Umshado wesiliva unyaka wokugcina iminyaka engu-25 kusukela ngosuku lokubhalisa ubudlelwano. Lolu suku alukwazi ukunakwa, ngoba abathandi bahlala ndawonye ingxenye yesine leminyaka futhi lokhu kufanele kuqashelwe. Uphawu lokugubha usuku lokugubha isiliva - insimbi evundile engakwazi ukuthola amandla nokukhipha imishanguzo ngamanzi. Kulolu suku kuyisiko ukuhalalisela lo mbhangqwana futhi unike izipho ezihlukahlukene ezahlukahlukene.
Amasiko omshado wesiliva
Isikhumbuzo somshado sigcwele amasiko, avela kubakhulu bethu kanye nogogo. Ngosuku lomkhosi, konke kufanele kudlule "ngokusho kweso siliva," okulandelwa okhokho bethu. Usuku lomshado kufanele luqale ngokumanga, kulandelwe ukugeza, kodwa hhayi njengosuku olujwayelekile lwesonto, kodwa olukhethekile. Abashadile kufanele bathululele amanzi ndawonye ku-jug (kuyadingeka ukuthi yenziwa ngesiliva) futhi baphenduke ngokushintshanisa amanzi izikhathi ezintathu emkhunjini, basizana. Ukungcola okuphindwe kathathu kusho ukuhlanzwa impilo entsha. Emva kokugeza, sula esihlanzeka ngethawula elihlanzekile yelineni. Qaphela amanzi e-jug, okungenani amaconsi ambalwa. Faka i-jug ebhaleni noma emngceleni. Ikhemikhali izokhuphuka, futhi kanye namaconsi ayoshiya usizi nezinkinga.
Futhi ngalolu suku, sashintsha izindandatho zesiliva, kanye nangosuku lokuqala lwenyunyana. Ukuze uqale kuqala, ungabamba umkhosi omusha womshado, ukubiza ofakazi nezivakashi. Imibala, i-toasts, isidlo sokugubha - kufanelekile ukukhumbula usuku lomshado bese uyiphinda. Ungakwazi ukuhlela isimangalo emshadweni wesiliva futhi ngokuyimfihlo kusuka kulo mbhangqwana ukuhlela umkhosi, bazojabula kakhulu.
Imiklomelo ye-Wedding Silver
Ngomnyaka wama-25, kuyisiko ukuletha i-silverware. Ngaphambi kokunqoba, kuhle ukubonisana nezivakashi mayelana nezipho, ukugwema ukuphindaphinda, noma ukuthuthukisa nokuthenga into eyodwa, kodwa enkulu futhi eyigugu. Kukhona amathiphu amaningana okumele unikeze ngomshado wesiliva. Ngakho:
- Izinto ezisendlini ezisetshenziswayo ngesiliva : izitsha zoshukela, i-milkmaids, ama-jugs, izimbiza zekhofi, amathreyi. Zama ukunikeza izinkomishi nezithombe, njengoba kungekho mqondo omkhulu kubo futhi zithatha isikhala esiningi.
- Imikhiqizo ene-engraving . Lapha ungakwazi ukufaka izinkezo zemali zesiliva kanye nezinhlamvu zesiliva zeqoqo. Emkhiqizo ungabhala izifiso noma amagama wejubili.
- Imihlobiso yegolide: imihlobiso yezinwele, amacufflink, izikhonkwane zokubopha. Izinzuzo eziwusizo zingamasongo abo abashadile abazokushintshanisa ngosuku lomshado. Qaphela imikhiqizo yama-laconic nge-"smooth" yokugqoka.
- Isithonjana seSiliva . Lesi sipho sizokwenzela abakholwayo abaya esontweni. Isithonjana sizovikela indlu emimoya emibi futhi ibe nomthelela ekuziphatheni komndeni.
Uma ufuna ukumangaza umbhangqwana, bese ukhetha izipho zokuqala zomshado wesiliva. Ungalawula isithombe sombhangqwana oshadile ku-studio, okuzofakwa efoleni lesiliva. Futhi, lo mbhangqwana uzokujabulela ukuya e-resort lapho bengakwazi ukuphumula khona futhi bajabulele omunye nomunye endaweni ekhululekile.
Kukhona nezipho ezingathathi hlangothi ngaphandle kwezingqikithi zesiliva. Lezi zipho ezihlobene nezithombe (imithwalo, amagugane, amapulethi), ama-collage anezikhathi ezithintekayo ezimpilweni zabathandi kanye nezifiso zezivakashi. Ukumangala okumangalisayo kuyoba iseshini lesithombe sombhangqwana . Abantu abadala abakwazi ukuzithokozisa ngezivivinyo ezifanayo, kodwa emva kwazo kukhona okunye okubonakalayo kanye nezinkumbulo ngendlela yezithombe zomndeni. Uma wenza umsebenzi wesineki, ungakwazi ukufaka imidwebo yabazali (ukunyathelisa isithombe senziwe esithombeni esilandiwe) noma ubophe indwangu yendwangu yesikhumba esincane esivela emiceleni encane. Into eyinhloko ukuletha iphuzu nomphefumulo!