Ekhuluma ngokusebenza kwengqondo, abantu bavame ukuhlanganyela nomqondo wokuzwela ngokomzimba kulabo okwenzeka ekhanda lethu. Le ncwadi ingenye yezimbalwa ezikuvumela ukuba uvule amehlo akho ezintweni ezingathandwa kakhulu ezithandweni ebuchosheni bethu - ukuzwa komzimba.
Kuvela ukuthi izingqikithi ezifana "nosuku olukhuni", "unembeza ohlanzekile" noma "ukwamukelwa okufudumele" kubonisa ngempela ukuthi sibona kanjani ukuzwa komzimba. Ukuhamba eduze kwesihlabathi kusenza sibe mncane kunokuhamba ngokukhonkolo kanzima, futhi ukuthatha indebe efudumele yekhofi kanye ne-vanilla iphunga ithuthukise isimo sethu sengqondo futhi sivumele ukuba sithembeke kwabanye.
Le ncwadi ihlolisisa izici ezilandelayo zethonya kwi-psychology:
- Imizwa yokushisa
- Umthelela we-invoyisi
- Umphumela wombala, izahluko ngabanye zigqanyiswe ngombala ogqamile - obomvu
- Ithonya lebanga kanye nendawo ye "umngcele wengqondo" esimweni sengqondo somuntu
- Ithonya lobukhulu bomuntu ngesimo sakhe
- Ukungcola nokuhlanzeka
- Ukuthinta ukunambitheka nokuphunga emanzini womuntu
- Umthelela wezinye izifanekiso nokusetshenziswa kwazo
Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi le ncwadi ngezinye izikhathi ichaza iqiniso elifanayo emakhasini amaningi, liqukethe amaqiniso amaningi awusizo futhi iveza kahle ngokubaluleka kwayo emqondweni. Okuwukuphela kwalokho ukuthi kwakungekho into ebangelwa ukuzwa umsindo, ngokombono wami, okubaluleke kakhulu ekuthonyeni umuntu.