Ukuhlakanipha komzwelo ukukwazi komuntu ukuqonda imizwa nemizwelo yakhe. Izazi zengqondo azikatholi incazelo eyodwa evamile yelithi elithi "ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo". Ososayensi banamuhla bakholelwa ukuthi imizwelo iyisitsha okufanele sifundwe ukuyisebenzisa. Abantu abahlakaniphile ngokomzwelo bayazi ukuthi bangaziqonda kanjani kunoma yikuphi isimo futhi baphumelele ubuhlobo nabanye. Ikhono lokuqonda nokuphatha imizwelo yomuntu ngokuvamile kuxhomeke ekuphumeleleni emsebenzini nasemsebenzini womuntu siqu. Njengoba izifundo ezingxenyeni zobuhlakani obungokomzwelo zibonisile, okuvezwa kakhulu nokuzwela imizwelo yabantu kuphumelele.
Ochwepheshe bezengqondo baseMelika uP. P. Salovei noJeier Meier bahlongoza ukucabangela ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo njengengxenye yokuhlakanipha kwezenhlalakahle. Ngokombono wabo, lezi zihloko ezimbili zihamba phambili. Zigxile ngokujwayelekile ezindaweni zomphakathi nezomuntu siqu. Kodwa zihlukile ngokuthi ukuhlakanipha kwezenhlalakahle kuhloswe ekuqondeni izimo zomphakathi, futhi ngokomzwelo - ukuqonda imizwa yabo, kanye nemizwa yabanye. Ukwakhiwa kobuhlakani obungokomzwelo obuphakanyiswa nguSalovay kanje:
- ukuqashelwa nokuveza imizwelo;
- ukulawulwa ngokomzwelo;
- Ukusetshenziswa kolwazi olwamukelwe ngokomzwelo ekucabangeni nasemisebenzini.
Lesi yisibonelo sokuqala nesidume kakhulu sokuhlakanipha kwengqondo kwimiqondo yezesayensi.
Njengoba sibona, ikhono lokubona imizwelo kuyisisekelo esibalulekile ekuthuthukiseni ukuhlakanipha kwengqondo.
Izindlela zokuthola ukuhlakanipha kwengqondo
Indlela eyinhloko yokuxilongwa ihlolwa. Izivivinyo eziningana zenzelwe uhlelo lokuqeqesha nezinhlelo zokuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo. Imiphumela yokuhlolwa inikezwa esikalini esilandelayo:
- ukuziphatha;
- isisusa;
- ulwazi;
- ukungena emoyeni ngaphakathi;
- ukuveza imizwelo;
- intuition social kanye nozwela.
I-RAS Institute of Psychology iye yasungula indlela ehlukile yokuxilongwa. Kuye kwadalwa uhlu lwemibuzo oluhambisana nokuhlukaniswa kobuhlakani obungokomzwelo phakathi kwabantu abathintekayo nabangaphakathi. Ngenxa yokuhlolwa, umuntu angafunda ngamakhono abo ukuze ahumushe imizwelo yabo kanye nabanye.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha komzwelo?
Ukuze uthuthukise ukuhlakanipha kwakho ngokomzwelo kudingekile ukuthuthukisa ukuqonda nokuzikhandla kwamakhono.
- Ukulungisa umbono wakho kuzokunika ithuba lokuqonda imizwelo yakho, ukuyiqonda, ukuqonda izizathu zokuvela kwazo. Abantu abawazi kahle imizwelo yabo, ngokuvamile baba abaholi, ngoba bayakwazi ukwethemba imizwa yabo futhi benze izinqumo ezinzima.
- Ukuziphathisa okuyiyona ingxenye yesibili eyisihluthulelo sokuhlakanipha kwengqondo. Kuzokufundisa ukuzilawula kunoma yisiphi isimo, ukusiza ukugcina ukulinganisela ngokomzwelo, ukuze ukwesaba, ukuthukuthela noma ukukhathazeka kungaphazamisi ukucaca kokucabanga futhi ungakuvumeli ukuba ungene kwi-stupor.
- Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa inhlalo
ikhono. It isekelwe ekutholeni umphakathi kanye nokuphathwa ubudlelwane. - Ukufaneleka kwezenhlalakahle yikhono lokuqonda abanye, ikhono lokuzibeka endaweni yomuntu ukuqonda imicabango nemicabango yabanye abantu. Ukuzizwa komphakathi kusho ikhono lokubona nokwanelisa izidingo zabantu abakuzungezile.
- Ukuphathwa kobudlelwane kukuvumela ukuba uqale othintana nabo futhi uhlanganyele nabanye abantu.
Zonke lezi zakhi ezine zakha isisekelo sokuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani obungokomzwelo. Ukukhulisa ngokwakho kungaphumelela impumelelo nokusebenza kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi.