Ngalesi sizukulwane, ukuhlaselwa kwezingane okungasekho kwengane sekuphelile, intsha ivuthiwe, yenza izinyathelo zangempela ezithembekile empilweni. Akusakwazi ukunikeza ezinye izinsuku zokuzalwa komuntu wokuzalwa, kuyinto efiselekayo ukwethula into enjalo ezogcizelela ukubaluleka okukhethekile kokufika kweminyaka.
Yini okufanele ngiyinike indodana yami iminyaka engu-18?
Ukunikeza imali ku-imvilophu kuyindlela ephikisayo yokujabulisa indlalifa yakho. Ngeke neze abe yinto engafaneleki kuye, kodwa azibe yisipho esingasoze sikhumbula. Enye into ukubika imali enkulu ekuthengeni okuthile, okuyinto umkhawulo wamaphupho endodana yakho. Uma cishe cishe iminyaka engu-18 eyithole imali yokuthenga okuyigugu, kodwa engenayo imali eyanele yokuya esitolo, usizo lwezimali kule ndaba luzosiza kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi isikhathi sokuthola itholakale ngesikhumbuzo bese kugubha yonke into etafuleni lomndeni.
Yiqiniso, okuningi kuxhomeke esabelweni sesabelomali, izingane zihlale zithemba ngokumangala okukhulu, kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu ongakwazi ukukhokhela ukunethezeka kwesithuthuthu noma imoto entsha. Ukuthengwa okungabizi kakhulu futhi okungabizi kakhulu yimishini yamuva ye-electronic - i-laptops, i- Smartphones , imishini yokulalelwayo enhle, i-printer, ikhompiyutha, umdlali wesitayela. Ngendlela, eziningi zezinto ezibalwe zingadingeka ukuze uzindlalifa esikoleni noma emsebenzini. Ngakho-ke, isipho esinjalo indodana yakhe ngosuku lokuzalwa oluyishumi nesishiyagalolunye oluvela kumama onothando ngeke lube yigugu kuphela, kodwa futhi luyasebenza ngempela.
Ngalolu suku, ngisho nabazali abanakekelayo, okungenzeka ukuthi kuqala ukuthenga kuqala, kufanele bazame ukugcina izinhloso zomntwana omdala. Uma engumdlali omkhulu womculo, ukumangala okungcono kunina kuyakuba ithikithi ekhonsathini yeqembu lakhe elithandayo. Ama-Bibliophiles, ama-philatelists noma abanye abaqoqi bazoletha injabulo ekutholeni isampula ewusizo ekwazi ukukhulisa iqoqo labo ezingeni elisha. Izihlakaniphi njenge-souvenir chess noma umagazini ophrintiwe onemibala esihlokweni sakho ozithandayo. Kulo mbuzo, yisiphi isipho esingcono kakhulu sokunikeza indodana yakho iminyaka engu-18, ungabonisa ukucabanga nokuhlakanipha. Kodwa kungcono, lapho ukuthenga kuba into efiselekayo kumntwana, kuzosiza ekusebenzeni izinhlelo zakhe ezide.