Abantu abaningi banamathele ekuhleleni okulinganiselwe kwezimpilo zabo, ngokuqondile bazi ukuthi nini futhi nini okufanele kwenzeke, hhayi ithemba lokungahleliwe kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo. Abanye abacabangi ngempilo yabo, bakhetha ukuhamba nokugeleza noma bazame ukuhlala "njengabo bonke abanye." Njengoba kungenzeka ukuthi ucabanga, labo abajwayele ukuhlelwa kwezinto zokuphila bafeze impumelelo enkulu, ngoba bayazi kahle ukuthi bafunani, futhi bayazi ukuthi yini okudingeka yenziwe ukuze bathole lokho abayifunayo.
Uhlelo lohlelo lokuhlela impilo
Ngifuna ukuphumelela komuntu wonke, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukucabanga ngamalungiselelo okuphila, kodwa lokhu kungenziwa kanjani? Kunezindlela ezimbalwa zokuhlela ukuphila komzimba, ake sikhulume ngokujwayelekile.
- Indlela yobuhle yokuhlela ukuhlela injongo yokuphila (konke noma ingxenye ethile). Isibonelo, ufuna ukuhlala endlini yakho emva kweminyaka eyi-10, unomshayeli wakho onawo futhi ube nomndeni. Uma ngabe imigomo ichazwe, hlela ekuhleleni impilo konyaka, futhi ukuze isinyathelo ngasinye sikulethe eduze komphumela wokugcina. Bhala ngale ndlela yonke iminyaka engu-10, ekhombisa etafuleni ubudala bakho.
- Le nqubo ifana nalendlela eyedlule, ehlukile yokusebenza. Lapha nawe udinga ukuchaza umgomo wakho, wenze itafula ngemigomo yonyaka, kodwa lapha udinga ukucabangela ithonya lezinto zangaphandle. Ukuthi, Ngizobuthelela imali emotweni entsha ngonyaka, kumane, kodwa kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi uzokwenza kanjani lokhu, okungavimbela ukuqaliswa kwamacebo nokuthi yini ongayisiza. Akunakwenzeka ukubona konke, kodwa kubalulekile ukucabangela lezo zenzakalo ezizofika ngempela - abazali bazokhipha umhlalaphansi, ingane izoya esikoleni, uzoqeda ukuqeqeshwa, njll. Ngakho-ke, ngokuhlela izinhlelo iminyaka, udinga ukucacisa iminyaka yakho kuphela, kodwa futhi ubale ukuthi zingakanani izihlobo zakho ezizobe ziyizihlobo zakho, ngokucacile.
- «Wheel of Life». Le nqubo kusiza ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi izindawo zokuphila kwakho okudingeka zilungiswe. Ngalokhu udinga eshidi
iphepha udwebe umbuthano bese uwahlukanisa emikhakha engu-8. Imikhakha ngayinye izoba yindlela yokuphila enjengokuthi "ukukhula komuntu siqu", "ukukhanya kokuphila", "impilo nemidlalo", "abangane kanye nemvelo", "umndeni kanye nobuhlobo", "umsebenzi kanye nebhizinisi", "imali", "ingokomoya" kanye nobuciko ». Manje udinga ukuhlola isigaba ngasinye sempilo yakho kusuka ku-1-10, lapho indawo engu-10 engcono kakhulu, futhi lapho ungadingi nakakhulu. Manje upende isondo lakho ukuze ubone ukuthi lokhu kugcwele kanjani noma leyo sphere. Ngemuva kwalokho, kuzodingeka usebenze "ukulungiswa kwesondo", okungukuthi, ukuthuthukisa isimo kulezo zindawo lapho uzibeke khona amamaki angenasisindo.
Noma ngabe iyiphi indlela oyisebenzisayo, khumbula ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuhlela konke, ngakho-ke ungesabi uma kwenzeka kungazelelwe into ethile - izingozi eziningi zingase zijabule.