Ukuphambana ngokobulili (ukwehluka) emadodeni nakwabesifazane kuboniswa ngokulinganayo. Izindlela zokuziphatha ezinjalo zigxekwa futhi zibhekwa ngokuzonda umphakathi.
Izinhlobo zoziphambeko zobulili
Akukho ukuhlukaniswa okuqinisekisiwe, kodwa kunezinketho eziningana ezinikezela ngezocansi, iziganga zezinkinga zokubeletha, izazi ze-psychotherapists, njll.
Enye yezinketho iphakamisa ukuhlukanisa ukwehlukana ngokobulili kanje:
- Kuye into yokukhangwa: ubu-fetishism, i-narcissism, i-pedophilia, i-necrophilia, i-transvestism, i-zoophilia, njll.
- Kuye indlela yokufeza injabulo: ukudabuka, ubuchopho, ubuciko, i-enemas, i-vampirism, i-saliromania, njll.
- Ukwehlukana kocansi okuhlukumezekayo: ukulala naye, ubungqingili, ubususualism, ubufebe kanye nobuhlanga.
Incazelo emfushane yeziphambeko ezivame kakhulu
- I-Fetishism. Kulolu cala, umuntu unomtshingo wezocansi ezingxenyeni ezithile zomzimba, izingubo noma izinto.
- Exhibitionism. Abantu abanokuphambuka bajabulela ukuboniswa kwezitho zabo zobulili.
- Pedophilia. Ukukhangwa ngokocansi ezinganeni ezincane, ngokuyinhloko, akufinyelele eminyakeni engu-12. Abantu abanenkinga enjalo bashushiswa ngumthetho.
Izimbangela zokungaziphathi ngokocansi
Sula izizathu ezingabangela ukubukeka kokuphambuka akusiyo. Kodwa nokho, ochwepheshe baveza izici eziningana ezingabangela ukuphutha ngokobulili kwabesifazane nabesilisa:
- ubuholi obubi;
- izinkinga nama-hormone;
- ukudakwa;
- ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo;
- ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo okungalungile.
Indlela yokuhlonza nokulahla?
Kunezibonakaliso eziningana ezibonisa ukuthi ukungavamile kuyisifo:
- Ukuziphatha kwakho kubangela izinkinga ezinkulu, isibonelo, ukuxoshwa emsebenzini, ukuboshwa, njll.
- Awukwazi ukulawula izenzo zakho futhi awunabo obhekene nemiphumela.
Ngokuyinhloko abantu abanokungajwayelekile okunjalo abadingi usizo lodokotela, ngoba banesibopho ngokugcwele ngezenzo zabo. Kodwa kukhona abantu abahlukunyezwayo, kusukela kunoma yikuphi ukwephulwa ngokobulili, kulokhu kwimbhalo yezinkinga zezengqondo kunezindlela eziningana ezizosiza ukubhekana nezinkinga ezinjalo.
Amasu akhethekile ahloswe ekutholeni imbangela yokuphambuka, ukunciphisa ukukhangwa kwegazi nokulungisa ukuziphatha kocansi.