Phendula ngobuqotho umbuzo: "Phakathi nonyaka, ingabe wake waphikisana nomuntu, ngisho nangezizathu ezincane?" Kukhona amathuba amakhulu ukuthi iningi lizophendula ngokuzethemba. Emva kwakho konke, izingxabano - lokhu kungukuntula okuvamile kokuqonda, isivumelwano phakathi kweqembu, abantu ababili futhi kubalulekile ukwazi indlela ngayinye yokuxazulula kwabo okunokuthula.
Izazi zengqondo zanamuhla zithinta umbono wokuthi ukungaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi kungenzeka ngendlela enhle, ekuboneni kuqala, ithimba. Futhi isizathu esiyinhloko, esiba yi-apple yokungaqondani ekukhulumisaneni komuntu, ukukhona kwezinhlobo ezithile zobuntu obuphikisanayo:
- uzwela;
- abadala abadala;
- ukugxeka ngokweqile;
- ukuhlukunyezwa;
- ngokuzithengela ngokwanele, njll.
Izindlela nezindlela zokuxazulula izinkinga
- Ukuncintisana. Uma unamathela kule ndlela yokuphuma ezimpikiswaneni ezingathandeki, khona-ke kufanele ngenxenye uvume isikhundla se-interlocutor yakho. Ngenxa yesisombululo sokungqubuzana, impikiswano ixazululwa ngokushesha, kodwa akukho siqinisekiso sokuthi ngale ndlela uzothola isizathu sokuvela kwezingxabano ebuhlotsheni.
- Ukuqeda izingxabano zomphakathi, sebenzisa izindlela ezilandelayo zokuxazulula:
- faka inqubo yokuxhumana nomphikisi wakho (izingxoxo, ukuxhumana, okungenayo imibala engokomzwelo, izincwadi zebhizinisi);
- sebenzisana. Hlanganisa nohlangothi oluphambene nomsebenzi ofanayo, abaholi beqembu basebenzisa ukudala ingozi engaphandle yangaphandle, imizamo ehlangene okukwazi ukunqoba ukungavumelani;
- ukuqiniswa - sebenzisa izinhlelo ezingancibilikisa iqhwa lokuzonda (isibonelo, tshela umphikisi wakho mayelana nezenzo zakho, ugcizelela ukuthi zihloswe ekuxazululweni okuphumelelayo kwalesi simo.