Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izingane ezincane zingabonakala zincane kangakanani, zinezici zayo eziyingqayizivele, izici ezivelele kakhulu ezivele zibonakala eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila kwengane.
Yini enquma uhlobo lomntwana?
Ukwakhiwa kwemvelo yengane akukwenzeki ebusuku. Ithonywe yizici ezilandelayo:
- ukufeza;
- ukukhuliswa;
- ukuziphatha kwabazali;
- imvelo (inkulisa, isikolo).
Ekuqaleni kwempilo, kukhona isibonelo esicacile sokulingisa - abazali bakhe abathandekayo. Uyakwazi ukukopisha ngokuziphatha ngokucophelela nangokungazi ukuthi baziphatha kanjani, okuwukuphela kwakhe okulungile. Kamuva, lapho umbuthano wokukhulumisana kwakhe ukhula, ingane iyamangala ukubona ukuthi kunabanye abantu abaningi emhlabeni, abakhulu nabancane, abangakwazi ukuziphatha ngendlela ehluke kakhulu, futhi udonsa ulwazi ngokuxhumana nomunye wabo.
Isimo somntwana wakho
Ingane, ngisho nonyaka oneminyaka eyodwa ubudala, isivele umuntu. Futhi unehlobo oluthile lwesimo sengqondo, esinqunywe yizici zakhe siqu zobuntu kanye nokuziphatha, kanye nesimo sezinto eziphathekayo zomntwana. Njengoba uyazi, kunezinhlobo ezine eziyisisekelo zokwakheka komuntu: i-sanguine, i-choleric, i-phlegmatic ne-melancholic. Ake sithole ukuthi zingobani nokuthi banganquma kanjani isimo sengqondo somntwana.
- I-Sanguine ichaza isimo esivulekile, somusa, ikhono lokubheja kalula, "ubuqili" bomlingiswa, amandla. Ngokuvamile, laba abaholi beqoqo labantwana, kubo abaholi abahle bakhula.
- Ingane ye-choleric inomzwelo kakhulu, ifuna, ngisho ilaka. Uyakwazi ukukhishwa ngentshiseko uhlobo oluthile lwebhizinisi, kodwa uma kukhona okungamsebenzi kuye, angase abe nobudlova. I-Choleric ijwayele ukuguquka kwemizwa njalo.
- Uhlobo lwe-fhlegmatic of temperament lunqunywa yizimfanelo ezifana nokuphuza, ukuzinza ngokomzwelo, ukukhuthazela. I-phlegmatic ivame ukuvilapha, ubuso bakhe bubukeka bungaqondakali, ujwayele ukujwayela konke okusha isikhathi eside.
- Ingane enesimo sokuqhaqhazela ngokweqile ngokuvamile iyamahloni, ibuhlungu, ingavikeleki. Kunzima kunabanye ukuvumelanisa nezimo ezintsha, kubandakanya ukuhlangana. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uyathandana nokuhlangenwe nakho okubucayi ngokomzwelo, ukugcina isikhathi nokuhleleka. Izingane ezinjalo zingaphumelela kakhulu ekudaleni: umculo, ukudweba, ukudweba, izinkondlo.
Lezi zinhlobo ezine zokuziphatha zivame ukubonakala ngendlela ehlanzekile. Ngokuvamile intukuthelo yengane ixubekile. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izici ezitholakala "ezinhlobonhlobo" izinhlobo zihlukanisa: i-choleric / sanguine, i-phlegmatic / i-melancholic.
Intukuthelo yengane yindawo yokuhlala, kunzima kakhulu, cishe akunakwenzeka ukushintsha. Futhi abazali kudingeka babekezelele, bangawucindezeli, bezama ukuzivumelanisa "ngokwabo," kodwa babambe ngobumnene ukuphendula kokuziphatha kwabo.
Imfundo yemvelo yengane emndenini
Ayikho impela "emihle" noma "emibi" yezintandokazi, futhi ngohlamvu lomntwana ngamunye kukhona kokubili okuhle nokubi.
Ukuziphatha okufana nokuthembeka, ukuhlonipha, ukubekezelelana, ukunakwa kwabanye kungadingeka futhi kufundiswe ingane enkambweni yemfundo. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuncike ekutheni isimo sabazali ngokwabo siphila.
Izimfanelo ezinamandla zobuntu bezinhlamvu ziqala ngokuxhumana nabangane.
Kunzima, ngokombono wabazali, isimilo somntwana singasho ukuthi bobabili ukuzwela ngokweqile, ukufutheka okusheshayo, futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukubhubhisa, ukuguquka kwesimo sengqondo njalo, umkhuba wokukhononda. Futhi nakuba ingane "ayikwazi ukulungiswa," lezi zimpawu zemvelo zisakwazi ukuzama ukushintsha. Lokhu kufanele kwenziwe kancane kancane, ngesineke, kubonisa ukuzwela. Ungamshayeli umntwana, ungazami "ukuwaphula", ungawasebenzisi kabi ukuvinjelwa nokujeziswa.
Ingane ngayinye ingathola indlela yakhe, ikwazi uhlobo lomlingiswa wakhe. Ngisho noma ngabe ingane yakho 'inzima', khumbula ukuthi useyithandeka kakhulu!