Muva nje, umuntu angavame ukuzwa ukukhuluma ngenkinga yomoya womphakathi wanamuhla. Abaholi benkolo, izibalo zamasiko kanye namaphini akhulume kahle futhi kahle, bathukuthele abezindaba, bekhuluma ngethonya elilimazayo esizukulwaneni esincane. Futhi akukwazi ukusho ukuthi akukho zinyathelo ezithathwe ekuthuthukiseni nasekufundiseni ingokomoya lomuntu ngamunye - ulwazi olunikezwa emaphephandabeni omphakathi luqapha ngokucophelela, izifundo zezenkolo zifakwa ezikoleni, futhi eziteshini zethelevishini eziphakathi umuntu angabona izinhlelo eziholwa abelusi abangokomoya. Akekho othi lokhu kubi, kodwa akungabazeki ukuthi zonke lezi zenzo zingasiza ekuxazululeni inkinga yengokomoya lomuntu. Kungani, asiyiqaphele.
Iyini ingokomoya lomuntu?
Ngaphambi kokukhuluma ngezingokomoya nokuntula okungokomoya komuntu ngamunye, kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuthi yini okufanele iqondwe yizici, ngoba kunemibono eminingi engalungile kule ndawo.
Okukhulumayo, ingokomoya liyisifiso sokuziphelela umoya, ukungabi nokunamathela ekuphileni komzimba, ukuzijabulisa okuphansi. Ngenxa yalokho, ukungabi nomoya kuyisifiso sokuhlala (hhayi ukudideka nokwaneliseka kwasekuqaleni) izidingo zomuntu siqu, ngaphandle kokucabanga nganoma yini enye.
Ngokuvamile ingokomoya lomuntu lihlotshaniswa nenkolo, lihambela izikhungo zenkolo futhi lifunda izincwadi zalolu hlobo. Kodwa nokho akunakwenzeka ukubeka uphawu olulinganayo phakathi kwenkolo nenkolo, kunezibonelo eziningi lapho abantu abaya njalo esontweni bamelela ababi kakhulu emphakathini wabantu. I-cross (crescent, intambo ebomvu esihlakaleni) kuphela uphawu lwezingokomoya, kodwa hhayi ukubonakaliswa kwayo.
Akunakutsho ukuthi ukuziphatha okungokomoya kuxhomeke emfundweni - ulwazi lwezimiso zikaNewton, izinsuku zokubhapathizwa kukaRus kanye namagama abaphostoli ngeke asindise umuntu osuke ebubini kuya ekuhluphekeni nasekuhluphekeni komunye. Ngakho-ke, lapho sitshelwa ukuthi ukungeniswa kwemfundo yenkolo kuzothatha iqhaza ekwakheni izisekelo zomoya, umuntu angazwela kuphela ukukhohlisa okunjalo.
Ukuphila akufundiswa esikoleni, impilo iyayifundisa. Omunye usuvele efika emhlabeni ngalelikhwalithi, okuthi, lapho ikhula, iphenduka ngokucacile ukuthi konke okubonakalayo - okudlulayo futhi ngaphandle kokugcwaliswa ngaphakathi kungenzi lutho. Umuntu udinga ukuhlolwa okujulile kokuphila ukuze aqonde
Ngezinye izikhathi ungase uzwe ukuthi owesimanje wesifazane, isiko nengokomoya, le mibono ayifani nhlobo, bathi, sithinteka kakhulu ezinkingeni zansuku zonke, sithanda imali kakhulu kangangokuthi ayikho igumbi lento. Mhlawumbe lo mbono unelungelo lokuba khona, vumela kuphela labo abathi basuke bezama ukukhumbula lapho begcina beqhamuka phambi kwesithombe esihle, bengalingi ukubala ukuthi lesi simangaliso singabiza kangakanani.