Ubudlelwano kude

Esikhathini sethu, ukuhlala kobudlelwane bebanga kanye nemindeni kuyiqiniso lapho abantu abaningi bahlala khona. Futhi eside ngokwanele. Ingabe lokhu kungenzeka ubuhlobo obugcwele kude?

Intuthuko yesayensi nezobuchwepheshe isinikeze usizo olukhulu kakhulu ukuze sikwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle ngempumelelo. Lokhu kuyisithuthi esisheshayo, futhi ukukhulumisana okusheshayo kusho ukuthi ungakhulumisana kanjani ngempela - kuze kube yilapho umndeni ohlanganyelwe ukudla ngekhandlela.

Ukuthi ubuhlobo obunjalo obude bugcwele kangakanani, buxhomeke kubantu kuphela, izidingo zabo kulezi zingxoxo kanye nemizamo abazimisele ukuyenza.

Futhi lapha akusiyo nje ngomndeni futhi mayelana nokusekwa kakade, ubuhlobo obuseduze. Intombazane ekhululekile efuna ukusebenzelana nengxenye yakhe, futhi, ngeke ibuhlungu ukwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane kude. Phela, le nkinga iba ngaphezulu njalo ngonyaka, futhi ngoba ubudlelwane abukwazi ukuqhubeka nje kude ngenxa yezinto ezithile zomsebenzi noma isifundo, isibonelo, kodwa nokubandakanyeka ngale ndlela.

Imvelaphi yobuhlobo bomuntu siqu kude

Kuphela kulabo engangibajwayele kukhona inombolo enkulu yemibhangqwana eyahlangana ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi, amaforamu noma amasayithi okuphola online. Mhlawumbe, ukuthola umphefumulo wakho womlingani kwinethiwekhi yomhlaba wonke manje kulula kunobusuku obubusuku. Futhi noma ngabe kwenzeka ukuba wazi kangcono lapho udlula khona, wazi ukuthi i-akhawunti yakho yokukhathalela kwakho ku-"Odnoklassniki" noma "Kuxhumana" ingaba inketho ekhangayo nakakhulu kunomakhalekhukhwini omuhle. Phela, akusiyo imfihlo ukuthi kunzima kwabanye abantu ukuba benze umbono wokuqala, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukumelana nokuthanda kwabo!

Ngokufanayo kungase kungabi ncane yokukhulumisana kude. Ngokuvamile umfanekiso womuntu enethiwekhi ukhanya futhi ukhangele ngaphezu kwalokho akhona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho sisebenzelana nomuntu engekho, thina ngokwethu siqala ukufakazela ezinye izici, siyiqonde, futhi iqiniso lingadumaza ngokungahambisani nalokho esikulindele.

Cabanga ukuthi ekugcineni sithole umuntu ngaphandle kokungabonakali kwethu okukhona. Manje ekuseni yethu iqala ngesignali ye-sonorous ye-ICQ, futhi kusihlwa kudlule ngemuva kwe-Skype.

Ungalondoloza kanjani ubuhlobo kude futhi uwasindise?

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona ubuhlobo obuseduze bakho, isikhathi kuphela sizobonisa. Ngempela, ukusekelwa kwanoma yikuphi ubudlelwane kuwumzamo, futhi kuhlangene, futhi ngisho nasekude - ngisho nangaphezulu. Amathuba akhuphuka ekukhuphukeni uma ukuhlukaniswa kungokwengqayizivele noma esikhathini esizayo esizobona ukuthi uhlela ukuhlangana.

Empeleni, i-psychology ebuhlotsheni obuseduze kuyisikole esihle sokulalela, ukwethenjwa nokuhloniphana komunye nomunye.

Isimiso esiyinhloko - ungasebenzisi i-ICQ noma i-Skype ukuze uthole ubuhlobo. Kuwe nje kuyindlela yokuxhumana ekude, ukwabelana ngolwazi mayelana nokuthi uhlalaphi, kunokuphefumula. Yakha izinhlelo ezihlangene, ukushintshanisa konke okwenzekile ngosuku, okufanelekile ukunakwa noma ukuhlekisa nje. Lalela lokho okushiwo kuwe, futhi uqaphelisise ukusabela emazwini akho - uma usebenza kude, kulula kakhulu ukuphuthelwa umzuzu lapho umuntu efuna ukwesekwa nozwela noma wazi ukuthi kukhona okungalungile. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ukukhulumisana kwansuku zonke akusho ukuthi kube ngokomthetho futhi akuguquki.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina nesithakazelo sobulili komunye nomunye, ngakho-ke uthando lwamabandla aluguquli ubungane obulula. Mhlawumbe, kwakungenxa yale njongo ukuthi beza namakhamera wewebhu!

Ukuvakashelwa komunye nomunye, yiqiniso, akusizi ezishibhile, kodwa kubalulekile kakhulu ubudlelwane obude. Othandekayo, okungenani okungenani uhamba nawe ukuvakashela, uzoholela kubantu, bese ufudumala umbhede wakho - ubuncane obudingekayo intombazane ngayinye. Imihlangano kuphela ayifanele ibe yodwa. Yiqiniso, izinkumangazi zenza ukuphila kwethu kukhanye, kodwa umsebenzi ongabaluleki osukwini "olufanayo" ungabacasula bobabili isikhathi eside!

Futhi ungahlali emhlanganweni ukuya emhlanganweni! Ukuphila okuthakazelisayo okuholela kukho, kuzoba nesithakazelo kumthandi wakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyoba nesikhathi esincane semicabango edabukisayo.

Yiqiniso, akuzona zonke izihlobo ezizodlula ukuhlolwa okunjalo. Kodwa ngubani owakutshele ukuthi kukhona okuqinisekisayo? Akuwona wonke umbhangqwana onethuba lokubona usuku ngalunye futhi aphile ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa, aphenduke imindeni enhle kakhulu. Noma ingabe ngandlela-thile iwavikela ekuhlaselweni? Kulula.

Thembelana, kholwa ukuthi uzophumelela, futhi unakekele uthando lwakho!