Ubani phakathi kwethu ongazange aphuze impilo enhle, lapho kuyoba khona indlu yokunethezeka, izimoto ezibizayo nethuba lokungenzi imisebenzi yasekhaya? Kusobala ukuthi empilweni enjalo kubalulekile ukuba kuzalwe ngempumelelo, noma ukuxazulula kahle. Futhi iphuzu lokugcina livame ukuthatha umshado ophumelelayo, ngoba bambalwa kakhulu abantu abangayithola ngokuphila okuhlakaniphile, futhi isifiso esinjalo somsebenzi sizolimaza kakhulu.
Kodwa akulula kakhulu amadoda, hhayi wonke umuntu onganikeza khona ubuhle obuhle, i-aristocrat yangempela iyadingeka ngalokhu. Kuphela lapha izinkinga eYurophu zezikhulu ngeminwe zingabalwa, futhi lezo zonke zimatasa, yini okufanele ngiyenze? Mhlawumbe kufanelekile ukunaka iMpumalanga nokucabanga ukuthi ungashada kanjani inkosikazi?
Uphi ukuthola i-sheikh?
Okokuqala, kufanele kushiwo ukuthi ama-sheikh ase-Arabhu awawona abalingiswa bezinganekwane, kodwa amadoda avamile, anaso isikhwama esincane kakhulu kunabanye nomkhuba wesithembu. Uma amasiko wamaSulumane angakukhathazi, sekuyisikhathi sokuhamba ukufuna "isikhulu" sakho.
Manje kuyinto efiselekayo ukucacisa uhlu lwabajaji abanokukhathazeka kakhulu, noma kunjalo, kufanele kucatshangelwe ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu ocebile ngempela othanda ukuziqhenya ngenhlalakahle yabo, izigidigidi eziningi aziziwa nje emphakathini jikelele. Yebo, labo abangafihli ohlwini lweForbes kufanele bafundwe ngokucophelela, ikakhulukazi banakekele imikhuba yabo, ukuze bazi ukuthi yini okufanele balindele kumuntu othile. Isibonelo, iNdunankulu yaseDaily, uHamdan Al Maktoum oneminyaka engu-31 ubudala, ibhekwa njengenye yezingcezu ezihlwabusayo kunazo zonke, kodwa hhayi wonke umuntu okwazi ukubhekana nobuntu bakhe, ukhangeleka ngokubukeka futhi ephanga kakhulu, eveza izidingo eziqinile kakhulu kulabo abazenzisa esandleni sakhe nangenhliziyo.
Manje, manje ungakwazi futhi usesho, ukuhlushwa okukhulu kwe-sheikh e-UAE, ikakhulukazi e-Abu Dhabi. Lapha izindawo zokuhlangana zingaphezu kokwanele - amahhotela e-chic nezindawo zokudlela, amabhishi amahle kakhulu ngesihlabathi se-velvet - konke kufanele kutholwe ukhetho oluphelele. Njalo ngonyaka e-Abu Dhabi babuthana ukuze baboniswe ngemoto yokunethezeka - Big Boys Toys, amamodeli akhethekile ezithuthuthu futhi, okwamanje, izikebhe zokunethezeka nazo zihanjiswa lapha. Akudingeki ukuthi, osomabhizinisi abaphumelele kakhulu bakubheka njengesibopho sokuya kulo mcimbi? Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi akuzona nje amaheysi aseMpumalanga afika lapha, kodwa futhi nabamabhizinisi baseYurophu, ngakho-ke indawo iyohambisana nalabo abazobonakala bengaphandle ngokweqile isiko sama-Arab.
Ngokuvamile, ama-Emirates afanele ukukhishwa unyaka wonke kwabagibeli, njengoba amaholide amakhulu, imikhosi nezinye izenzakalo zivame kakhulu lapha. Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, isiqhingi esiseduze ne-Abu Dhabi sivikele iklabhu ye-yacht kubantu abayizigidigidi. Yiqiniso, ukufika lapho akulula, ngaphandle kokuthi uzama ukuthola umsebenzi lapho - umsikazi noma umsikazi. Mhlawumbe unenhlanhla futhi maduzane uzobuya lapho, kodwa kakade njengesivakashi esihloniphekile.
Indlela yokunqoba i-sheikh?
Ake sithi kukhona into efunyenwe, yini okufanele ngiyenze ngokulandelayo? Yiqiniso, ukunqoba, usebenzisa izintelezi zakho eziningi kakhulu zokubhoboza. Kudingeka nje ukhumbule ama-nuances ambalwa, ngoba uya kuma-ohmurat ezweni lamaSulumane. Ngakho ungabonisi zonke izintelezi zakho, lokhu kuyinto esingamukelekile, futhi ngisho nalapho futhi kuzoba yisibonakaliso sowesifazane oye waxoshwa. Futhi, awudingi ukuziphatha ngokweqile, lokhu ngeke kuvumele amadoda ukuthi akuthathe ngokungathí sina.
Akuvunyelwe ukubhema nokuphuza utshwala eduze nomuntu oyithandayo, futhi uma uzomshada, kuzodingeka ukhohlwe imikhuba emibi .
Beha ngokuzithoba nangokuthula, emazweni ase-Arabhu abesifazane akufanele babonise obala imizwelo yabo. Wena-ke, ungakwazi ukukhokhela okungaphezulu, kodwa okuncane, ukuze kube "okugqamile" kwakho, futhi ungesabi umkhwenyana ongakwazi.
Uma unquma ukuthatha ukuthandana kwe-Arab, kuzodingeka uzibophe izipho ezingabizi futhi uhamba, izenzo eziningi ezisebenzayo ziyochitha idumela lakho kuze kube phakade.