Ekuphileni kwanoma imuphi umuntu, izimo ezibuhlungu zenzeka, lapho abantu abakuzungezile bazizwa benamahloni, behlazekile futhi benamahloni 'ukuwela' emhlabathini noma bangabonakali. Amacala anjalo ahlala isikhathi eside futhi azwa ubuhlungu ngumuntu, ahlaziye ngokuphindaphindiwe, okwenza lowo muntu ahlanganyele ekumenikeleni.
Ukuphuma kanjani esimweni esibuhlungu?
Izimo ezingakhululekile - eziningi zazo, kunoma yikuphi ukuhlazeka akuqinisekisiwe nanoma yimuphi umuntu, ngalunye okungenani izikhathi ezilandelayo ezingenangqondo zenzekile:
- ngesikhathi ingxoxo, umuntu ngokungazelelwe uyaqaphela ukuthi akakhumbuli igama le-interlocutor futhi uyalibiza ngelinye igama;
- uwela esidlangalaleni emgodini noma endaweni ephephile, esiteji;
- hamba ezokuthutha futhi ukhumbule ukuthi imali ishiyiwe ekhaya;
- esitolo lapho kubalwa thola ukuthi ayikho imali eyanele.
Yini okufanele uyenze nokuthi ungaphuma kanjani esimweni esihlazayo lapho sekuvele kwenzeka:
- Yamukela ngobuqotho iqiniso lokuthi lokhu kwenzeka.
- Isimo esinamahloni sokuba yihlaya.
Isimo esiyinkimbinkimbi ebuhlotsheni
Izimo ezinzima ekuphileni ziletha usizi olukhulu. Abantu abanobudlelwane: umshado, okuhlobene, izimo zokuphila ezibucayi ezinobungane zihlangene kakhulu kunzima. Izibonelo ezijwayelekile:
- ukungqubuzana okungalindelekile phakathi komndeni noma isidlo sakusihlwa, ukuphela ngokuthukwa;
- Ukuxoxa ngomngane noma intombi engekho, ohlala ngesikhathi esingekho emphakathini futhi ezwa ingxoxo yonke.
Ukushiya "amanzi omile" ngesikhathi sezingxabano kuzosiza ukuqaphela ukubaluleka kombono wonke umuntu futhi uvume ukungalungi kwabo. Ebudlelwaneni nabangane, uma bekuzwakala okuthile okucasulayo ukuzitholela ngokwakho, isibonelo, uma intombazane inqatshelwe ukuziphatha kwangelo langa, ungathi: "Ngangibuye ngijabule izolo, ngizihlukanise ngokugcwele!" Kungaba kuhle ukuxolisa.
Isimo esingalindelekile ngosuku
Ubudlelwane buvele buqala ukuboshwa futhi ama-angles acindezelayo, njengoba njalo, angeke agwenywe ngezigaba zokuqala. Isimo esingathandeki nomfana noma intombazane engenzeka ngosuku nokuthi kufanele ukwenze ngani:
- Ukuthula okungahambi kahle. Ungaphakamisa isihloko sakho sengxoxo noma uqale ukukhuluma ngabathandekayo bakho, ukuzilibazisa, ukuhamba.
- Isihloko esithintekayo sokwekhathaniswa ngokubukeka, ubuhlobo bokuqala. Imingcele yakho kanye nokuphuma kuleso cala ingathintwa yilaba ababili: tshela ngqo umlingani ngesihloko esingathandeki kuwe futhi ushintshe ingxoxo kwenye isiteshi noma nje uvuke futhi ushiye ngaphandle kokuchaza noma yini uma umuntu ephikisa inzondo.
- Indawo yokuhlangana - ukudla okunomsoco, futhi isimo siyinkimbinkimbi yokuthi umfana ucabanga yonke imali, ucela isaphulelo. Intombazane ngayinye izoba namahloni (uma engeyena umsindisi wesilisa onenkinga). Kubalulekile ukuziqonda wena kanye nesikhathi sakho, ungahlali nomfana onjalo.
Izimo ezingakhululekile ngesikhathi socansi
Kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula i-heroine yochungechunge ethi "Ubulili Nomuzi" - uCarrie, elala embhedeni nomuntu wamaphupho akhe ngokungalindelekile ... amahhashi, amaqhawe amakhulu futhi ahlushwa izinsuku eziningana. Mnu. Big, umthandi wakhe uyamhlukumeza futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kumqinisekisa ukuthi lokhu kungenzeka kunoma ubani, kodwa uCarrie akazisi. Khona-ke uMnu. Big Farts othakazelisayo kakhulu, hhayi nakakhulu, njengendoda. Kukhona ukuphumula kwesimo, phezu kokubili ukuhleka okujabulisayo. Izimo ezinzima kunazo zonke ezenzeka ngesikhathi socansi:
- ukudumaza esiswini;
- Ukugqama kwesisu kubonakala ngokukhishwa kwesifazane;
- ukuhlehla ngokuzumayo ekwakhiweni kwamadoda;
- ngesikhathi se-orgasm partner noma isimemezelo somlingani noma ngisho nokumemeza elinye igama.
Okufanele ukwenze nazo zonke lezi zihlazo:
- Ukuzijabulisa, njengoba kulungile ngaso sonke isikhathi.
- Isimo sengqondo esiqaphele kumlingani nomlingani wakhe: ukuzola, ukukhathazeka nokungahambi ngalolu daba.
Ungakhohlwa kanjani ngesimo esibuhlungu?
Isimo esingathandeki akuyona isizathu sokuzibeka phansi kanye nokuzethemba okuphansi . Lokhu kuyinto okufanele ilandelwe, kodwa ungayithwali ngomthwalo osindayo ekuphileni. Yini engasiza ukungazikhumbuli:
- Abantu abaphelele, banesibindi futhi basengozini, futhi nalokhu kunenzuzo kanye nenhle. Noma ubani ophilayo, wahlangabezana namanye amacala acasulayo.
- Funda ukuqonda okwenzekayo ngokuthula.
- Ngokushesha lapho kuvela umzuzu ongajabulisayo, ukugxila kokunye okunye: ukuhlanza, ukulalela umculo.
- Kubalulekile ukukhumbula: abanye abantu ngokushesha bakhohlwe ngalokho okwenzekile.