Abaningi bethu, ngelinye ilanga, babhekene nothando olungenalo uthando . Ngesikhathi sokulangazelela, bacabanga ngezindlela ezihluke kakhulu zokususa. Ngakho nansi ezinye zezindlela ezifinyeleleka kakhulu zomuntu, lokhu kuyipelenti yothando kasawoti. Ngaphezu kwalokho, usebenza kahle emlonyeni wothando.
Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa zokupela ngosawoti:
- U-Privorot osawoti womyeni wakhe - ngoMgqibelo ekuseni, uthi e-altare (ungcwelisiwe) usawoti, ugoqwe esikhwameni sezindwangu, amagama:
"Indlela abantu abathanda ngayo usawoti futhi abakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwalo, ukuze umyeni wami angithande futhi angakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwami, abe nomzuzu wokudlulela, hhayi ihora lokuchitha amahora, hhayi usuku lokuya, ngizohamba ngami futhi ngiyongithanda. Amen. "
Khona-ke usawoti ukudla komyeni ngosawoti. Ungenza lokhu izikhathi eziningi ukuze uthuthukise umphumela futhi ukwandise umphumela we-spell.
- U-Privorot emunyu wendoda - aphule ucezu lwesinkwa esisesiswini sonke bese ufafaza usawoti omkhulu, ethi ngesikhathi esifanayo:
"UZapet, uhamba, unamathele kimi, engekho ethuneni, kodwa ehamba encekwini kaNkulunkulu ephansi (igama lomfana), nomaphi lapho eya khona, noma kunjalo, kimi, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama le ntombazane) lalizobuya! Ngamazwi ukhiye wami, izindaba zami yinqaba. " Egameni likaYise neNdodana noMoya oNgcwele. Amen!
Futhi ngesikhathi sokuqala, unike umfana wakho ukuba adle le ncezu yesinkwa nosawoti.
- Ukupaka okunamandla kasawoti, ukubuyela othandweni - thatha amalahle e-birch ovuthayo ngakwesobunxele sakho bese uwabeka izingcezu ezintathu zempepho (encane). Ngesandleni sakho sokunene thatha ucezu lwesinkwa ngesithathu. Manje uye emngceleni womnyango, esiseduzane nomphumela wokuphuma, ufike emngceleni (izingqimba ezintathu - kungcono uma uhamba ngqo ngaphandle kokubamba). Uma uvuka emgodini (ukuze unyawo lube ngaphesheya komnyango ovulekile), ubhapathize ngesinkwa nosawoti bese uthi (ngasendlini ngayinye uthi kathathu, udla isinkwa): "Khumbula, Nkosi, esanda kufakwa
inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) embusweni wayo. "
Lezi zenzo zithatha amasonto ayisithupha ngesikhathi senkonzo esontweni, okungukuthi: kusukela emahoreni angu-10 kuya kwangu-12 noma kusukela emahoreni angu-22 kuya kwangu-24.
Kodwa-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi isipele sothando singanikeza umphumela oyifunayo kuphela lapho abantu abasha behambelana, futhi ngosizo lwepelingi lomunye wabo kuyadingeka, kuphela ukucindezela emndenini injabulo .
Yebo, uma umfana nentombazane bengenalo, ngeke kube khona injabulo emndenini onjalo. Umfana othole intombazane nge spell (noma ngokuphambene nalokho), ngeke abe naye isikhathi eside futhi uzokwenza imizamo yokushiya intombazane ngokuqeda ubuhlobo.
I-Privorot ngosawoti ingasuswa yedwa, kanye ne-privoroty eminingi kasawoti akuyona isikhathi eside.