Ngomhla ka-30 kuJulayi, umhlaba ugubha uSuku Lomngane Lomhlaba Wonke, ovame ukudideka noSuku Lwabanye LamaSuku. Ekuboneni kokuqala, lawa ngamaholide afanayo, kepha lokhu akulona iqiniso ngokuphelele. Kwabaningi bethu, ubuhlobo bungumqondo wokuziphatha, ubuhle bobuhlobo bomuntu, okuyinto engavamile, ngoba njengomthetho singenabo abangane bangempela.
Umlando weholidi
Isinqumo sokubamba iSuku Lomngane Lomhlaba Wonke ngoJuni 9 samukelwa ngo-2011 eMhlanganweni Wezizwe Ezihlangene. Umgomo wayo ukuqinisa ubuhlobo obuhle phakathi kwamazwe omhlaba. Namuhla, lolu daba luphuthumayo nakakhulu kunanini ngaphambili emlandweni wokusebenza kwezempi kanye nezimpi ezinkulu emazweni athile, lapho izwe ligcwele ubudlova nokungathembi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho nezakhamuzi zezwe ngalinye, idolobha, noma ikhaya livame ukuba nobuhlobo obunzima bokungqubuzana.
Inhloso yokwethulwa leli holide kwakuwukudala isisekelo esiqinile sokunqoba emhlabeni wethu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubuhlanga, isiko, ubuzwe, amasiko kanye nezinye iziphi izakhamuzi zeplanethi yethu.
Omunye wemisebenzi esemqoka ehlelwe esisekelweni seholidi ukubandakanya kwabantu abasha, mhlawumbe esikhathini esizayo, abaholi abazohola umphakathi womhlaba ngenhloso yokukhuthaza inhlonipho nokubambisana namasiko ahlukene.
Kuyini ubungane?
Sifundiswa kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuba sibe abangane nabo bonke, kodwa ukuchaza lo mqondo, ukumnikeza incazelo engavamile kungenakwenzeka. Izazi zefilosofi ezinkulu, izazi zengqondo kanye nabalobi bazama ukwenza lokhu. Mayelana nobungane obhalwe izincwadi eziningi nezingoma, badubula amakhulu amafilimu. Ngaso sonke isikhathi, ubungane babhekwa njengenani eliphakeme kunazo zonke.
Kuyathakazelisa, kodwa abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi namuhla ubungane akuyona neze umqondo wangempela. Omunye ukholelwa ukuthi akakho nje, futhi omunye uyaqiniseka ukuthi lokhu kuyisungulo.
Isafilosofi saseJalimane uHegel wayekholelwa ukuthi ubungane buyenzeka kuphela ebuntwaneni nasebusheni. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umuntu abe emphakathini - lesi yisigaba esiphakathi sokuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu. Umuntu omdala, njengombuso, akanaso isikhathi sabangane, endaweni yabo ngumndeni nomsebenzi.
Bawugubha kanjani leli holide?
I-UN inqume ukuthi umbuzo wokuthi iSuku Lamazwe Obuhlobo Bomkhosi lizogubha kanjani lizonqunywa ngokwehlukana ezweni ngalinye, kucabangela isiko namasiko. Ngakho-ke, imisebenzi emazweni ahlukene angase ahluke, kodwa umgomo uhlala ufana.
Ngokuvamile kwiSuku Lomhlaba Wonke Lobuhlobo, kunezenzakalo ezehlukene ezigqugquzela ubungane nokubambisana phakathi kwabameleli bamasiko ahlukene kanye nezizwe. Kulolu suku, kungenzeka ukuba uye emininimini yezingqungquthela nezinkulumo, ukuvakashela ikamu, lapho umqondo uzalwa khona ukuthi umhlaba uhlukile kakhulu futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu futhi kuyigugu.
Ubuhlobo besifazane nabesilisa
Bangobani abangane abangcono kakhulu: amadoda noma abesifazane? Yebo, sonke sazwa ngobuqotho nokuthembeka kobudlelwane besilisa, kepha futhi nokuthi "ubungane besifazane" abukho nhlobo. Izibonelo zobungane obuqotho phakathi kwamadoda zingaphezulu. Kodwa nansi izibonelo zobungane phakathi kwabameleli besifazane kakhulu kakhulu. Lokhu kungahlobene kanjani? Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi ubungane besifazane buyingxenye yesikhashana. Nakuba bobabili benenzuzo, ubungane bayoba khona. Kodwa uma izithakazelo zabesifazane zihlangana - konke: ubungane njengoba kungakaze kwenzeke! Futhi, njengomthetho, amadoda yisisithiyo esikhulu.
Uyavumelana nemibono yezengqondo zengqondo? Ngokwakho, sikholelwa ngokuqinile ebuhlotsheni beqiniso nabangenabugovu bobulili bobulili!