Ukuphindiselela kumuntu kungaba okuhlukile, kodwa ukuthi ungayenza kanjani, ukwazi inombolo yakhe yocingo kuphela - umbuzo othize ungaphenduki. Kodwa-ke, nakuba incane, kodwa kunethuba lokuletha izinkinga ezithile ohlangothini olungenacala. Lokhu kungenxa yokwenza ngokucophelela, ngoba kukhona njalo ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi umphindiseli uzobalwa nge-IP noma inombolo yefoni yakhe.
Indlela yokuziphindiselela kumuntu oyisoni, ukwazi inombolo yakhe yocingo?
I-Psychology yamadoda inesici esithile - inzondo yokuyeka, futhi kuze kube yilapho ogcina efuna umphindiseli ukuze ajeziswe. Yingakho ungakwazi ukuphindisela ekuphindiseni, kodwa ngokucophelela, ukuze ungabanjwa.
Isithende se-Achilles cishe cishe yimuphi umuntu imoto yakhe. Ngakho-ke, into yokuqala engenziwa kungabeka izikhangisi kuzo zonke izinsiza ezikhona mayelana nokudayiswa kwayo cishe nge-pittance. Akuzona nje ukuthi ifoni "izodilizwa", ngakho-ke futhi ukungabi nalutho komnikazi wemoto kuzobhekana nomonakalo omkhulu. Uma kungekho "ukuthengisa" okuzenzakalelayo kuzikhangiso ongazenza noma yini.
Ngokufutheka kwanoma yimuphi umuntu ojwayelekile uyohola futhi abe nokusola kokuzibandakanya ngokocansi okungavumelani. Yilokho okwenzekile, ungafaka izikhangiso mayelana nokuthola umngane kwimithombo efanele.
Izingosi eziningi zokuthengiswa ngezindlela ezehlukene ze-potency noma amathoyizi e-sex acele abathengi ngenombolo yefoni ukuqinisekisa ukuthenga. Ngemuva kokuyala okuningi kwezimpahla ezinjalo efonini yomenzi wobugebengu, kuzodingeka kuyeke izingcingo.
Kuyindlela enonya kakhulu yokuziphindiselela - ukudlala indima ye-troll kwenye imithombo, bese unikeza abaphikisi abanolaka ngenombolo yefoni yomhlukumezi.
Nazi ezinye izindlela ezimbalwa zokuthukuthela umonile:
- Ukuhlukumeza umuntu ngezingcingo ezingapheli kungenzeka nge-call-back service;
- Ngesikhathi sewashi le-alamu yesevisi, isisulu singasukuma nsuku zonke, akukho ukukhanya, ukusa;
- ngokusebenzisa isevisi yemilayezo yamahhala kungenzeka ukuthi ugcwalise umenzi wobugebengu nge-avalanche yemilayezo ye-SMS;
- efonini kuzofika ugaxekile oluningi, uma uxhuma amaphephandaba ezinkundleni ezinikeza ukukhushulwa, izaphulelo, izikweletu, njll.
Ungabuyisela kanjani inombolo yocingo yowesifazane?
Ezinye izindlela ezihloselwe amadoda, ngemuva kokwenza izinguquko ezithile, ziyakwazi ukuphazamisa owesifazane. Isibonelo, ungabeka inani lenkosikazi kumthombo lapho "abapristikazi bothando" banikeza khona imisebenzi yabo. Kodwa-ke, uma kunamaqembu okungaqondakali noma okushaqisayo kanye ne-SMS-spam, owesifazane kungenzeka ukuba ashintshe ngokushesha inombolo yocingo.
Uma unamandla okukhuthazela futhi ulinde ukuphindiselela kowesifazane ungaba yinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Isibonelo, bonisa ukumangalela kwemfihlo. Bambalwa abesifazane abayomelana nokuhlaselwa komnumzane othandanayo nomsindisi, owehliswayo noma okhohlisayo, unenombolo yabathandekayo futhi ulele ngombhalo wakhe we-lyric and frank. Futhi ungabonisa ukuxhumana kwakho obuseduze kumyeni wakho, umngane noma obaziyo abesifazane.
Indlela yokujezisa umuntu owazi ifoni yakhe, futhi angangeni enkingeni?
Uma ucabanga ukuphindiselela, umuntu kufanele agcine engqondweni ukuthi ezinye zezindlela azizinhle neze. Ngokomthetho, awukwazi ukuphazamisa ubuthongo bokulala kwabantu, ubhidliza
Futhi uma umhlukumezi engenzi lutho olungakwethulwa enkulumweni yenkantolo, kungcono ukuthi wenqabe ukuphindiselela ngokuphelele. Bheka amasu angcolile alo muntu ngokuqondene nezenzo zomuntu oseduze. Futhi impindiselo, cishe, iyokwenza impilo ngokwayo. Emva kwakho konke, umuntu uthola njalo lokho yena ngokwakhe akuthumela njenge-boomerang.