Ikati elibomvu, elibonwe ephusheni, lihlanganisa izimpawu eziphikisanayo: isilwane esithandekayo nombala womlilo. Ukuze uchaze iphupho, kubalulekile ukukhumbula isakhiwo esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka.
Kungani uphupha ikati elibomvu?
Ngokuvamile lokhu iphupho linokuxhumana nomhlaba wangaphakathi womuntu. Ikati enkulu ebomvu ibonisa ukuthi ulalela umuntu empilweni yangempela. Mhlawumbe othile ukuxhaphaza ngendlela ekhohlisayo. Ukuze ubulili obuhle, iphupho ngekati elibomvu yisixwayiso mayelana nokuvela kwezinkinga zomuntu othandekayo. Kwezinye izimo, lokhu kungaba uphawu lokungathengi. Kubantu, iphupho lapho kubonakala khona ikati elibomvu, libikezela umhlangano wesifazane oqinile futhi ozimele.
Uma ubambe ikati ezandleni zakho ephusheni, lokhu kuyisixwayiso sokuthi kunezitha endaweni eseduze. Ukuze ubone ukuthi isilwane sageza kanjani, kusho ukuthi umhlangano ongalindelekile nomuntu omnandi uzokwenzeka ngokushesha. Waphupha ikati elibomvu elihlaselayo - liwuphawu lokushaqeka okukhulu ngokomzwelo. Uma ungase unikele isilwane esilweni, izinkinga zizophela masinyane, ngaphandle kokuthinta impilo. Umbono ebusuku, lapho inja egijima khona ngemuva kwekati elibomvu, kubonisa ukuthi kufanelekile ukuba qotho kubangane, njengoba noma yikuphi ukuhlakanipha kungathinta kabi isimo sengqondo nabo.
Ukuze uphuphe ikati elibomvu, izinwele zakhe ezidwetshwe emthunzini omnyama, kusho ukuthi ungathembela ekuthuthukiseni impilo nempilo. Uma umbala ulula, kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi emsebenzini kudingekile ukwenza ukhetho olujulile: ukugcina ubuhlobo nabalingani bakho noma ukuqhubekela phambili emkhakheni wezemfundo emakhanda. Iphupho, lapho ikati elibomvu lidonsa khona igundane, lixwayisa ngobukhona bezinhlezi neziningi eziningi. Uma isilwane sesifinyelele umgomo wayo, khona-ke uzobe uhlushwa kakhulu ezenzweni zezitha.