I- calico yokuqala, iphephandaba lesibili, noma iminyaka eyishumi eyadlulile kusukela ngosuku lapho abathandi ababili bebangena emshadweni womthetho, kufakwe emalini yemicimbi ephawulekayo edinga inhlangano yeholide elihle. Yeka ukuthi kuyoba kanjani: inomsindo, ngenani elikhulu lamenywe noma elizolile futhi elizimele - imibhangqwana izinqumela yona. Kodwa-ke, ekuhleleni ukuhlela imikhosi enkulu yangempela, nje kuphela ephansi kancane kulolo suku olukhunjulwayo, indoda nomfazi bazama ukuletha okuthile okujabulisayo hhayi kuphela, kodwa zonke izivakashi zihlangene. Yiqiniso, kunezinhlobonhlobo nezimo ezingenakubalwa, kodwa akekho noma ubani ongakwenza ngaphandle kwemincintiswano ejabulisayo, ezithakazelisayo neziqhakazile zomkhosi wokugubha umshado.
Jubilee womshado: kuyoba mnandi kuwo wonke umuntu
Ngempela, kukhona okufanekisela lokhu. Ngempela, esikhathini esithile esidlule, abashadile ababengakahlanganiswa nokuphila okuvamile, izinkinga nezinjabulo bahlanganyele ezivivinyweni ezihlongozwayo, futhi kakade namhlanje, kusukela ekuphakameni kweminyaka ndawonye noma ngonyaka owodwa ohlangene ojabulisayo, baba yingxenye emincintiswaneni yokukhumbula umshado futhi bameme abangani nezihlobo ukuba bachithe isikhathi esihle. Ngakho-ke, lezi zinto ezijabulisayo zingahle zihlukaniswe ngezigaba eziningana, yi:
- ukwakheka kwabahlanganyeli: kuphela abahlukumezi bomkhosi, zonke izivakashi, abesifazane kuphela, amadoda kuphela, izingane;
- izinsiza: ngezimfanelo ezengeziwe futhi ngaphandle kwazo;
- imvelo: esebenzayo, engenzi lutho;
- ifomu: ithimba, elingashadile.
Mhlawumbe elula, ngokwemibandela yenhlangano, imincintiswano yomshado wezingane. Njengoba izivakashi ezincane kunazo zonke zingabathintekayo kakhulu kulo mkhosi, zinganikeza ukuzijabulisa ngamabhola ahlanjululwe adinga ukuqhuma noma azizame ngokwengxenye yabaculi abanesibopho esiboshwe phambi kwabo. Ngokuvamile, ukuhamba nokuhamba okujabulisayo kuzoba ukuzijabulisa ezinganeni, nokuningi kuyoba injabulo nenjabulo.
Abantu abamenywa yi-Adult bazojabula futhi njengabantwana abancane uma bebalungiselela njengemidlalo emangalisa emincintiswaneni yomshado. Ngakho-ke umbhangqwana oshadile ngendlela yamahlaya uzokwazi ukuhlola ukuthi umyeni ufunde kanjani lokho okuthandwa ngumfazi, nokuthi umfazi ube nesikhathi sokukhumbula ngemikhuba yomyeni wakhe, ukuhlanganyela emincintiswaneni ngokusebenzisa imibuzo-izimpendulo kanye nokukhohlisa amashidi. Ngokuqondene nezivakashi, intshiseko yabo ngeke ibe nemkhawulo uma bezinikela ngokuzijabulisa kwendabuko ngezihlalo, benza ngokuvumelana nesimiso: ngubani ozohlala kuqala ngesikhathi umculo uzwakala, noma umncintiswano wokuqala lapho amaqembu amabili abamba khona. Izimo zakhe zilula: izivakashi zihambela phezulu futhi umholi utshela ilungu lokuqala leqembu ngalinye emgqeni igama lelo ilungu ngalinye lethimba elibonisa ngemuva komdlali oxhumana nabo ngenye incwadi. Iqembu liyinqoba, okuyinto ekupheleni komdlalo kuyoba ngowokuqala ukucacisa lokho okushiwo umphathi wesonto.
Umkhosi womshado emincintiswaneni nasemangalisa
Ngokuqondene nentsha, ukugubha usuku lokuqala lokukhishwa kokushada, kuyobe kuthakazelisa ukuphinda into ethile kulokho okwakukhona emgubho ngonyaka odlule bese uqhathanisa nemiphumela. Ngakho-ke, imincintiswano yokugubha usuku lokuqala lomshado iyoba nesithakazelo kwabashadayo abasanda kuzalwa, futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nabangani nomndeni osangayo.
Imicimbi esebenzayo lapho izivakashi zidinga khona ukufeza umgomo, nesikhathi sokuqoqa izinto ezithile, isigaba sezingane inganekwane, chaza umqondo owakhiwe ngomzimba, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amagama, uhlabele ingoma noma uphendule imibuzo ehlekisayo yemibuzo yangempela - imincintiswano emnandi yosuku lokugcina lomshado ngeke lusize abantu abakhuthele futhi ushiye kuphela ukubonakala okuhle komcimbi obalulekile.