Ngokuvamile abantu badidisa umbono we- spoilage ne-lapel. I-Lapel - ixoshwa ngokushesha futhi isebenza ngokukhanya ngokushesha. Lokhu kusho ukuthi abantu abaye baphenduka i-lapel bamane balahlekelwa isithakazelo komunye nomunye futhi bayeke ukuxhumana. Futhi ukulimala ebuhlotsheni kunemvelo ejulile.
Kuyini umonakalo ebuhlotsheni?
Ukulimala okunjalo kuholela ekuxabaneni, ukuhlambalaza, ukuphikisana, ukulahlekelwa ukuqonda okubili. Umgomo, owenza umonakalo, ukwenza umbhangqwana owakuthandana ngaphambili uthandane kanye nhlobo.
Ukhohlakala lungenziwa emndenini womndeni, ngakho-ke, njengokuthi, "ikhasimende" layo lingumlingani wangaphambili nowesishiywe komunye womlingani, noma umthandi (umthandi), ofuna ukuba "ngokomthetho." Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwehlukana okunjalo kuholela ezihlotsheni (ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa efa) noma kubalingani nabalingani bebhizinisi.
Izimpawu zokuphangwa
Isibonakaliso sokuqala somonakalo ebuhlotsheni - yilapho ubutha buvela khona. Ukuqonda okufanayo kuye kwanyamalala okwesikhashana, futhi uma ucabanga ngalokho okwenzekile, akekho ohlanganyele empini ozothola incazelo enengqondo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umonakalo ungaqondiswa ezindaweni ezahlukene zokuphila. Okungukuthi, kungenzeka kube nokungaqondani kwengqondo, futhi ukukhangwa ngokobulili kungase kuphele.
Kunendlela eyodwa elula yokunquma ukuthi kukhona ukulahlekelwa ebuhlotsheni: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukungqubuzana, ngokushesha nje lapho imizwelo nentukuthelo iphela, abantu bazama ukubuyisana njalo. Futhi uma kwenzeka umonakalo, lo mbhangqwana awufuni nje ukumisa, kodwa futhi ufuna izizathu ezintsha zokumangalela.
Abalingani banokushintsha okuphawulekayo ekuthandweni kwabo kokudla, ukuphuza, nokuchitha isikhathi. Kukhona ukulangazelela utshwala, intukuthelo ithatha yonke iminye imizwa.
Ngokuvamile, izisulu zokuphupha amaphupho ezibuhlungu, amaphupho amahlaya, futhi ngokufanayo kukhona ubuvila obungenakunqotshwa, ukukhubazeka kokulala isikhathi eside.
Inkohlakalo iqala ukusebenza ngokoqobo ngemuva kokuqondiswa. Uyashesha kakhulu, futhi ngeke ube nesikhathi sokuvuka, njengoba uzobe ufaka isahlukaniso. Uma uzizwa umqondo wesikhombisa ungalungile, kungcono ukuphendukela kumlumbi ochwepheshe.