Wonke umuntu ubhekene nesimo esinjalo njengobuvila. Ngakho-ke, umbuzo wendlela yokunqoba ubuvila nokunganakwa usanda kuthanda kakhulu.
Ingabe ukuvikelwa kwakho ubuvila?
Okokuqala, ake sibone ukuthi leli gama lisho ukuthini. Isichazamazwi sase-Ozhegov sinikeza incazelo elandelayo: "ubuvila ukungabi nesifiso sokwenza, ukusebenza."
Ochwepheshe emkhakheni wezingqondo zinezikhundla eziningana ngokuphathelene nobuvila:
- Umuntu akanaso isisusa.
- Lezi yimiphumela yokukhathala ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
- Lona ngumzimba womzimba womuntu, osiza umuntu ukuba azisindise emithwalweni engadingekile.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukuzithuthukisa kahle futhi ulungiselele ukukhiqiza komsebenzi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma uvimbela ingqondo yakho engqondweni, oqiniseka ukuthi akukho lutho olushintsha ekwenzeni umsebenzi, khona-ke isifiso sokuzuza umphakathi hhayi nje kuphela esizobonakala.
Udokotela, kodwa ngeke ngife?
Ukuzisola kwami okukhulu, isimangaliso - amaphilisi avela ebuvila akakho okwamanje. Sibheka nokuthi iqiniso lokuthi umzabalazo oqinekile ngokumelene nokubonakaliswa kobuvila kungaphazamisa ukulinganisela ngokomzwelo, ngoba abantu abaningi ngenxa yalokho abakwazi ukuzinqoba futhi ngenxa yalokho badumazekile futhi ukuzethemba kwabo kuncishisiwe. Unganqoba kanjani ubuvila emva kwakho konke?
Kusasa kuyoba kangcono kunezolo
Uzithembise kangaki ukuthi kusasa konke kuzoshintsha? Noma ngoMsombuluko uyeka ukubhema, uhamba ngokudla, uqala ukufunda izincwadi ... kunomthetho owodwa - lo Msombuluko awunakwenzeka ukuza. Ngakho-ke manje uzoqeda ukufunda lesi sihloko bese uqala ukwenza izinto eziwusizo ohlela ukuzenza kusasa cishe unyaka. Ingabe ibuthakathaka? Ubuvila futhi buphumelele? Kukhona iseluleko esincane ukuthi ungakunqoba kanjani ubuvila nokunganakwa: indlela "isanqante" - okungukuthi, ngenxa yokunqoba okuncane phezu kwalezi zitha, zizuze futhi ubheke isisusa esifanele.
Wonke umuntu ungumdali wekusasa lakhe siqu
Wake wake wakhathalela ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ulahlekelwe kanjani isikhathi sakho ngeze? Cabanga ngemiphumela ebuhlungu kakhulu yobuvila: ukuntuleka kwemali, izifo zomzimba nomphefumulo, ubusuku obuchitha yedwa - futhi konke lokhu ngenxa YOKUPHILA ... Futhi, ulungele ukuguqula impilo yakho okwamanje. Kodwa kunezinto ezithile: amanethiwekhi omphakathi, ingxoxo yefoni nomngane wehora nehafu. Futhi isikhathi siyaqhubeka ngokungenakulinganiswa ... ingabe ngempela uphila ukuze ube mdala futhi usebenzise impilo yakho ekuziphatheni?
Ukubalwa kuyaqhubeka
Encwadini eyodwa, amathiphu achazwe kahle ukuthi anganqoba kanjani ubuvila. Uma usebenzise njalo lezi zindlela ngokuzikhandla, kuzokuba lula kuwe ukuthi usebenze amandla.
- Ubuvila yisitha sakho, futhi udinga ukulwa nalo. Eqinisweni, ukungathandi ukusebenza - kuyimicabango yakho nemicabango yakho. Konke lokhu kusekelwa izenzo zakho, izimo nokuziphatha kwabanye. Uma ushintsha isimo sengqondo ezicikisayo, uzobe usinqobe kalula isitha.
- Thatha inkathazo yokubhekana nemvelo yakho, ngoba abantu abaningi basebenzisa isikhathi sabo esiningi.
- Izindaba zezomnotho. Ngezinye izikhathi siba nesivikelo ngenxa yokuthi asinaso isikhathi sezindaba zasekhaya, ngakho-ke sihlehlisa izindaba ezibalulekile futhi ezingathí sina kamuva. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ukubeka phambili kuqala futhi uqalane nokubhekana nezinkinga ezinzima kunazo zonke, bese uvula amacala amancane kakhulu.
- Ukuphila ukunyakaza. Yenza isiko lomzimba. Phela, uma kungekho mithwalo, umzimba wakho awukwazi ukubhekana nesigqi samanje sokuphila, ungathola ngisho nesifo sengqondo sokukhathala okungapheli. Kwanele ukwenza imisebenzi yokuzivocavoca nsuku zonke futhi uyahamba njalo.
Ama-Scandals, ama-intrigues, uphenyo ...
Ngaphezu kokusebenza ngokomzimba, umzimba wakho udinga nokulayisha ngokomzwelo. Umuntu ngamunye udinga imizwelo ephuma kuyo yonke into: kusuka ekucaseni nasekuzondweni kuya enjabulweni nokumangala. Khona-ke ubuchopho bakho buzosetshenzwa futhi umsebenzi uzokwanda. Imizwelo ixhunyaniswe nemicabango yethu, ngakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukulawula ukuqhuma kwemizwa yakho.
Ukuzulazula ... ubuchopho
Ngokumangalisa, kodwa inkinga enkulu namuhla yukuntuleka kwengqondo. Futhi, ekhanda lami iqembu lazo zonke amaqiniso, izibalo, izimpikiswano, ubuchopho buhlela inani elingenakubalwa lwazi phakathi nosuku, kodwa akuzona zonke
Ngomthwalo ophansi wengqondo, ungahlakulela izifo ezihlukahlukene. Imiphumela ingase ibe ukucindezeleka, ukuguga kwasekuqaleni, ukukhubazeka kwengqondo. Kubalulekile ukufunda ukuhlaziya okwenzekayo nokuhlela impilo yakho.