Ukuphila kwanamuhla kubeka imithetho yayo futhi ngezinye izikhathi kudingeka uvumelane nabo: hamba uhambo lwebhizinisi, uye ekhaya kubazali bakho njalonjalo. Ngezinye izikhathi uthandana nomuntu ohlala izinkulungwane zamakhilomitha kude, yini okwenzayo ukuze usinde kulokhu kuhlukaniswa ? Kunezincomo eziningana ezizokusiza ukuba udlule izinsuku ezingabonakali zokuhlukaniswa.
Isikhathi sokuqala wena njengomlutha wezidakamizwa akunakwenzeka ngaphandle komuntu othandekayo, njengoba bejwayele ukuthi uhlala eseduze, ukuthi nganoma isiphi isikhathi ungambamba futhi umanga. Kwabaningi, lesi sikhathi sihambisana nezinyembezi, usizi nokucindezeleka . Kodwa ungathukutheli, ngoba namuhla lelikhulu leminyaka lama-21 egcekeni futhi lifaniswa nogogo bethu, abaye balinda amadoda abo kusukela empini iminyaka yonke, konke kulula kakhulu. Khona-ke abantu babhala izincwadi omunye nomunye futhi balinda izinyanga ukuphendula, bengesabi ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi uthando lwabo luyophela, ngakho le nkolelo yahlala enhliziyweni yabo.
Ukuphazamiseka
Ukuthi uzohlala nesithombe sakhe nokukhala ngezinsuku ngeke kushintshe noma yini, ngaphandle uma ixosha kakhulu i-psyche. Ngakho-ke, gxila ekubhekaneni nenye into, isibonelo, qala ukusebenza kanzima. Ukwengeza, ukuthi ugweme izinkinga zenhliziyo yakho, bonisa abaphathi bakho zonke amakhono abo namakhono abo. Ekhaya, hhayi ukuba nesithukuthezi ukuthola okuzithokozisa okuthakazelisayo, isibonelo, i-embroider, udwebe, ubeke ngebuhlalu, wenze ubuciko obuhlukahlukene. Ngakho ngokufika kwesigamu sakho sesibili, ungalungiselela isipho esizodwa. Qaphela lokho okwamanje akudingeki isikhathi, ngokwesibonelo, qala ukufunda ulimi, bese kamuva nomthandi wakho uhambo noma ubhalise echibini ukuze uthuthukise isimo sakho, kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
Njengokungathi akukahlukanisi
Namuhla kunamathuba amaningi okuxhumana nomuntu, noma ngabe uhlala kwelinye izwekazi. Amafoni, amanethiwekhi omphakathi, i-Skype ikusiza ukuthi uhlale uxhumane futhi ubonane. Ngenxa yalokhu kuhlukaniswa kuyoba lula kakhulu.
Isikhathi sakho ozithandayo
Sekuyisikhathi sokuzithatha isikhathi, iya ku-SPA, wezinwele, ukuze uthole i-marathon yezitolo, uzithenge izimonyo ezihlukile. Ngesikhathi sokuhlukana singakwazi ukuhamba ngendlu ngesikhwama sombala ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka futhi singabi namahloni, noma silale phambi kwe-TV embhedeni kuma-pajamas akho owathandayo futhi ubuke i-melodrama.
Khulumisana
Uma enye ingxenye ingekho lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uhlale ekhaya futhi ungahambi noma kuphi. Xoxa nabangani, hamba emaphakathini, khumbula nje ukuthi konke kufanele kube ukulinganisela. Wena, futhi, ungavakashela umngane wesikole ongakabonakali iminyaka eminingi.
Ukuhlola okuhle kwengqondo
Ukuhlukaniswa kungakubonisa ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso langempela noma cha. Ubuhlobo obuningi abudluli uhlolo lokuhlukanisa futhi ngokuvamile ngenxa yalokhu umbhangqwana uqeda. Njengoba bethi, ukuhlukana, njengomoya noma ukucima umlilo wothando, noma kusiza ukuba ubonise ngisho nakakhulu. Kodwa uma konke kuvela futhi ulinde ukufika kwesigamu sakho sesibili, futhi uthando aluzange lufe, khona-ke sekuzophela.
Izindlela eziqine kakhulu
Uma ukubekezela kusegangeni futhi awukwazi ukulinda nhlobo, bese upakisha ama-suitcase
Umhlangano omelwe isikhathi eside
Lapha kufika usuku lapho ungaphinda ubambe othandekayo bakho, uzizwe ububele bakhe nokufudumala. Ucabanga ukuthi lolu suku kufanele lube luhle kakhulu, ngaphambi kokuba ucabange ukuthi uzokwenzani, udwebe njalo ngomzuzu, kodwa uma ubona amehlo akho, ukhohlwe ngakho konke futhi ungadingi isidlo sothando, izinsuku, ufuna nje ukumbumbuluza ungavumeli ukuhamba kwanoma yini enye.