Kuze kube manje, kunezindlela eziningana ezikuvumela ukuba uvule ikhethini lokufihla futhi uthole ikusasa lakho. Kakade amashumi ambalwa eminyaka, izimpawu ziye zithandwa, isibonelo, sizokwazi ukuthi umlenze wesobunxele usuphi, noma kunalokho unyawo. Kuyafaneleka ukuphawula ukuthi inkolelo-ze ingasetshenziswa kuphela uma ukucheka kungabonakali njalo futhi kuvela ngokungazelelwe.
Ngabe unyawo lwesobunxele lwezinyawo ezinyaweni?
Kukhona umbono wokuthi ukuzama kule ndawo kubonisa ukuthi kukhona ukukhathala nesifiso somuntu sokubalekela okuthile. Ngokwezinye izinketho, izinyawo zihlonywe kubantu abacabanga ngokuzithengisa abathandekayo babo. Uma kuphela isithende siphulukiswa, khona-ke into umuntu ayenzayo manje izophela ekuhlulekeni.
Iyini inkinobho yonyawo lwesokunxele ezinsukwini zesonto?
- NgoMsombuluko . Ukushaywa yi-harbinger yohambo olude futhi kungenzeka ukuba uhambe ngokuhamba ibhizinisi ngokushesha, futhi umgwaqo ngeke ulethe injabulo nemiphumela.
- NgoLwesibili . Kuyafaneleka ukulungiselela leli holide, elizoba khona esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Uyokwazi ukuzijabulisa. Ukunambitha, okwakubonakala kusihlwa, ngoba abesifazane bathembisa ukuthandana isikhathi eside.
- NgoLwesithathu . Kulokhu, isibonakaliso sibangela ukuxabana nezihlobo eziseduze, okungaba nemiphumela emibi.
- NgoLwesine . Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, kuzodingeka sithole izivakashi ezizofika ezikude, ngakho-ke kuyodingeka ukuqhuba ukuhlanzwa kwentwasahlobo.
- NgoLwesihlanu . Uma unyawo lwesokunxele luhlungiwe ngalolu suku, uphawu luhunyushwa njengesilumkiso mayelana nokuvela kwezinkinga empilweni yomuntu siqu. Mhlawumbe, kukhona ukuhlukanisana nabathandekayo.
- NgoMgqibelo . Ihlazo lifanekisela umhlangano nomngane omdala ozophela ekuxabaneni . Kungcono ukugwema ukuvakashela izindawo zomphakathi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
- NgeSonto . Ngaphambili kuyisonto elinzima futhi umuntu kufanele alindele izinkinga ezindaweni ezahlukene. Kungcono ukulinda futhi ungathathi isenzo.