Yiqiniso, iningi lethu lizwile ngesenzakalo esinjalo njengoba ukwesaba kwengane. Kodwa yilokho okuyikho, nokuthi lokhu ukwethuka kwengane, futhi ikakhulukazi kwengane, kubonakala - akuwona wonke umuntu ongaphendula. Yingakho ingxoxo yethu namhlanje izohamba ngendlela yokunquma ukwesaba kwengane.
Izimpawu zokwesaba ingane
Ekhuluma ngesabiso lwezingane, akuyona into engafanele ukwenza ukubhuka ukuthi lesi sifo sineli gama elisemthethweni lasemthethweni alikwazi. Ngakho-ke, kulungile kakhulu ukukhuluma hhayi ngezimpawu, kodwa ngezibonakaliso zokwesaba kwengane yanoma yimuphi ubudala, kuhlanganise nengane. Ukwesaba igama elivamile lokukhathazeka okwesaba ingane eqhubeka ngenxa yokwethuka kwesaba. Yiqiniso, ingqondo yengane ingumapulasitiki, futhi ukushaqeka okuningi kudlulile, kungashiyi lutho. Kodwa kwezinye izimo, ziholela ekukhuleni okuqhubekayo kokukhathazeka, okubonakala ngeziqephu zokukhala okungenangqondo, ukunciphisa ukudla, ukulala, ukungabikho komzimba, ukuqhuma noma ukulibazisa ukukhulumisana kwenkulumo. Isizathu sokwesabisa usana singase sibe umsindo ozwakalayo, isibonelo, inja ehlabayo noma i-firecrackers enkulu, umqulu wokuduma, ingxabano yasekhaya. Ukwesabisa ingane kungabhidliza ibhaluni noma kuzame ukumyisa ezandleni zomuntu omdala. Abasindile besaba, futhi babonakala bekhunjulwe ngokuphepha ngale ngane, bangaqala ukwesabisa abazali ngesifuba nobusuku bobusuku, isifiso sihlale sisondelene nomama. Ingane evulekile futhi ejabule, esasinda ukwesaba, ingaba i-beech enezinyembezi, igxuma nganoma yisiphi umsindo esibukhali.
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokubuyisela imvuthuluka kuzoba yikho uthando lomzali olungapheli. Uzokutshela ukuthi ungamsiza kanjani ingane ngokuphumelelayo ukwesaba kwakhe: ukulandela indlela yemithi yendabuko noma ukuphendukela ochwepheshe babantu. Noma kunjalo, indlela yokuqeda ukwesaba kuyoba isikhathi eside futhi kunzima.