Muva nje, uvame ukuzwa inkulumo ethi "ukhathele ngokuphila", futhi akunandaba ukuthi umuntu ungumuntu omdala nokuthi isimo sakhe senhlalo sinjani. Ngezinye izikhathi kufika umzuzwana wokuzwa ukungabi nasizo nokungabi nalutho okukhona. Mhlawumbe akumangalisi uma umama omama abasebenza abathathu ekhuluma ngokukhathala okuvela ekuphileni, kodwa kungani abantu abaphumelelayo abakwazi ukukhokhela izinto eziningi bathi lokhu, kuhlanganise nokungasebenzi nsuku zonke?
Iqiniso liwukuthi, njengoba umthetho, akusho ngokukhathala okungokwenyama okwenziwe, nakuba kunjalo, kunomthelela esimweni esixoshiwe. Ngesinye isikhathi umuntu ebona ukuthi akukho lutho olumjabulisayo futhi alumangazi, ukhonjiswe ngendlela evamile kanye neyodwa futhi wenza imisebenzi engenazo izincazelo.
Kungani kwaba nzima ngokuzumayo ukuhlala?
Lapha ungaqala ukukhuluma ngesigqi esiphuthumayo sokuphila, ukugeleza okukhulu kolwazi, izidingo ezithandwayo, umsebenzi oqhubekayo kanye nezinye izimpawu zokuphila kwanamuhla. Kodwa ungakwazi ukubhekana nakho konke lokhu uma wazi ukuthi kungani wenza lokhu.
Akudingeki ukuthi, intombazane ehamba nsuku zonke emisebenzini engathandeki futhi ibekezelele abaqashi be-quibbling, ngokushesha noma kamuva iyosho ukuthi "Konke. Ngikhathele, angifuni ukuhlala njengalokhu. " Kodwa uma eqonda ukuthi lena yindlela ewukuphela kwayo angayigcina imali eya eNdiya, ephuphayo kusukela eminyakeni eyishumi, umsebenzi uzoba lula.
Ngokuvamile ukukhathala okuvela ekuphileni kubonakala kulabo bantu abangaqiniseki ukuthi baphila kahle. Mhlawumbe, ukuze baphile njengoba kunjalo manje, abazali babo babeke bafundise, kodwa bona ngokwabo bafuna okunye. Lokhu kusho ukuthi udinga ukushintsha into bese ubheka incazelo yakho. Yiqiniso, ukukhathala okuvela ekuphileni kungahlotshaniswa nokukhathala okungapheli, kunzima kakhulu ukujabulela okuthile lapho umzimba uphelelwe amandla, kodwa lokhu kuyinkinga enkulu yempilo edinga ukuxazululwa ngaphansi kokuqondiswa udokotela.
Yini ongayenza uma ukhathele ukuphila?
Izenzo zilula futhi zifinyeleleka kuwo wonke umuntu.
- Ungavumeli ukukhathala ngokomzimba - zama ukungasebenzi ngaphezu kwesiqhelo, ukuphumula isikhathi esanele, udle kahle, ulahle imikhuba emibi, ungakhohlwa ngomsebenzi owenziwe ngokomzimba kanye nokuhamba okuvamile emoyeni omusha.
- Khumbula indlela ophuphe ngayo ebuntwaneni bakho bese ucabanga ngalokho ongathanda ngempela manje. Yenza amaphupho agcwaliseke, kaningi uzijabulise ngokwakho ngamathanga amnandi.
- Thola incazelo. Injongo yokuphila ingatholakala ezinhlokweni ezihlukahlukene, umuntu ubona kubantwana nabazukulu, ngoba umuntu uqukethe ukuzithuthukisa, umuntu udinga ukuzilibazisa, njll. Kunoma yikuphi, kubalulekile ukuphilela okuthile, hhayi nje lokho, ngakho ngeke kube nzima kakhulu.
- Xoxa nabantu abafana nomqondo ofanayo. Thola ukuchitha isikhathi okuthandayo futhi uchithe isikhathi nabantu abelana ngothando lwakho ukuze ufunde okuthile okusha nokuthuthuka njalo. Lokhu kungenye yezimiso ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuzivuselela, okuyisici
kubalulekile ukwaneliseka ngokuphila ngokubanzi. - Shintsha iphuzu lokubuka. Mhlawumbe ngeke kube lula, kodwa isimo sengqondo esihle ekuphileni senza kube lula ukubhekana nezinkinga futhi kukuvumela ukuba ujabulele izintambo ezinjengefu elingavamile esibhakabhakeni, ingoma enhle kumsakazo noma itiye elimnandi.
- Kodwa kunzima ukunikeza izeluleko zekhonkrithi ezizofeza ngokushesha lezo zinguquko. Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka emva kokuzindla isikhathi eside, ngezinye izikhathi nje umcabango owodwa. Ngokuvamile ukuguqula umbono wokuphila kwanyathelisa izincwadi ezijulile noma amafilimu angasimangazayo, noma ukuxhumana nabantu abahamba emlandweni ojulile. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi lokhu kwenzeka ngesikhathi ulungele ushintsho.