Ngokuqinisekile uye waba nezindaba lapho ungazange wenze lokho owawuhlose ekuqaleni. Isibonelo, bashiye isitolo ngokuthenga okungadingekile. Uqale ngokukhululekile ingxoxo mayelana nokuhlukanisa futhi waqeda ngokumanga kwe-truce. Bafika emhlanganweni ngemibono yabo, futhi baphuma nomunye umuntu. Uma kunjalo, awukho ngokuzwayo okujwayelene nokucindezeleka kwengqondo. Mayelana nokuthi yikuphi, ubani kithi ozimisele ukuphathwa, futhi yiziphi izindlela zokucindezela kwengqondo kumuntu, sizokhuluma namhlanje.
Ukuhlinzekwa kwengcindezi yengqondo - kuthinta amaphuzu athile omuntu, ukuphathwa komunye umuntu ukuze kulawulwe ukuziphatha komunye umuntu. I-target best for manipulators enjalo ngabantu abanobuzenzisi, abajwayele ukufaka izimpawu zabo siqu kanye / noma ukuzidela, abangaqiniseki ngamakhono abo.
Izindlela namasu okucindezela kwengqondo kumuntu
- ukusetshenziswa kwecala. Lena yindlela ejwayelekile kakhulu yokucindezela kwengqondo emndenini: uma indoda ikuhlambalaza ngokunikeza isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini, abazali bathola lokho abakufunayo ngokubakhumbuza ngempilo yabo ebuthakathaka, izingane zikubeka icala lokuqashwa okuhlala njalo, njll. Kulokhu, udinga ukuziqonda wena, umuntu ucindezela iphuzu elibuhlungu kakhulu kuwe;
- ukusikisela nokuphindaphinda. Isibonelo esihle kakhulu ukukhangisa. Ochwepheshe bokukhangisa bayazi kahle ukuthi bangakwenza kanjani ukucindezeleka kwengqondo kumuntu: phinda, uphinde, phinda ...
- indlela yokubuza imibuzo. Le mibuzo ehlambalazayo, lapho, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubonakala kungenalutho ukuphendula, kodwa ngakolunye ... ukuthula kungamukelwa kwemvume. Isibonelo: "Ungabeka kanjani kancane", "wazi ukuthi usilahle kanjani", njll.;
- izinsongo eziqondile. Lena ingcindezi engokwengqondo enenhloso esekelwe ezisongweni noma ezokuxoshwa;
- ukuhlaselwa kwengqondo. Ngesikhathi sokucabangela isimo, izingcingo, izikhumbuzo, izingxoxo ngesicelo sokuthatha isinqumo esidingekayo ziwela kuwe;
- ukungabonakali kwamanga. Abesifazane abazi ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ukunganaki kwamadoda kuthinta amadoda.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ukuhlinzekwa kwengcindezi yengqondo akusiyo njalo ngamabomu. Abambalwa kuphela bacabanga ngamaqhinga wokuziphatha, njengombuso, ukuxhaphazwa kwenzeka ngezinga elibucayi.