Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umuntu angaphendukela ekuhlangenwe nakho kweminyaka eyinkulungwane yezindlela zasempumalanga zokuhlela izingane ezizayo. Okokuqala, lawa amaphilisi aseShayina naseJapane okukhulelwa.
Izinzuzo zamasu aseMpumalanga:
- ukukhululeka kokusetshenziswa;
- vumela ukunquma ubulili bomntwana ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa;
- ikhono lokuhlela ucansi lomntwana ozayo.
Itafula laseShayina lokukhulelwa ngokuzalwa komama
Le nqubo yenza kube lula ukubala ubulili bomntwana, ngokususelwa eminyakeni yobudala nenyanga yokukhulelwa. Ukubala ubulili bomntwana, kwanele ukusebenzisa ikhalenda yokukhulelwa ngokweminyaka kamama. Ingxenye yayo engenhla enezingqimba ikhombisa izinyanga zokukhulelwa kwengane (kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-12). Ingxenye eqondile yekhalenda iqukethe idatha ekuzalweni komama (kusuka ku-18 kuya ku-45).
Indlela yokunquma ubulili bengane ngenkathi unina?
- Khetha ubudala bomama ngakolunye uhlangothi.
- Okulandelayo, sinquma inyanga yokukhulelwa kwengane.
- Emkhakheni wezinombolo zokuqala, sithola ubulili bomntwana ozayo (M - mfana, D - intombazane).
Uma umama wesikhathi esizayo eneminyaka engu-30 ubudala, futhi ukukhulelwa kwengane kwenzeka ngoSeptemba, khona-ke ingane cishe iyintombazane .
Kulesi simo, ithebula lokukhulelwa lokuzalwa komama libuye likuvumele ukuba uhlele ucansi lomntwana ozayo. Kudingekile ukuthi ubale uhlangothi oluhlukile lwezinyanga ezingu-9 kusukela ngenyanga yokulethwa okuhleliwe. Uma kwenzeka umphumela ungahambisani nawe, ungashintsha usuku lokukhulelwa.
Ukwenza izibalo ngonyaka womama, kungcono ukuhlela ukukhulelwa kwengane kungekhona emkhakheni wezinkathi zokushintsha kocansi. Lokhu kuzonciphisa amathuba okuphutha.
Kubalulekile ukucabangela ngokucophelela ukunemba kwedatha. Ukunemba kwezinsuku eyodwa noma ezimbili kunganikeza imiphumela ehluke ngokuphelele.
Ithebula laseJapane
AmaJapane akholelwa ukuthi ubulili bendodana yesikhathi esizayo buxhomeke kokubili umama nobaba. Ngakho-ke, etafuleni laseJapane ukucacisa ubulili wengane okudingayo ukuthi ungazazi kuphela umama, kodwa futhi nobaba. Futhi futhi inyanga yokukhulelwa kwengane.
Indlela yaseJapane isekelwe ekubalweni okusekelwe amathebula amabili.
Okokuqala kuqukethe idatha ekuzalweni kwabazali.
Itafula lesibili libonisa izinyanga zokukhulelwa kwengane.
Indlela yokubala ubulili bomntwana etafuleni laseJapane?
Etafuleni lokuqala emkhakheni wezinyanga zokuzalwa kwabazali esizayo sithola isibalo kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-12.
Ukusebenzisa itafula lesibili, sishiya idatha etholakalayo emgqeni ophezulu ngokuzenzekelayo.
Iziphambano ezingaphezu kobulili obulodwa noma enye emkhakheni wezinhlamvu ezitholakalayo nenyanga yokukhulelwa - kuphakama amathuba okuthi intombazane noma umfana uzozalwa.
Isibonelo, uma umama esizayo ezalwa ngo-Agasti, nobaba ngoJune - isibalo esisezingeni lesikhampasi sizoba ngu-12. Uma ukukhulelwa kwaba ngo-Okthoba, kungenzeka ukuthi umfana uzozalwa.
Indlela yaseJapane ayivumeli kuphela ukucacisa ubulili bezingane ezizayo , kodwa futhi ukubikezela okufunayo.
Ikuphi ikhalenda ephumelela kakhulu? Kunzima ukunikeza impendulo engavamile.
Khetha okukhethwa kukho okufanele kakhulu kuwe. Kwanele ukuhlola ithebula laseJapane nelaseShayina lokukhulelwa ngesikhatsi semama kakade abantwana abazelwe.
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