Ngiyakhumbula lapho mina nabangane bami sasisemncane futhi singenamakhulu, sasivame ukuqeda ingxoxo yokuhlwa efonini ngesifiso sokuphupha amaphupho. Omunye waphupha, abanye akulona, lokhu akuyona iphuzu. Futhi iqiniso liwukuthi abesifazane abathile abangeke bavame ukuphuka kokuqukethwe okungenangqondo ukubona, ngakho-ke futhi injabulo yokubaphatha. Kungenxa yokuba ne-orgasm ephusheni.
Ukuthola i-orgasm ephusheni kuvamile?
Ngezinye izikhathi abesifazane abaye babhekana ne-orgasm ngesikhathi belele, banemibuzo mayelana nempilo yabo yengqondo. Eqinisweni, uthole i-orgasm ebusuku, ulele, ngaphandle kokugqugquzela, akunjalo? Eqinisweni, "ubugebengu" akukho lutho kulokhu, okungenani, ngombono onjalo ososayensi bathambekele. Izibalo zithi abesifazane abangama-68% babona amaphupho ahlukumezayo izikhathi ezinhlanu ngenyanga, kuyilapho abesifazane abangama-35% bethola i-orgasm ngenkathi belele. Okuhlobene nokuhlangenwe nakho okunzima kunzima ukusho, ngoba akukho ukuxhumana okusobala phakathi kokuqina komuntu wesifazane ngokocansi kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu ephusheni. Abanye besifazane bathola kanjalo ukungabi nemibono yocansi, isibonelo, ngesikhathi uhambo olude lomyeni. Abanye, benomuntu ohlangothini lwabo, bengenakuqhathanisa ukusondela kuye, ngokuzumayo bavuke kusukela e-orgasm ehlala isikhathi eside ebusuku. Futhi okuhlangenwe nakho okuqala okunjalo ephusheni kungenzeka kumantombazane kusukela ekuqaleni kwentsha. Iqiniso kuleli cala, konke kubhalwe phansi ukuhlelwa kabusha kwe-hormonal.
Ikakhulukazi kubalulekile ukutshela nge-orgasm ephusheni ekukhulelwe. Abanye abomama besikhathi esizayo bayakhathazeka kakhulu ngalokhu. Empeleni, lokhu kwenzeka kungalimaza ingane? Kulolu daba, odokotela babumbene - uma kungekho usongo lokukhipha isisu nezinye izinkinga, khona-ke i-orgasm, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iphupho noma empeleni, izosiza kuphela kokubili owesifazane okhulelwe nengane.
Ngabe amaphupho angamanga angawaphi?
Ngokomphumela wezifundo zesayensi zamaphupho okuhlukumezeka (yebo, futhi okwenziwe kanjalo), kwaphetha ngokuthi amaphupho anjalo abonakala ngabesifazane abaneminyaka engama-20-25 nangemva kweminyaka engama-40, yizikhathi ezivame ukubhekwa ngokocansi. Kodwa namanje, amaphupho ocansi asho ukuthini noma ingabe uzama ukuphumula ubuchopho obukhathele? Ekuphenduleni kwalo mbuzo ukuhlukaniswa kwamaphupho afanayo kuzosisiza. Kuvunyelwe ukuhlukanisa amaqembu amathathu: amaphupho acacile, angokomfanekiso futhi angavamile. Masikhulume ngohlobo ngalunye ngokuningiliziwe.
- Amaphupho acacile. La maphupho akhombisa izifiso zakho, ukuthi ngenxa yezizathu ezithile awukwazi ukuzenza, noma ngisho ukutshela ngabo awuboni. Isibonelo, ufuna ngempela ukuya ocansini nomqashi okhangayo, kodwa awukwazi ukukwenza (unomfazi, izingane ezintathu, futhi awukho mahhala). Lapha umzimba wakho futhi uzama ukufeza isifiso sakho ngisho nasephusheni. Futhi, amaphupho anjalo avela kumuntu isikhathi eside eshiywa ucansi. Uma isikhathi eside sokuzilahla, ngokuphindaphindiwe amaphupho, kubonisa ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, okungeke kususwe ngokoqobo. Futhi amaphupho alo mkhuba angabonisa izifiso zobulili, okungekho empilweni yangempela ongakwazi ukuzibona. Ngaso sonke isikhathi abesifazane basabheka ubulili namadoda amabili, ubulili bomlomo, ubulili nomuzi ongajwayelekile, njll.
- Amaphupho angokomfanekiso. Imfanelo yabantu abaye bakhulume ngezocansi umsebenzi wokungcolile nokungafaneleki ngenxa yokukhuliswa kwabo. Izinkimbinkimbi ezinjalo zivezwa ngamaphupho hhayi kokuqukethwe okucacile okubukeka, ubuchopho babo
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