Uthando olulahlekile lusizi langempela emndenini. Noma imuphi umshado kunzima ukugcina izingxabano: "Sinezingane ezivamile", "Ngingowesifazane ohloniphekile, futhi akekho okwamanje", "uhlale, angiyikuphazamisa impilo yakho" uma umyeni esekhulile futhi uzohlukanisa. Yebo, futhi ukuyiqonda futhi, ungaba: kuhle ukuhlala nomuntu ongathandeki ohlala ekhononda noma ekhala, ehamba egqoke izingubo zokugqoka, futhi egameni lencwadi yokugcina ayifunde, akekho okhumbulayo, ngoba kwakuneminyaka eyishumi edlule. Noma kunjalo, ungazama ukushintsha okuthile futhi ulwe nemizwa yendoda ethandekayo, kodwa uma uhlala ngezandla zakho, ke-ke, maduzane kuzodingeka uthole ukuthi impilo enzima kangakanani ngowesifazane oyedwa.
Kungenzeka yini ukubuyisela uthando?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukubuyisela uthando - kuxhomeke kuwe kuphela: kuyokwanela kanjani ngenhloso, ekuhlakanipheni nasesifiso. Ngokweqile, ungabuyisa uthando: lo muntu ubekhethile, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi wena nobabili nashintsha, futhi uthando lwanyamalala. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba unomsebenzi onjalo: ukuthola ukuthi akusikho owesifazane okwamanje.
Ungabuyisa kanjani uthando ebuhlotsheni nomyeni wakhe?
Ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungabuyisela kanjani uthando lomuntu, udinga ukuqonda lokho akakho, futhi lokhu kungenziwa ngezindlela eziningana:
- ukubuka. Uma uhamba naye, unake kulabo besifazane, amehlo akhe abambelele kuwo, athole ukuthi yiziphi izithandani ezithandayo nokuthi yiziphi ifilimu (ukucabangela indima ye-heroine nokubukeka). Into esemqoka ukubuka ngokucophelela nokucabangela izimfanelo ezidingekayo, ngoba angathanda imininingwane ehlukene kanye nendlela yokuziphatha;
- umbuzo oqondile. Uma ubuhlobo buyathembekile, ungacela umyeni wakho iseluleko ngalokho angathanda ukukushintsha kuwe nokuthi kungani.
Kodwa-ke, uma kwakungenakwenzeka ukuthola, ke sakha uhlelo lomhlaba wonke: indlela yokunqoba uthando lomyeni.
- Ukubukeka. Idatha yangaphandle efanele ibaluleke kakhulu kokubili ukuzethemba komuntu siqu nokuheha umuntu. Ungalondolozi imali ngobuhle bakho: thintana nomuntu onguchwepheshe (umculi wezinwele, u-stylist, umculi ozenzayo), sebenzisa izimonyo ezibizayo nama-perfume ngendlela ehlelekile.
- Umfanekiso. Bhalisela ukufaneleka, uma unesisindo esengeziwe - hamba ukudla, ngoba umzimba omuhle futhi oguquguqukayo uthandwa kakhulu ngokobulili besilisa. Noma yikuphi ukugqoka kuzogcizelela ubulili, okuzosheshisa kakhulu "ukubuya kothando."
- Um. Ukukwazi okuyisisekelo semathematics ephakeme akudingekile, kodwa isimo sokuphila esisebenzayo kanye nokukhishwa okuyisisekelo kuzokuphakamisa emehlweni akhe. Ngenxa yalokhu, kwanele ukufunda izincwadi zesiRussia noma zangaphandle ngezikhathi zonke futhi ubuke izindaba.
- Indlela yokunqoba uthando lomyeni ngokuzimela? Ukuzimela kwenza owesifazane angaqondakali futhi angenakufinyeleleka, futhi yilokho okungafaka phakathi kwakhe umsizi womzingeli: khumbula ukuthi umgwaqo wokukhula komsebenzi uvulekile hhayi kuphela kubantu.
- Indlu ehlelekile. Lapha sizoqonda ukuthi singabuyisa kanjani uthando lomyeni wakhe ekhaya. Noma yimuphi umuntu ufuna ukubuyela ekhaya elifudumele, elihle, lapho umkakhe kanye nesidlo sakusihlwa kulindeleke emva komsebenzi. Uma sisasebenza kowokuqala, ngakho-ke akunzima ukugcwalisa iphuzu lesibili: ukuphanga oshade naye ngokuthokozisa kokudla, ugcine indlu ihlanzekile futhi uyihlobise.
- Ukunakekela. Manje sifunda ukubuyisela uthando lomuntu othandekayo ngosizo lokukhathalela nokuthandana: ngoba lokhu kuyadingeka ukumangaze indoda yakho ngezimanga ezincane. Baxhomeke kulokho akuthandayo: uma kungukuthi i-cherry pie - egijima ekhishini, uma ihamba ngebhayisikili - masinyane esitolo sezemidlalo se-"agrade".
- I-hobby ewusizo. Indlela yokubuyisa imizwa ehlile ikhono lokudansa i-striptease, akudingeki ukuthi uchaze, ngoba lokhu kuyisibonelo esihle kakhulu sobusuku obungenakulibaleka. I-Striptease iyindlela ephumelelayo yokwehlukanisa impilo yakho yomndeni.
- Umhawu. Impendulo yowesifazane okhaliphile kodwa onesibindi kumbuzo othi: "Indlela yokuphinde uvuselele imizwa yendoda yakhe?" Ngeke ibe nomusa: njalo kubangele umhawu. Ngedatha oyothola ngemuva
ngeke kube nzima ukuhlela izinto zangaphambilini, noma kunjalo, usadinga ukufunda ubuciko bokudlala ngothando nemikhuba, ukuze amadoda aqonde kahle izinhloso zakho ngokuthinta nokubonisa ubuso.
Ungabuyisa kanjani uthando emndenini?
Emindenini lapho kunezingane (ikakhulukazi intsha), ngezinye izikhathi kunenkinga abahamba kuyo kubazali babo, futhi indoda nomfazi besuka komunye nomunye. Futhi kuvela ukuthi akukho uthando emndenini. Ukuze ulungise lokhu, hlela amaholide omndeni kaningi, futhi njalo ngempelasonto uchithe ndawonye: hamba ukuhamba, ukugijima, noma uhlele umdlalo wekhaya omunye wemidlalo yebhodi.