Kule nkathi enzima yokuphila komakhelwane, ugogo nomkhulu, ungazwa izeluleko eziningi mayelana nokuthi ubhekene nezinkinga zeminyaka emithathu ezinganeni, nokuthi uziphathe kanjani nabazali, izihlobo eziseduze.
Kulo nyaka, njengomthetho, izingane ziqala ukunikeza inkulisa. Lokhu ukucindezeleka okwengeziwe. Ngempela, kungukuthi, okokuqala, ushintsho esimweni esivamile, lapho kwakuhlala khona umama oseduze. Manje ingane kufanele ibhekane nesisombululo esizimele sezinye izinkinga, ukuxhumana nabangane kanye nokuzama ukuvikela izithakazelo zabo.
Kulokhu kuqhuma ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yakhe. Ungacabangi ukuthi nomntanakho, kukhona okungalungile, ngoba inyanga ngayinye, waphenduka emntwaneni omuhle wangena enkulumeni eyakhayo. Kuyinto nje inkinga yeminyaka emithathu futhi ukunikeza abazali abazali iseluleko mayelana nendlela yokuziphatha nengane kubaluleke kakhulu.
Izincomo kubazali ekunqobeni le nkinga iminyaka emithathu yengane yakho
- Ungaqhubeki mayelana nezifiso zomntwana kanye nokwethenjwa kwabanye.
- Qonda isimo ngasinye, futhi hhayi ngokungacabangi ukwenza umntwana enze lokho okumele kube khona.
- Ungaqhubeki mayelana nengane, ngisho noma ephikelela, uma usendaweni egcwele.
- Hamba ngokungqubuzana nengane.
Kwenzeka ukuthi ukukhala okumnyama futhi kudinga, isibonelo, i-ayisikhilimu. Ugogo, osondelene naye, engahawukeli, uthando futhi nje kuphela ukuthi umntwana angalili, uqala ukukholisa unina ukuba amnike ice cream.
Ungaqhubeki mayelana nengane nogogo. Ngoba kusasa, izinyane likwazi ukuphonsa intukuthelo, isibonelo esitolo, ngesidingo sokumthengisa. Phela, eceleni kwakhe kuyoba ugogo, lapho abona khona umlingani ukuze kugcwaliseke izifiso zakhe. Zama ingane ukuthi ixoxisane nesimo, okuchaza ukuthi kungani manje engenayo ice cream. Isibonelo, uthi kuye: "Awukwazi ukuthola i-ayisikhilimu manje, ungathola isifo somzimba, ngoba usuka ekugezeni kuphela. Ngehora kuyobe kungenzeka. "
Ake sithi isimo lapho umntwana wakho, evuka ekuseni, engafuni ukuya enkulisa. Futhi akukho ukukhohlisa lapha akusizi. Awudingi ukuphakamisa izwi lakho futhi usongela. Zama nje ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekani nokuthi kungani enqaba ukuya enkulisa. Mhlawumbe, ucasulwa ingane enamandla noma engenayo isikhathi sokucela ibhodlela futhi uthisha wakhe uhlazisa bonke. Kubalulekile ukuthola isizathu, futhi emva kokukhuluma nomfundisi, ukuze izimo ezinjalo zingekho.
Izingane zizwa kakhulu uma kungenzeka ukuphatha abantu abadala. Esinye sezimo ezingakhululekile kakhulu uma kukhona "ababukeli".
Isibonelo, wena nomntanakho basendaweni yokudlala. Njengomthetho, abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala abanamakhono kakhulu futhi abafuni ukuhamba ngesicelo sokuqala somuntu omdala. Zitholele umyalo wokubiza ingane yakho izikhathi eziningana ngesikhashana semaminithi angu-5. Futhi okokuqala udinga ukusho ukuthi umnika eminye imizuzu engu-5, kodwa emva kwalokho uzohamba ngokuqinisekile. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuyoba umkhuba wengane, futhi ukuyikhipha endaweni yokudlala ngeke kube nzima kakhulu.
Ekuqaleni, ngenkathi engazange ajwayele, wayengase "akhiphe" ngokunikela okuthile okumnandi, njenge-apula noma i-candy.
Kunezimo lapho ingane ithatha okuthile futhi ingafuni ukunikeza lutho noma ifuna ukugqoka izingubo ezithile futhi ayikho enye.
Okufanayo kusebenza nezingubo. Zama ukukhuluma nengane yakho ngazo zonke izimo, uchaza ukuthi kungani kungcono ukugqoka i-sweater, hhayi ijackethi namhlanje.
Inkinga yeminyaka emithathu yisikhathi esinzima nalokho abazali okufanele bakwenze kuwe. Kodwa uma unamathela emithethweni eyisisekelo: ungaqhubeki ngokuphathelene nengane, thola ukuyekethisa ezimweni, ube nobulungisa futhi ube nesineke nge-crumb yakho, khona-ke inkinga yeminyaka emithathu izodlulela kuwe ngokungaqondakali.