Ukuhlakanipha kungumphumela wokukhulisa okuhle nokulungile. Emndenini onobungane akuvunyelwe ukuhlambalazana bese uphakamisa amazwi abo. Izingane zithatha isibonelo kubazali bazo, ngakho-ke qaphela inkulumo yakho! Lapho besencane, bayabopha abantu abadala ngokungazi. Futhi lapho bekhula, bamukela imikhuba nemikhuba yamalungu omndeni wabo. Abazali kudingeka bafundise ingane ngengqondo okumele ihlonishwe engxoxweni. Incazelo yokuhlakanipha: ukufanelekela ukuba ugcine, hhayi ukucwilisa ukuthuka, ube mntekente, uhloniphe, unesizotha futhi ubekezelele - lezi yizisho zamagama acacile.
Abantu abanezici ezinjalo eziphawulekayo zobuningi babe nabanye abazungezile. Ngabo, kuhle futhi kukhululekile. Abantu abanobuqili bakhanga abanye ngokuziphatha kwabo, bawasebenzise ngokushesha futhi kalula ulimi oluvamile.
Ukuhlakanipha ekukhulumisaneni
Ukuze usebenze nabantu abahlukene, ukuhlakanipha, ukucabangela nokuzwela, kunenani elikhulu. Abantu abanjalo bayohlonishwa emphakathini, futhi bayoba nempumelelo.
Esikhathini sethu, sivame ukuhlangana nokungacabangi. Abantu abaningi abasha bajwayele lokhu ukuthi bayeka ukuqaphela futhi banakekele. Ngeshwa, asikho isikhathi esanele sokuchaza izimiso nezimfanelo zokuziphatha. Manje izimvo eziqondile zingenzeka ekubukeni komuntu ongaphandle. Futhi imfundiso engavumiyo yokuphila neseluleko, indlela yokwenza ngayo, iyamukeleka. Izinga lemfundo laphela ukubonakaliswa ngemikhuba emihle. Ngisho nabantu abasondelene nabo, abangane bayavuma ukucasula omunye ngenhloso, becabanga ukuthi kuyimvelo ngempela.
Kodwa akusikho konke okulahlekile! Singashintsha okuningi ngokuqala nathi. Kwanele kwalokhu kufunwa kakhulu.
Ake sibeke ukuhlolwa
Kulokhu sidinga:
- ikhono lokuthethelela;
- ikhono lokuthembeka;
- ukubekezela okungenamkhawulo;
- Inhlonipho;
- ukuzithiba;
- ikhono lokubala ku-20.
Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngamunye wethu angalungile. Vele ubukele inkulumo yakho nokuziphatha kwakho. Kunoma yisiphi isimo, ungalahlekelwa ithemba futhi uhlale unesineke.
Ukuzama ukuthi thina ngokwethu sifunde ukukhalipha futhi ngokungaqondile sifundise ukuhlonipha nokuhlakanipha kwabantu esibaxhumana nabo, abasisizungezile.
- Sifunda ukwenza ngokuhlakanipha. Asikhombisi amaphutha futhi asigxeka.
- Umsebenzi wethu ukukhombisa isibonelo esifanele ngokuziphatha kwethu. Ngempela, kuphela lapho sihlakulela ekudleni kwethu nokuhlakanipha, khona-ke sizoba nelungelo lokuhlulela ukungacabangi kwabanye.
- Esimweni lapho kunesifiso sokuveza zonke izinto ezimbi ozicabangelayo, cabanga ukuthi lokhu kuqinisa isimo. Uma sikhathazeka umuntu, ufuna ukuzivikela: uyazilungisa, akavumeli amaphutha akhe. Khona-ke, uyathukuthelela, futhi awuzukufeza lutho ngalutho, nje ukuphanga ubuhlobo naye. Ubeka ngokumelene nawe uma uchitha yonke into engalungile.
- Khumbula, ubuyela kuwe emva kwesikhathi esithile. Kodwa ingabuya kuphela ngakolunye uhlangothi nangaphezulu
amplitude. - Kuthiwani uma ukubekezela sekuvele sekuphelile? Lapha-ke, ukuzithiba kuya usizo futhi ikhono lokubala ku-20.
- Siyazimela endaweni yomuntu ophikisana naye, sizama ngobuqotho ukumqonda nokumthethelela. Asazi izizathu zangempela zokuziphatha kwakhe okubi. Cishe, wayenenkinga emndenini. Noma uziveza kanjalo, efuna ukunakekelwa, okuyinto enqatshelwe. Mhlawumbe kudinga ukuxhumana, kodwa akwazi ukuzibonakalisa. Ukwenza lokhu ngendlela elula - ukukhwabanisa. Kunoma yikuphi, akajabuli, ngakho-ke uyakhalaza ngalokhu emphakathini ...
Akukaze kube sekwephuzile ukuzama okuthile okungcono. Ukubekezela nokucabangela kungumsebenzi omkhulu obeka phambi komuntu ngezikhathi zonke.