Ukuze ube mnandi ... yilokho abesifazane abaningi emhlabeni abazama ngakho. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi laba abamele ubulili obuhle egazini - isifiso sokuba njalo. Sonke sifuna ukukhangisa kumadoda nakithi, ngoba kuhle kakhulu ukujabulela ukucabangela kwakho esibukweni, futhi hhayi ukugubha ngeso elilodwa kuye. Kodwa kanjani ukufeza lokhu? Uyithanda kanjani wena nabanye, wenze umqondo kumadoda? Ungaba kanjani okhangayo? Ake sibuke le nkinga ngokuningiliziwe.
Indlela yokuba intombazane ekhangayo?
Njengoba ukukhanga kunesici sangaphandle nesingaphakathi, ake sibheke ngokwehlukana, ngokusho, ukuqonda kangcono ukuthi lo mqondo uwuphi.
Ukubukeka . Ngakho-ke, iningi eliphelele labesifazane linesithakazelo sokuthi lihle kanjani futhi likhangele. Ngempela, empeleni, kusekelwe ekubukeni kwangaphandle. Ngakho-ke, amantombazane afuna ukubonakala ekhangayo, kumele uhambisane neminye imithetho yokuzinakekela. Okokuqala, kufanele uhlale ugqoke ngokuphelele . Kulesi simo, izingubo akufanele zivuselele, ngokuphambene nalokho, kufanele kube yowesifazane nenhle. Futhi kufanele uhlale unomsebenzi wokwenza okuhambisanayo kanye nekhanda noma isitayela. Okwesibili, udinga ukuqapha isibalo sakho bese uhola indlela yokuphila enempilo. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuba uhlale unesimo futhi ujabule. Okwesithathu, ungakhohlwa ukuzinakekela wena futhi uziphephe ukuphumula. Vakashela i-spa-salon, hamba ukuyothenga ... sicela uzithande wena othandekayo, ukuze ubuke njalo ujabule futhi ujabule impilo, ngoba ngaphandle kwayo akuyona into ekhangayo.
Izwe langaphakathi . Kodwa kungabalulekile kangako umbuzo wokuthi ungaba kanjani ubuhle futhi ukhangele. Enye ubuhle akwanele ukuthinta labo abaseduze nawe. Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi kwanele. Abaningi banomkhawulo ekufundeni ukuthi bangaba besifazane futhi bakhangise ngaphandle, bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kwanele. Kodwa cha. Izimfanelo zangaphakathi nazo ziyadingeka. Isibonelo, ukumnandi, ukumomotheka okuvela enhliziyweni. Sula, amehlo ahlakaniphile futhi ajabulisayo. Konke lokhu akukwazi ukufezwa ngosizo lwe-single-make-up noma yoga. Udinga ukushintsha into ngaphakathi kwakho ukuze ukhangele ngempela. Phela, mhlawumbe uqaphele ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi amantombazane abembethe kakhulu, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ehleka, eqotho futhi enomusa, akhanga kakhulu ngaphezu kokuzidla, kodwa egqoke izinto ezibiza kakhulu.
Ukuba mnandi, okukhangayo nokuthakazelisayo kulula. Shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ekuphileni, wena futhi ujabule.
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