I-Psychology yobuntu - izincwadi

Nsuku zonke, ukuzizwa njengomuntu ogcwele, umuntu udinga ukuthuthukisa, futhi lokhu, okokuqala, kungenzeka uma ufunda ingqondo yakho ngezincwadi. Ebusweni, hhayi isikhathi esiningi sokufunda ubuciko bomhlaba, ngoba kuwe owakhethile amasampula angcono kakhulu wesinkwa esingokomoya.

Izincwadi ezinhle kakhulu kwi-psychology yobuntu

1. "Ukuzichaza ngokuzenzakalelayo" nguBenjamin Franklin. Kulo msebenzi, umcabangi omkhulu uchaza impilo yakhe, ukuwa kwakhe kanye nokuphakama kwakhe. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ubonisa isigaba sakhe sokwakheka nokubunjwa ngokuqondile njengomuntu, ubuntu obuphumelelayo. Ukufunda umbhalo wesandla wezinsuku zakhe, kufaneleka ukunakekelwa isimo sengqondo sokuphila ekuphileni okuningi okuphendukayo: UFranklin wayehlala njalo ukuthi izimo zakhe zamukelwa njalo. Ngesinye isikhathi, basiza ekuqaliseni imigomo yayo, ngakolunye uhlangothi - bahlabelela intando, bakha umlingiswa womholi. Le ncwadi izoba usizo kakhulu kulabo abangabaza ukuthi noma yikuphi umsebenzi ongaqondiswa umuntu oyedwa onentshisekelo engakaze ibe khona.
2. "Imidlalo lapho abantu badlala khona," u-Eric Bern. Wake wake wazibuza: "Kungani ngabuza ngalokhu? Kungani ngiziphatha ngale ndlela? Ngayiphi injongo? ". Bheka impilo yakho. Funda uhlobo lwangempela lobuhlobo bomuntu. Funda ukuhlaziya izenzo zakho, ukuqeda imikhuba engadingekile, ngenkathi ungakhohlwa ukuzibandakanya ekuzifundiseni.
3. "Aikido yengqondo", uMikhail Litvak. Lokhu, mhlawumbe, kungenye yezincwadi ezithandwa kakhulu kwi-psychology yobuntu. Kuzokusiza ukuba ubheke amakhono akho okuxhumana avela ngenye indlela. Lichaza ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo ngenqubo ethile yokuqala, engasiza ekusunguleni ukuxhumana kunoma yikuphi umsebenzi. Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi le ncwadi izoba ideskithophu yama-psychotherapists, othisha, abaqondisi.
4. "Psychology of influence," uRobert Chaldini. Funda mayelana nendlela yokugqugquzela, incazelo yangempela ezayo empilweni yakho kusukela esikrinini sethelevishini, ulwazi. Qonda ukuthi yiziphi izindlela zezwe lanamuhla ezikwazi ukufinyelela kumuntu futhi zifunde ebhukwini likaChaldini ukwenza izinqumo ezifanele, ukuqaphela ukwethembeka okuvela kubantu abakuzungezile, noma ngokuphindaphindiwe.
5. "Ukuthi" Yebo "ekuphileni. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ekamu lokuhlushwa ", uVictor Frankl. Le ncwadi yimibiko yesazi sefilosofi nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esadabula amakamu ama-Nazi ama-Nazi, evula abafundi bakhe abaningi indlela evulela wonke umuntu ngenjongo yakhe yokuphila. Umlobi wabonisa amandla amakhulu kakhulu omuntu siqu, edlula ezimweni ezimbi zamakamu okuhlushwa. Lokhu kungenye yezincwadi ezinhle kakhulu eziveza ukuthi i-psychology yomuntu, efakazela ukuthi umuntu uhlala enesinye isikhathi sokuqhubeka nendlela yakhe, ukuba angayeki ebusweni bezinkinga zokufa futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba aphile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini.
6. "Umbono wobuntu", uLarry A. Hjell, uDaniel J. Ziegler. Abacwaningi abadumile baseMelika encwadini yabo bacabangela inamba enkulu yezikhombisi-ndlela ezinobuntu bomqondo, lokho ngaphambili kwakhiwa ngabahlengikazi abakhulu (Maslow, Fromm, Freud, njll). Kuyoba okuthakazelisayo kulabo abathanda ubudlelwane bomndeni nabalingani, izinkinga zengqondo zesimanje.
7. "Abantu bakhuluma ngani?" URobert Watside. Ochwepheshe e-physiognomy, oye wazinikela eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-40 ukucwaninga ubuso bomuntu ngamunye, unikeza abafundi bakhe usizo olubonakalayo lokufundisa "ukufunda" izinkulumo zabantu abakuzungezile. Le ncwadi ku-psychology yokuthuthukiswa komuntu izokusiza nje ukuthi uqonde kangcono umxhumanisi wakho, wenze umqondo wokuqala womuntu, kodwa ngokushesha ukuphumelela emsebenzini.