Abafundi balungele izinto eziningi nje kuphela ukudlulisa izivivinyo "ngokuphelele". Bahlale bebiza "i-freebie", futhi baqhuba imikhuba ehlukene yemilingo. Kubalulekile ukuthatha lokhu ngokungathí sina, ngaphandle kwalokho amandla aphezulu angakwazi ukubalwa. Okubaluleke kakhulu futhi ukucaciswa kokubiza nokubukwa komphumela.
Iqhinga elinamandla lokudlula ukuhlolwa
Umkhuba wokukhanya owenziwe ngosuku lokuzinikela kuzosiza ukuqeda imicabango engaphandle, uvumelane nomoya omuhle futhi ukwandise ijubane lokucabanga. Ekuseni ngaphambi kokuhlolwa, hlamba ikhanda bese uthi kathathu:
"Inhloko yami icacile, ingqondo yami icacile, ingqondo yami ikhanya.
Ngiyazi konke, ngiyaqonda konke, nginquma ngokushesha konke,
Ngiphendula yonke imibuzo.
Nginoma yimuphi umsebenzi ngizoba nenhlanhla. Amen. "
Isakhiwo sizosiza kuphela uma ufunde le ndaba.
Iqhinga eliphumelelayo lokudlula ukuhlolwa
Funda amagama omlingo owudinga phezu kwezingubo ozohlela kuzo ekuhlolweni. Azikho izidingo ezithile ezibonakalayo noma umbala, ngakho-ke yenza isinqumo sakho sisekelwe kuphela ekuhlakanipheni kwakho. Thatha izinto ezilungiselelwe ze-wardrobe, zithuthukise futhi uthi kathathu:
"Kulesi sigqoko umfundi uzoya eyunivesithi.
Lapho, ukuhlolwa kwakhe kanzima kulinde.
Ukuhluleka kusuka kuso kuphuma, izimpendulo ezifanele kuyo zixazulula.
Noma yini ayishoyo - wathola udumo kuphela. "
Ukwenza konke kunconywa ngaphambi kokulala.
Umqambi olula wokudlula ngempumelelo ukuhlolwa
Abantu abaningi baye babhekana nesimo esinjalo, lapho konke kubonakala sengathi sekufundiwe, futhi bekhipha ithikithi, akukho lutho olungakhunjulwa. Kukhona ithuba lokuvuselela yonke into enkumbulweni. Kulokhu kuyadingeka ukuthi uthi amagama alandelayo:
"Ubuhle abathathu ezintabeni, ngaphesheya kolwandle, ngemuva kwamahlathi.
Njengoba igama lokuqala ngilikhohlwe,
igama lesibili - umoya wavutha,
Ingelosi yesithathu yembula yangiveza! "
Umqambi wothisha kanye nokudluliswa ngempumelelo kokuhlolwa
Ukusiza umlingo kungalindelwa ezimweni lapho ubudlelwane nomhloli engakhiwa futhi lokhu kungaba nomthelela omubi ekuhlolweni. Ngomkhuba, umuntu oyedwa kudingeka, mhlawumbe umfundi. Ngaphambi kosuku lokuhlolwa endaweni enokuthula, hlala uhambisane futhi uqale ukushintshana ukuze udumise uthisha, ukhumbule zonke izinsizakalo zakhe kumininingwane yokugcina. Zama ukukwenza ngobuqotho ngaphandle kokuxhashazwa. Khona-ke, ngokuveza ukuthi ngaphambi kwakho umhloli, mkhothamele futhi uthi la mazwi:
"Ngiyabonga (igama lothisha) ngesayensi, ekufundiseni, ukuthola ukuhlolwa okuhle."
Hamba uphinde ufunde lesi sakhiwo uze ukhathele. Ngaphambi kokuba kuhlolwa futhi kunconywa emnyango wokukhothama bese uthi isakhiwo okungenani izikhathi ezintathu.
Isakhiwo sokudlula ukuhlolwa sihle kakhulu
Ukuze uphumelele ngempumelelo ukuhlolwa noma ukuhlolwa, kutuswa ukuba wenze konke ngakwesokudla. Isibonelo, kusukela embhedeni, vuka kusuka enyaweni lokunene, futhi uye ezilalelini. Ukudonsa ithikithi kunconywa futhi ngesandla sakho sokunene. Konke lokhu kubalulekile ukuze kungcolile
"Yeka ukuthi le nsiza ngeke ikhulule kanjani, ngakho imicabango yami ekuhlolweni ngeke idideke. Amen. "
Ngaphambi kokuya ekuhlolweni izikhathi eziyisikhombisa, uthi:
"Njengoba isibhakabhaka simhlophe ngosuku olumhlophe,
Ngakho imicabango yami ikhanya futhi ihlanzekile.
Njengomzali nonina uthando futhi ngizizwela ngami,
Ngakho ngihawukele mina (igama lomfundisi). Amen. "
Njengoba uqinise ulwazi lwakho ngamasiko omlingo, ungaqiniseka ukuthi ukuhlolwa kuzodluliselwa "ngokuphelele".