Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi kubi ukuphuza. Futhi ukwakha umbono omuhle ngawe, kufanele uzame ukugwema ngokucophelela izimo ezinjalo.
Nakuba, ngokwemigomo yokuziphatha, kukhona isimiso esithile sokulibaziseka, futhi umuntu ofunde kahle uyazi kahle ukuthi ungashesha, kodwa udinga ukwazi ukuthi kuphi nokuthi kungakanani. Isibonelo, esidlweni sakusihlwa se-gala, ungase ufike isikhathi semaminithi angu-20, kepha ukudla kwasekuseni kwebhizinisi kuthatha imizuzu engu-10 kuphela.
Kunoma yikuphi, ukubambezeleka nokuntuleka kokugcina isikhathi kuzosithinta kabi umbono wakho futhi kungathinteka kakhulu igunya lakho. Siqoqe ukuvuma okungenangqondo okungama-16 kwabantu abangakwazi ukugcina isikhathi. Kodwa ingabe bayajabula kakhulu ukuthi bahlale bephuzile? Ake sihlole!
1. Okokuqala, wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi empilweni kukhona izimo ezingalindelekile, okuyinto, ngeshwa, ukuphuma ekulawuleni futhi kuholele ekubambezelweni. Abanye kufanele bakhumbule lokhu futhi baqonde.
Ngazama.
2. Ngokuvamile, ngezinye izikhathi kudingeka ube sekwephuzile. Okungenani kusuka kumgomo futhi ngokuqondile.
Siyakwamukela!
Ake sithi, kungani ufika emphakathini wakho ngesikhathi, uma ungase uhambe kancane? Izivakashi ziyojabula!
3. Ake sivume, ayikho into enjengokuthi "kusheshe kakhulu." Ngokuvamile, ayikho isimiso.
Ngize.
4. Ngendlela, ukuphuza isikhathi eside kuvame ukukhulula esimweni esihlazo.
5. Bonke abaqhamukayo bayavuma ukuthi ukuphumula ngezinye izikhathi ngezinye izikhathi kusindisa emhlanganweni ongafuneki noma usuku. I-ugly, yebo, kodwa isebenza nakanjani!
6. Kunzima ukuvuma, kepha imizuzu eyi-5-10 yokubambezeleka ingakudla okuthile okuthakazelisayo nokuthakazelisayo. Isibonelo, buka i-movie oyikhonzile, ekhonjiswa ku-TV ngesikhathi esifanele lapho udinga ukuphuma.
Angikwazi ukwamukela konke lokhu okungaqiniseki
7. Futhi-ke, kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuphumula kwehora ngenye indawo kukuvumela ukuba ubukele uchungechunge oluthandayo lwe-TV ekhaya isikhathi eside.
8. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ube ngumuntu ohloniphekile kumuntu ohamba phambili. Futhi ngokuzumayo, wachitha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu ukuba ahlangane futhi abukeke ehloniphekile?
Kuhle, anginakho ukugqoka!
9. Ngikholelwa ukuthi bonke abaphuzile bazohlala bekunikeza ithuba lokukhuluma nekhanda labo elixoshiwe mayelana nokuziqhenya kwabo nokungahambisani nokugcina isikhathi. Kodwa uyazi, lokhu ngeke kushintshe noma yini.
10. Ngendlela, i-alamu ayiqinisekisi ukugcinwa kwesikhathi okunembile ngabantu abangebona isikhathi. Yonke indaba ikhona ebuhlotsheni obukhethekile: wavala futhi walala.
O, ekuseni kakhulu. Lokhu kubi.
11. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi unembeza uvuswa sekwephuzile, futhi bacabanga ngokujulile ngokungapheli kokuphila kwabo kanye nesimo esesabekayo sokubambezeleka okuphakade.
12. Nakuba bakholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi, ngolunye usuku, kuzophela konke futhi ubulungiswa beqiniso buyobe bukhona.
13. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ngokuxoxisana nomhlangano nomuntu ongekho isikhathi, usengozini ukulinda isikhathi eside kunesikhathi esihleliwe. Ngakho-ke, vele ufike kamuva!
Kusho ukuthini lokhu?
14. Njengoba abantu bephuzile bevuma, kukhona i-aura yama magic esenza sikholelwe ukuthi okuhleliwe kuzokwenzeka ngesikhathi.
15. Futhi, ngokukhuluma ngokukhululekile, abantu abanjalo kufanele baqondwe kalula futhi bathethelelwe, ngoba bangaba nezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kunokusabalalisa okulungile kwesikhathi sabo.
Ngithethelele!