Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi abesifazane banamathele ezimangalisweni. Futhi akudingekile ukunikeza amafutha abizayo, izimbali ze-chic noma ezinye izinto ezingekho-nakuba kunjalo, lokhu kuyinto enkulu kunazo zonke kunoma yiluphi ubudlelwane. Kodwa thina, besifazane, singathola injabulo ngisho nasezintweni ezincane, ikakhulu uma zivela ngokungalindelekile. Phela, yilolu senzo olubonisa ukuthi bayakhumbula ngathi ukuthi bafuna ukwenza kube kuhle, ukuthi banendaba nathi.
Amadoda, izazi zengqondo zithi, akuzona njengothando njengabesifazana, kodwa nazo zithande izinto ezimangazayo. Futhi uma lokhu kumangala kungavamile, kodwa nge-spark, ngabe ngaphezu kwanoma yikuphi ukudumisa. Ngaphambi kokuba unikeze isimanga socansi, kufanele ucabange ngokucophelela ukuthi kumnandi ukumangala kanjani indoda yakho ethandekayo.
Ngakho, ukumangala kanjani umuntu embhedeni?
Lungisa isidlo sakusihlwa
I-Sexologists ithi emibhangqwaneni engu-89% yocansi iqala nge-caress ejwayelekile kanye namazwi avamile "ngakho." Awudingi ukubambelela kunoma yiziphi izinkolelo, qhubeka, ungabambeli endala. Ngakho, isibonelo, zama ukuqala isandulela ekhishini. Hlela umthandekayo wakho isidlo sothando, ukuhlobisa igumbi ngamakhandlela, wenze isilwane esiseduze. Kodwa esikhundleni sokudla, mnike izingcezu zezithelo nge ukhilimu ohlutshiwe, okungeke ulethe kuye ezitsheni, kodwa emzimbeni wakhe. Ngikholelwa, ngenxa yalokhu ngeke wazibuze ukuthi "ungamangala kanjani umuntu olele embhedeni," isimo esinjalo ngokwayo siyakuthinta kokubili, njengalokho umthandi wakho azokukhumbula isikhathi eside. Sicela uqaphele ukuthi kulezi zimo kungcono ukusebenzisa imikhiqizo ekhethekile engakhuphula libido (izinhlanzi zasolwandle, iwayini elibomvu, amakhowe).
Ilinde, ilinde, ilinde ...
Ukulindela umyeni, esikhundleni sokuxoxisana nezintombi zijwayele ukuhlanganyela ebhizinisini elihle kakhulu. Isibonelo, injabulo yakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngenxa yalokhu uzovula izindawo zakho ezintsha ezishaya indiva futhi ngokuqinisekile uzothola izindlela eziningi ezintsha ukuthi ungamangala kanjani
umyeni wakhe embhedeni. Njengoba wazi, ukuze umangaze indoda enesidingo udinga ukuba nesithakazelo, udinga ukumfuna ngokuqinile.
Peek, darling.
Amadoda amaningi ajabulela ukubukela owesifazane ohlangene nezinjabulo. Ngakho makangabone lokhu, futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe athole izinzwa ezizwakalayo nobulili obucabangayo. Kanti abesilisa be-sexologists bathi amadoda angama-80% aphupha, afuna owesifazane wakhe ngezikhathi ezithile ukuba aphinde abuyele njengesikole esikoleni, umhlengikazi, iphoyisa .... Kodwa ngesikhathi socansi akudingeki ukuba ucabange ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokuthi ungamangaza kanjani umuntu osembhede, vele uzinikele ekutheni uzwele futhi uzizwe futhi kufanele uwenze kahle.
Zama ukubheka sexy ekhaya
Ngeshwa, ezweni lanamuhla kukhona ukuthula nokuthula okuncane kakhulu. Kungenxa yalokhu ukuthi sizama ukumthola ekhaya. Ngakho-ke, iningi labesifazane, lapho befika ekhaya, bagqoke ingubo endala noma ama-pajamas futhi cishe akekho noyedwa wabo ocabanga ngendlela abazobonwa ngayo ngodadewabo. Abamagazini abaningi babhala ukuthi owesifazane kufanele agqoke ingubo ebiza kakhulu, enhle kakhulu. Lokhu, kunjalo, kulungile, kodwa kungani kungabikho muntu wabo obhala ngendwangu encane yomshini noma isambatho lapho intombazane ehlonipha khona kufanele ihambe khona. Ngemuva kwalokho konke, niyabo, kungcono kakhulu ukubuka kunengubo endala.
Ukuphikiswa
Bonke abantu bangokwemvelo nabahlukumezi. Ngakho-ke, sisekela lo mdlalo, mnike ukumelana naye, vumela uzuze. Lokhu mhlawumbe indlela elula futhi ephumelelayo kakhulu yokumangaza umyeni wakho ngocansi.
Uma namanje, ngesizathu esithile, awuzange ukhethe ukhetho olungcono kuwe ukuthi ungamangala kanjani umyeni wakho embhedeni, ungadikibali. Qala amancane - uthenge ama-linens enhle ngamabhedi enemibala emihle. Lokhu, futhi, kungathinta izinga lobulili. Futhi ekugcineni khumbula, zikhona izimfihlo eziningi ezahlukene, kunokuba ungamangaza umuntu, ngakho-ke yenza isinyathelo, bheka indlela efanele bese uyifaka ekuphileni. Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, uma ufunda ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile nomlingani wakho, ngoba kuphela uzokwazi ukuthi uyakuthanda nokuthi yini engamangazanga ngempela indoda yakho ngocansi. Khumbula, ubulili obuhle abugcini nje ukugcina uthando, kodwa luzosiza ukuliqinisa.