I-Narcissistic personality disorder

Wonke umuntu ukhumbula kusukela ohlelweni lwesikole inganekwane kaNarcissus - insizwa enhle eye yavutha ngothando ngokucabangisisa kwayo futhi yafa ngomzwelo ongathandabuzeki. Manje igama elithi "narcissus" ekuzicwaningweni kwengqondo libizo elivamile, elichaza umuntu onomlando wokuziphendulela, ngokuzicabangela ngokuzicabangela kangcono kunabanye.

I-Psychology ye-narcissistic personality disorder

Ukuze uthole ukuthi i-narcissus ilula, i-narcissism yayo ibonakala kuzo zonke izenzo, zonke izibuko. Umuntu onjalo ugcizelela ngezenzo zakhe zonke ukukhethwa kwakhe kanye nokungahlanganyeli emzimbeni omkhulu "grey". Izimpawu kuye zingamaphuzu alandelayo ekuziphatheni.

1. Ukuphendula ngokugxeka ekugxeka, ngaphandle kokubonisa ngisho nemizwa yabo ngaphandle, i-narcissus ihlangabezana nokufutheka okukhulu, ukuhlazeka nokuhlazeka.
2. Ukuthembela ngokuphelele ekuziphatheni kwabo siqu, ukulindelwa kokuqashelwa ngokungabikho komsebenzi owenza ubuhlungu.
3. Ubuhlobo bomngane nabothando buvame ukuqhuma ngenxa yesifiso sokusebenzisa abanye abantu ngezinhloso zabo siqu.
4. Ukuthembela ekuboneni kwezinkinga, ngakho-ke, kubantu abavamile kanye nosizo akumele balinde, ochwepheshe abavelele kuphela abakwazi ukuxazulula lesi simo.
5. Uhlala ecabanga ngomsebenzi omuhle, inkazimulo nodumo.
6. Ubheka isikhundla sakhe esikhethekile, ekholelwa ukuthi bonke abanye kufanele bamphathe kahle ngaphandle kwesizathu.
7. Udinga ukunakekelwa kwabanye abantu, ngakho-ke kunomkhuba wokwenza izinto "ukukhombisa", ukuze uthole imvume.
8. Umona oqhubekayo wokuphumelela kwabanye.
9. Ukungakwazi ukuzwelana nokucwiliswa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, ngakho imizwelo yabanye abantu ibonakala ingabalulekile kuye.

Ngokwemvelo, akufanele ubhale umuntu ngokuthi "i-narcissus", ukuthola enye yezimpawu ezibhalwe ohlwini. Ungakwazi ukukhuluma nge-disorder kuphela ngemva kokuthola izici ezingu-5 noma ngaphezulu.

Ukwelashwa kwe-narcissistic personality disorder

Njengoba ungaqonda, kunzima kakhulu ukuxhumana nobuntu bendabuko, ngaphezu kwalokho, umuntu onjalo ukuphazamiseka ngokuvamile akujabuli. Uhlala esesimweni sokucindezeleka, futhi ngenxa yokuzwela ngokweqile kokuphambene (okungokoqobo noma okucabangelayo) kokuzihlonipha kwakhe, uzimisele ukucindezeleka , okungeke akwazi ukuphuma yedwa. Okubi nakakhulu ukuthi leyo nkinga ye-narcissistic ubunzima kakhulu ukuyiphatha. Inkinga ukuthi abantu abanjalo bavame ukubheka imbangela yokuhluleka hhayi kubo ngokwabo, kodwa kwabanye, ngakho-ke abazikhulumi ngokwabo ku-therapist, ikakhulukazi kulabo okungenani okusanhlamvu lwesilenta ukuze bazinikele ngokuhlonipha. Kodwa ngisho noma i-narcissus iwela ekwamukelweni kwesazi, akufanele ulinde ukuxazulula ngokushesha izinkinga - ukwelashwa kungathatha iminyaka eminingana.