Umqondo wokugqugquzelwa kwengqondo kubhekisela ekuthandweni komuntu ekufezeni izifiso zomuntu. Lena inqubo engokwengqondo evusa umuntu ukuba abonise isinyathelo futhi amkhuthaze ukuba enze okuthile. Umqondo kanye nomqondo wokugqugquzela uhlanganisa zonke izinqubo ezihlukahlukene: ngokomzimba, ukuziphatha, ubuhlakani kanye nengqondo. Ngenxa yalezi zinqubo, ukuzimisela komuntu kunqunywa ezimweni ezithile.
Ekhuluma ngomqondo wokugqugquzela, kubalulekile ukukhuluma nomqondo wezisusa. Isizathu sihloko esithile, esenza umuntu enze izenzo ezithile. Isizathu sizobe umgomo obekiwe, ngenxa yokuthi ukukhetha kwezenzo nezenzo zomuntu kunqunywa.
Umqondo nezinhlobo zokugqugquzela
- Isizathu esingaqiniseki. Lolu hlobo lokugqugquzela ludinga ukuqiniswa okuqhubekayo okuqhubekayo.
- Isisusa esiqinile. Lolu hlobo lokugqugquzela lusekelwe kuzidingo nezidingo zomuntu ngamunye.
- Isisusa esibi. Kulesi simo, isisusa sizosekelwe ekukhuthazeni okungalungile, okubi. Isibonelo, singacacisa inkulumo edumile enamaphiko: "Ngizofisa izindlebe zami kumama wami."
- Isizathu esihle. Izikhuthazo, ngokulandelana, zizokwenza kahle. Isibonelo: "Ngizofunda kahle esikhungweni, uthole idiploma ebomvu futhi ngibe ngugugu owaziwa kakhulu".
- Isisusa sangaphakathi. Ayihlangene nezimo zangaphandle. Lolu hlobo lokugqugquzela luvela ngokuzenzekelayo ngaphakathi komuntu ngokwakhe. Ake sithi unesifiso esinamandla sokuhamba ngomkhumbi. Isisusa sangaphakathi singaba umphumela wesisusa sangaphandle somuntu.
- Isisusa sangaphandle. Kuzalwa ngezimo zangaphandle. Isibonelo, ufunde ukuthi osebenza naye ushiye ukuphumula eFrance. Ngemuva kwalokho, unesisusa sokugcina imali edingekayo ukuze uhambe futhi ubone i-Notre Dame Cathedral ngokwayo.