Umuntu ngamunye unobungane bakhe nesikebhe sezindiza: omunye umuntu uthi uyayeka abantu bakhe abathandekayo, omunye umuntu ophikisana naye uyajabula emhlanganweni owakulinde isikhathi eside. Ukuchazwa kwamaphupho lapho kuvela khona isikhumulo sezindiza, kubalulekile ukuqhuba ucabangela imininingwane yalokho okubonwayo. Lena yindlela kuphela yokuthola ulwazi olunokwethenjelwa.
Kungani isikhumulo sezindiza siphupha?
Uma iphupho elinjalo libonwa owesifazane oshadile, esikhathini esizayo esiseduze impilo yakhe yombuso izoshintsha noma amathuba amasha azovela. Iphupho, lapho isikhumulo sezindiza sithwele khona abantu, sigcizelela ukufika kwesikhathi esihle ekuphileni. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, kuyoba nethemba elikhangayo elizokuvumela ukuba unikezele khona wena nomndeni wakho ubuhle obuhle.
Ukuphupha kwesikhumulo sezindiza esingenalutho, ngokushesha maduze isimo sakho sezezimali sizoshintsha kakhulu. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi kunconywa ukuba uphathe imali yakho ngokucophelela futhi ungenzi ukuthenga okungadingekile.
Ukuze uchaze kahle iphupho lapho ubona khona isikhumulo sezindiza, kufanelekile ukunaka ukubonakala kwalo. Uma lesi sakhiwo sasihle futhi sisha, khona-ke ungabonakalisa emsebenzini futhi mhlawumbe uphakamise izinga lezemisebenzi. Uma ukwakhiwa kusekudala futhi kungcolile, izithembiso zakho ngeke zigcwaliseke.
Ephusheni uthola ukubhaliswa esikhumulweni sezindiza - isibonakaliso sokuthi uzoba nethuba lokubona izinhlelo zakho zokuhlala isikhathi eside, isibonelo, ungakhuthazwa ngezinga lezemisebenzi. Iphupho lapho ufike khona kusikhumulo sezindiza yendiza liwuphawu lokuthi awukakulungeli umthwalo wemfanelo futhi ezingeni elingenasisindo liyesaba izibopho ezibekiwe kuwe. Umhumushi wephupho ukhuthaza ukuthi uchithe isikhathi esincane phakathi nalesi sikhathi ukuba ube yedwa nawe futhi uqonde konke, mhlawumbe uzoshintsha kakhulu izinhlelo zakho ngekusasa. Uma intombazane encane ibona isikhumulo sezindiza ephusheni, ngokushesha umuntu uzovela empilweni yakhe, ongakwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo obungathí sina.