Ngandlela-thile, abesifazane abaningi baphendukela ngezikhathi ezithile ukuthi yini eyenza ubaba alahlwe amalungelo omzali, nokuthi uzoqala kuphi le nqubo. Kulesi sihloko, sizozama ukuqonda le nkinga.
Yini edingekayo ukuze ususe uyise wamalungelo omzali?
E-Ukraine, eRussia nakweminye iminye imithetho yezomthetho, le nqubo iqhutshwa kuphela ngecala eliqalwe ngumfakisicelo isicelo sokuhlushwa ubaba wamalungelo omzali. Umzali wesibili, umgcini noma umgcini wezingane, kanye nemibuso yombuso, angaqala uvivinyo ngalolu daba. Ngokwenza njalo, omama abancane abangatholi usizo oludingekayo kubaba wabo ophilayo, bobabili ngokubheka izinto ezibonakalayo nokuziphatha, bavame ukudonsa enkantolo.
Ngokuqinisekile, ukuze kuthathe umthelela omkhulu kumzali ongenandaba, kuyodingeka ukuba kuqinisekiswe inkantolo yokuba khona kwezimo ezingenakunqotshwa, uhlu oluvunyelwe ngumthetho waseRussia ne-Ukraine. Ngesisekelo sokuthi unina unecala lokunqoba ubaba wamalungelo kababa, inqubo yokuqalisa inqubo izoxhomeka futhi.
Ngokuyinhloko, ngokuya ngesimo, ukulungiselela kwangaphambi kwecala kungabandakanya ukuthola imibhalo edingekayo ezimweni ezilandelayo:
- Esinye sezizathu ezivame ukungena ekuqedeni ukuphumelela kwecala lokunqotshwa kwamalungelo omzali kayise yikhomishana yokwahlulela okubhekiswe kumntwana noma kunina. Ezimweni ezinjalo, isinyathelo sokuqala sowesifazane ofuna ukuqala ukuqhutshwa kwenkambiso kuyoba enkantolo eyahlola icala eliphikisana nommangalelwa futhi ithole ikhophi yesigwebo, ekhombisa ukwakhiwa kobugebengu nobufakazi obukhona bokwecala lommangalelwa.
- Uma isizathu esiyinhloko sokuthatha lesi silinganiso esibucayi ukukhishwa okungalungile nokuhlala isikhathi eside sokukhokhwa kwe-alimony, ukuqeqeshwa kwangaphambi kokuhlolwa kufanele kuqale ngokuvakashela isevisi yomsizi wesikhonzi senkantolo. Kukhona okudingekayo ukuthola ulwazi mayelana nokungabikho ukukhokhelwa kokugcinwa kokudla okuphazamisa ummeli ngummangalelwa, kanye namakhophi ezinqumo zokushushiswa, uma zitholakala.
- Ngokuvamile isizathu sokuthi owesifazane uphoqeleka ukuba athathe isinyathelo esinjalo ukuthi umyeni wakhe ubhekene nesigaba esinzima sokudakwa ngokweqile noma ukulutha izidakamizwa. Kulesi simo, ukulungiswa kwamacala kufanele kuqale ngokuvakashela umkhandlu wezincwadi zemizi futhi uthole ulwazi olufanele.
- Uma ubaba ebonisa ukuhlukumeza ngokweqile futhi ephethe usongo langempela kumntwana , ukumncisha amalungelo akhe omzali kuzodingeka athole amaphepha afakazela ukuziphatha kwakhe okunganele. Ngokuyinhloko, ngale njongo, kusiza ekubizeni izingubo zamaphoyisa endlini ngenxa yobundlobongela obuvela emadodeni, izici zakhe ezivela ezimweni ezehlukene, ubufakazi bofakazi njalonjalo.
Ukwenza zonke lezi zenzo kuyadingeka ukuze uqoqe amadokhumenti ayisisekelo ekunqotheni uyise wengane yamalungelo omzali. Esikhathini esizayo kuyadingeka ukuthi ufake isicelo kumabhodi okugcina nokugcina, ngoba ukusekelwa kwabo kuyoba usizo olukhulu esikhathini sokuqulwa enkantolo.
Okokugcina, isinyathelo sokugcina kufanele sibe ukufaka isikhalazo kuziphathimandla zokwahlulela ngesitatimende sokuthi sinqatshelwe ubaba wamalungelo omzali, isampula yayo esethulwa kulesi sihloko:
