi bomama?
Uma kungumvakashi ojwayelekile kukhona ukukhethwa okwanele kwalezizinto nezinto ongazinikeza, khona-ke umamukeli noma owamukelayo uhlu ulawulwa yikiso lesonto futhi unencazelo ephawulekayo.
Ngokwesiko kwakuyizinkulunkulukazi abaye banquma ukuthi isiphambano sinikele ekugodleni , futhi sanikeza. Lokhu kufanekisela ubuhlobo obungokomoya obujulile phakathi kwezingane nosana wakhe. Kodwa-ke, kunikezwe ukuthi lesi sithwathwa esithile kufanele sigqoke isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi ngokufanele impilo yakho yonke, izifiso zabazali nazo zibalulekile. Njengomthetho, uma befuna ingane encane ukuba igqoke isiphambano esivela egolide, bayithenga ngokwabo, ukuze bangabosheli abamukeli ukuthi basebenzise okuningi. Kodwa-ke, uma wanquma ukuthatha isiphambano esiliva, khona-ke akeke unikezwe ngu-godparent.
Esinye isipho esibalulekile esivela kubanikazi bendabuko yi-kryzhma, okuyisendwangu esikhethekile, lapho umntwana eboshwe khona ngemva kokungcoliswa ngumpristi efonini. Ifanekisela ukuhlanzeka komKristu, futhi kufanele agcine impilo yakhe yonke ekukhumbuzeni lo mzuzwana. Kukholelwa ukuthi ngenxa yamaconsi amanzi angcwele awile kuwo, lezi zicubu zithola izici zemilingo, zokuphulukisa.
Kanti futhi, onkulunkulukazi kufanele banikeze ingane ihembe (ihembe). Kuye, ingane izogqoka ngokushesha ngemva kokuqedwa komkhosi. Ukuze amantombazane, ngendlela, kufanele ahlinzeke ingubo. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, lesi siko sibonise ukuthi kusukela ngesikhathi sokubhapathizwa, ingane ayikho abazali abaphilayo kuphela kodwa nabazali abangokomoya abangabanakekela futhi babanikeze, basize ekudingeni nasebunzima bokuphila. Le shati nayo kufanele igcinwe konke ukuphila.
Emasikweni aseYurophu kukhona inkulumo ethi "wazalwa enesipuni sesiliva emlonyeni wakhe" (lokhu kufana nesimo sethu sokuthi "kuzalwa ihembe") - ngakho-ke, wazalwa ejabule. Okokuqala e-Yurophu, futhi manje sisaqhubeka sinikeza i-christenings i-spoon yesiliva ukuheha impumelelo empilweni yomuntu.
Lona uhlu olubaluleke kunazo zonke lwalokho obazali abaningi abavame ukukunikeza ama-christenings. Lokhu kukwanele - ungathatha ngaphezu kwezimbali zezimbali nezibani zabazali.
Yini abanikezela ekukhuliseni kwengane?
Uma ungewona unkulunkulukazi, unganquma umbuzo walokho okumele uzinikezele kuma-christenings ngokwakho. Kuzo zonke izivakashi azikho imingcele eqinile nemigomo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi okuqukethwe kwengane kulezi zinsuku kuyindleko ebiza kakhulu, futhi esikhundleni sokuhudula ibhere elingenalutho lamamitha amabili emndeninikazikazi, kungcono ukuthola ukuthi abazali bakho baziphi izinto eziwusizo abakudinga manje.
Ukwenza kube lula ngabo ukuthi banqume, banikeze izinketho zabo, okungaba:
- abahambahambayo;
- izingubo zasebusika ezinganeni, izicathulo;
- imidlalo yemfundo efanelekayo yobudala;
- ithebula elishintshayo;
- umbhede wezingubo zezingane;
- i-bible yezingane;
- iqoqo lezinkantolo zokugeza umntwana;
- zonke izinhlobo zempahla (izinwele, njll - ngokubonisana nabazali);
- amathoyizi afanelekayo kulonyaka;
- ukudla kwezingane (okudingekayo ngokuvumelana nabazali bomfana).
Uma wazi ukuthi abazali bezingane banesidingo esikhulu sokusiza ngezezimali zokulungisa, ungakwazi njalo ukunikela ngemali emvilophini. Lesi sipho, nakuba singakhohlwa, kodwa siwusizo kakhulu, futhi ngokuqinisekile ngeke sibe yinto engafaneleki.