Uma usungabangane abaseduze, kodwa manje akunjalo, izindlela ziye zahlukanisa izindlela futhi wonke umuntu uphila izimpilo zakhe, kuphela ukukhumbula omunye, kodwa azama ukusungula uxhumano noma ukugcina ubuhlobo obuhlelekile. Futhi ngolunye usuku waphupha nge-intombi yangaphambili, futhi kwaphakama umbuzo, kusho ukuthini leli phupho.
Okokuqala, kufanele ucabange ukuthi kungani unesithakazelo kakhulu kulephupho. Ingabe kwakukhona isimo esingavamile, uzizwa ungaqondakali futhi ngemva kokuvusa noma iphupho lapho uvele khona intombazane yangaphambili, waba isimanga esikhulu ngoba uqiniseke ukuthi ukhohliwe ngakho?
Kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, amaphupho angomunye wemibonakaliso yokuqonda kwethu, okuyinto ekuphileni kwansuku zonke esikucindezelayo. Ukulawulwa kwengqondo kunciphisa lapho silala, umuntu ongenandaba naye unethuba lokusikhumbuza ngalokho okusikhathazayo, nakuba singavumelani nathi.
Cabanga ukuthi kungani uke ukhulume, uma ngabe omunye wabathintekayo ugcine izikhalazo zakhe. Uma izimo zokuphila zivele zenzeke, isibonelo, uhambise, futhi ingxoxo yancipha kancane kancane, mhlawumbe ulahlekelwa futhi usanda kukukhumbula ngakho. Uma ngabe ukukhulumisana kuyekile ngenxa yokuphikisana okukhulu, mhlawumbe ukuhlambalaza akuzange kugxeke noma kukhona umuzwa wecala. Iziphetho ezingaphezulu zingadonselwa kuphela ngokuhlaziya okuqukethwe kwephupho elithile.
Enye impendulo yombuzo othi "intombi yangaphambili iphupha ngani" kungenzeka ukuthi ukhokhela kakhulu esikhathini esidlule futhi ukhohlwa ukubheka phambili futhi ucabange ngekusasa.
Dream Interview - wangaphambili umngane
Ukuchazwa kwamaphupho ngokuhlanganyela komngani omkhulu, ukuxhumana okuye kwaphela, kungatholakala nakwezincwadi zephupho. Eziningi zezincwadi zephupho zithi uma ubungumuntu omuhle kuye, iphupho elinjalo lithembisa izinkinga, izingxabano nezihlobo nokuxabana nomlingani wakho. Uma, ephusheni, uphikisana nomngane wakho, khona-ke lokhu, ngokuphambene nalokho, kuyisibonakaliso esihle - ubuhlobo buzophuthuka.
Futhi, la maphupho ahlotshaniswa nenhlebo ehlukahlukene, inhlebo kanye namawindi ngemuva kwakho, ngakho kufanele
I-Psychoanalysis ithi futhi intombazane, noma ngabe ingubani, kunoma yikuphi ukuphikisana ngokobulili, okungaba yisixwayiso mayelana nezinkinga ezingenzeka ebuhlotsheni nomlingani.
Noma kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukulala kungathwala uhlobo oluthile lokuxwayisa futhi kuthinte impilo yakho kuphela uma ubambelela kakhulu kulo. Uma kungenjalo, kuyohlala nje iphupho.