Uma ucabanga ngokuklanywa kwekamelo labantwana labantwana ababili, okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuhlukanisa izindawo ezimbili eziyinhloko: indawo yesikhala somuntu ngamunye wengane kanye nendawo yokuzibandakanya ngokuhlanganyela.
Izingane ezinomncintiswano weminyaka encane kalula zihlangana ekamelweni elilodwa. Uma umehluko eminyakeni yobudala engaphezu kweminyaka emibili, ke, esimweni sendawo, kubalulekile ukucabangela isifiso sabantu bonke, ukuze kungabikho muntu wezingane ozizwa evinjelwe.
Ingaphakathi legumbi labantwana labantwana ababili kumele, nakanjani, lenze indawo eyodwa evamile. Lesi sikhala singakha i-set perpendicular komunye nomunye umbhede, ikhoneni lezemidlalo, noma ezinye izingcezu zefenisha.
Ifenisha ekamelweni labantwana labantwana ababili
Ngokuya ngobukhulu bekamelo kanye nokwehluka kweminyaka yobudala ezinganeni, kunezinketho eziningi zokuhlela ifenisha. Yiqiniso, isihloko esiyinhloko esingaphakathi kwendawo yokulala yilona umbhede. Sinikeza izinketho eziningana zokubeka imibhede:
- imibhede emibili ejwayelekile. Imibhede emibili ilula ngoba ingakha isikhala sabantwana abavamile. Futhi, ngemibhede enjalo, izingane zizozizwa zilingana. Okukhethwa kukho ngemibhede emibili kufanelekile kuphela ngamakamelo anendawo enkulu, ngoba le nqubo ifenisha ithatha isikhala esikhulu;
- umbhede wendima. Lokhu kuhluka kwemibhede yengane yezinyanga ezimbili kuvame ukwanele, ngoba kuthatha isikhala esincane futhi sikhangele izingane eziningi. Umbhede wengane wezingane ezimbili kufanele uthengelwe izingane ezingaphezu kweminyaka emihlanu ubudala, ongakwazi kalula ukwehla embhedeni ongaphezulu ebusuku. Ngombhede ophezulu, njengombuso, uhlele izingane ezindala, kodwa kwezinye izimo ukhetho oluhlukile lungenzeka. Kubalulekile ukucabangela isimo nemvelo yengane, ukuze angacasuli noma ahlaselwe indawo yokulala embhedeni ophansi;
- imibhede emibili ye-loft yezingane. Loluhlelo lwefenisha lungcono emakamelweni ezincane ezincane. Kulesi simo, ingane ngayinye inendawo yokulala ehlukile futhi isikhala somuntu siqu, esingasilungiselela ukunambitheka kwayo.
Okubaluleke kakhulu ekwakhiweni kwegumbi labantwana labantwana ababili yilona inhlangano yendawo yokusebenzela yengane ngayinye. Wonke umuntu kufanele abe nendawo yakhe, ahlukaniswe nomunye ingane, ukuze atadishe. Umbhede-loft ungasombulula le nkinga. Itafula elisezingeni lokuqala lobhede loft ligcina isikhala esikhulu ekamelweni futhi lidala indawo eyimfihlo yengane yomntwana.
Ekamelweni elikhulu, ungahlela amatafula amabili efasiteleni. Ekamelweni elincane ungasebenzisa itafula elilodwa, ohlukaniswe ukuhlukanisa.
Igumbi labantwana labantwana ababili bobulili obuhlukile
Ngokuhlukile, umuntu kufanele acabange ngokuklanywa kwekamelo labantwana labantwana ababili bezocansi ezahlukene. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi umzalwane nodade kumele bahlelwe kabusha ngaphandle kweminyaka engaphezu kwengu-11. Noma i-nursery yabo ehlangene kuyodingeka iguqulwe ibe izingxenye ezimbili ezizimele, ehlukaniswe ifenisha noma ukwahlukana.
Imiklamo yangaphakathi yekamelo lezingane ezimbili ezihlukene ngokobulili kufanele, ekuqaleni, yenze izidingo zomntwana ngamunye zenzeke, ezihlukile ngisho nangeminyaka engu-5-7. Abazali kufanele banikeze ngamunye wezingane ithuba lokubamba iqhaza ekwakheni isikhala sabo siqu.
Indlela yokuhlobisa igumbi lomntwana?
Abazali abaningi bayazibuza ukuthi bangahlobisa kanjani igumbi lomntwana, ikakhulukazi uma ingane ihlala egumbini elingeyona yedwa. Indlwana yegumbi lezingane,
- umbukiso wemidwebo yezingane nemisebenzi yezandla;
- Ifenisha enezithombe zezinhlamvu zakho zezintandokazi zezingane;
- iphepha lodonga;
- Imicibisholo noma ibhodi lamaketha odongeni.
Izingane eziningi kakhulu ziyabonga lezo zakhi zokuhlobisa ongazibuka, uzizwe, upende noma uphule. Ukuze uhlele igumbi labantwana labantwana ababili kufanele lihanjiswe ngokucophelela, ngoba ifenisha oyikhethayo kanye nokuklama kuncike ekutheni izingane zizozizwa kanjani.