Kungani kuyiphupho lokulwa ngumbuzo othakazelisayo ovela njalo kulabo abavakashelwe iphupho elinjalo. Njengomthetho, iphupho elinjalo liveza ezinye izingxabano nokuphikisana empilweni yangempela, kodwa ukuchazwa okunembile kunokwenzeka uma kucacisa imininingwane yombono ebusuku.
Kungani uthanda ukulwa nommese?
Uma ephusheni uzibona njengomkhwa ohlomile noma into efanayo, kusho ukuthi maduze uzoba nenhlanhla. Uma uye ngesikhathi esifanayo empini, uye phambili ube nenkathi ende ejabulisayo empilweni yakho, lapho konke kuzosebenza. Uma ulahlekelwa noma ulimale empini, khona-ke inhlanhla empilweni yangempela izoba ekuqedeni ezinye izinkinga zakho ezikhona kakade.
Kungani uphupha ukulwa nendoda, owesifazane?
Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngubani ophikisana nawe. Uma umphikisi engumuntu, khona-ke kukhona ukuhumusha okuhlukile. Ukulwa nomthandi kusho ukuthi empilweni yangempela ukuvumelanisa nokuqonda okufanayo kuyoba khona ebuhlotsheni bakho. Uma umphikisi engumyeni, khona-ke lokhu kubonisa isongo esiseduze sokulwa komndeni, kudingeka uqaphele futhi ungavumeli ukuhlaselwa. Uma lokhu kuyilwa noyihlo, kusho ukuthi unezinhlobo ezithile zokungaqondi ngezihlobo noma ziphazamisa kakhulu ezindabeni zakho zomuntu siqu. Ukulwa nomfazi okhethekile kusho,
Kungani ukuphuza ukulwa nomuntu oshonile?
Amaphupho lapho ungene khona ekuxabaneni nabantu abafile angabuye abukwe ngezindlela ezahlukene. Uma umuntu oshonile engazi wena, kodwa wazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi lo muntu ufile, khona-ke maduzane uzoba nokuhlolwa kwamandla. Uma wazi oshonile ngesikhathi sokuphila, khona-ke ukulwa ephusheni ngokuhlanganyela kwakhe kusho ukulangazelela, ukuzizwa unesizungu , ukucindezeleka.