Ngomlingo wothando, iqembu elihlukile liqukethe izinhloso zokuthanda ukudla. Kukholelwa ukuthi ukudla ngumqhubi wamandla omuhle kakhulu, futhi kungasabela emicabangweni, emizweni nasemagama omuntu. Yingakho kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo bethi kubalulekile ukulungiselela "ngothando".
Kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngemiphumela yokuhlelwa kokudla futhi uma konke kwenziwa ngendlela efanele, imiphumela iyoba yinto enhle kuphela futhi into yokudumisa iyoba nemizwa, isifiso nesifiso. Uma amaphutha enza ngesikhathi sokufunda nokuqamba amanga, khona-ke imiphumela emibi kangaka ingabonwa: impilo embi, izinkinga zesimiso sezinzwa, ukukhushulwa kwezifo ezingapheli nezinkinga ezinhlotsheni ezahlukene zokuphila.
Isakhiwo sokuthanda ukudla okuzenzelayo
Umkhuba owethulwe ungasetshenziselwa ukuvuselela ubuhlobo futhi ulethe ukusakaza okusha kwemizwa kulowo okhethiwe. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukupheka, udinga ukuvala amehlo akho ucabange ngezikhathi ezinhle ezihlobene nento yokudumisa. Ngesikhathi sokupheka, kubalulekile ukucabanga ngomuntu okhethiwe. Ukuhamba ngesikhathi sokucubungulwa kwemikhiqizo kufanele kube bushelelezi. Lapho isidlo sesilungile, udinga ukubamba izandla bese uthi la mazwi:
"Wena" igama "lothando - ekudleni uthando lwami.
Ukudla okukuwe uthando lwami kuwe.
Yini ezoba ngaphakathi - ayikho indlela yokuphuma.
Yidla, uthande, udle, kodwa udumise.
Okudlayo kuyisimnandi kakhulu, ngakho ngithande kakhulu. "
Ngemuva kwalokho, sebenzisa isidlo esiphelile kumuntu okhethiwe. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungatsheli muntu ngendoda.
Isiqongo sokudla ngothando lomuntu onegazi
Kunamandla ngokwanele, kodwa futhi kuyinkambo eyingozi, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuyisebenzisa, njengesenzo sokugcina. Abaqalayo akukhuthazwa ukuqhuba lesi siko. Ngesikhathi sokufunda loluhlelo, ukuhlushwa okukhulayo nokuzinza kwemizwa kubalulekile. Igazi lenza uxhumano lwezinkanyezi phakathi kwabathandi. Lungisa isidlo ozithandayo sento yokudumisa bese wengeza ukwehla kwegazi lakho kulo. Bese uthi lawa mazwi:
"(Igama lomngane wami), vutha ngothando ngami, vumela uthando lufudumeze lufinyelele kuwo wonke amaseli wakho, kuwo wonke igazi lakho, kuwo wonke amathambo akho. Vumela yonke imicabango yakho ibe ngami, futhi yonke intando yakho ngombonini wami. Ku (igama labathandekayo) behlala kuphela nami, baphefumulelwe kuphela nami. Ngithande ngaphezu kokuphila kwakho, phila njalo ekupheleni kwami. "I-conspiracy kufanele iphindwe kathathu. Ngemva kwesikhashana, ungabona imiphumela yokuqala.
Indawo yokudla, okungukuthi inhlama
Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, abesifazane bebelokhu belungiselela izimpahla ezihlukahlukene zokupheka, abaphatha ngamadoda abo. Ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa kokuhlolwa, izakhiwo zemilingo zisetshenziselwa ukuqinisa izinzwa nokuheha uthando. Kubalulekile ukugcoba inhlama ngemvubelo bese ulinda kuze kufike. Emva kwalokhu, ukuyixuba, phinda lo njongo:
"Umgomo ka-Anna Mans wePlashelkov untsha. Ngizokhuleka ngikhulekele iNkosi Osinil. Mnqume futhi unqobe yena, inja ye-Boyarsky kanye nabalimi be-monastery, abamnyama nabamhlophe, i-pestagor no-yellow, okungukuthi, wazalwa eyimpumputhe kusukela esizukulwaneni, futhi uzoba yiziphukuphuku njengomzimba omanzi, ebulawa ngamathole amanzi, imvukuzane ephuzi. Yeka ukuthi uqina kanjani futhi ngesihluku kanjani isihlahla sase-spruce singatshala ushizi, umhlabathi ugcwele imifino kanti izihlahla ze-fir ziboshelwe ngokuqinile futhi ingxenye ekhuni yayiyoboshwa izinyawo ezinyaweni ezinyaweni, izandla ngezandla, izinhlama kuya emathunjini, isisu kuya esiswini. Ulimi luyisihluthulelo sami. Amen. "
Phinda uhlele ugobe oluyisikhombisa, bese ubhaka ikhekhe. Kubalulekile ukugcoba inhlama ngamandla futhi isikhathi eside, ukudlulisela yonke imizwa yakho nothando kuye. Sicela uqaphele ukuthi ukudla okulungiselelwe okulungiselelwe kungokomuntu kuphela, ngakho akudingeki ukuba uphathe abanye abantu kuwo.