I-Maximalism ivame kakhulu phakathi kwentsha, kodwa abanye abantu bayithwala ngokwabo impilo yabo yonke. Le ndlela yokuphila ibonisa ukuthambekela kokudlulela kuzo zonke izinto: ezifunweni, ekubukeni ngokuphila, ezimangalisweni zabo. Kubantu abanjalo kunomnyama nomhlophe kuphela - futhi akukho mthunzi owodwa wegrey. Azinamatheleki, azibekelelanga futhi azinzima kakhulu ekukhulumisaneni. Incazelo yegama elithi "maximalism" (kusukela eLatini eliphakeme kunazo zonke, elikhulu kunazo zonke) lisho isifiso sokufeza konke ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngomzamo omncane.
Maximalism yentsha: yobudala
Njengomthetho, i-maximimalism efomeni yayo ehlanzekile iqala lapho ingane ingasaneyingane, kodwa ingakabi umuntu omdala, okungukuthi, kusukela eneminyaka engu-13 kuya ku-17. Ngezinye izikhathi lezi zimingcele zingashintsha. Kule minyaka yobudala, izingane ziqala ukuphikisana nabazali bazo , zikholelwa ukuthi zingenakuthola ngokuphila kwanamuhla, futhi umbono wabangane kubo, njengombuso, ubaluleke kakhulu kunomkhandlu womzali. Ngakho-ke inqwaba yezinto ezingenangqondo neziphukuphuku izingane ezivame ukuzenza esikhathini esinzima kangaka.
Intsha iyayiphika yonke into ehlonishwa ngabazali bayo, futhi ihlangene kalula nezinhlobonhlobo zezinkampani zentsha kanye nama- subcultures , lapho wonke umuntu ecabanga ukuthi zikhona - umahluko oqinile phakathi kokuhle nokubi nokungaqondi kahle kokukhethwa okuvamile. Intsha iyacabanga ukuthi abantu abadala abazi impilo, bayayidanisa kakhulu - futhi ngokuqinisekile bayohlala kulula kakhulu, ezithakazelisayo futhi bezijabulisa kakhulu!
Ukufutheka, okusheshayo, ukuzidla, kanye nokuntula okuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila ngokuvamile kuvusa intsha ukuba ibe nemiphumela emibi kakhulu - kodwa lokhu kuyimpilo, futhi wonke umuntu kufanele enze amaphutha akhe.
Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi esikhathini sethu ungakwazi ukuhlangana nabantu abadala nabantu abaningi, abasenayo isici se-maximalism yokuziphatha. Ngokuvamile kubonakala kungavamile uma umuntu omdala, esesenalo ulwazi oluhle ngemuva kwakhe, usalokhu egijimela kusukela ekudluleleni ngokweqile - kodwa kulokhu umuntu angabheka i-maximalism njengesici somlingiswa.
Maximalism yentsha emantombazaneni
Ngesigamu sowesifazane, lesi sigaba sinomthakazeliso ngokukhethekile. Intombazane edlala amadonsa eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ngokuzumayo iyaqaphela ukuthi isikhathi semidlalo sidlulile. Ukulungele ukulwa nazo zonke izinto zakhe ezintsha, udinga konke ngesikhathi esisodwa, futhi "obuthakathaka" usekulungele ukwenza noma yini, ecabanga ukuthi ubonisa amandla obuntu bakhe, futhi akabonisi ubuthakathaka bakhe.
Kule nkathi ukuthi amantombazane aqala ukuhlolwa okungajwayelekile nge-makeup kanye nezingubo zokubukeka zivuthiwe. Ngokuvamile, kanye nalesi sigaba "sokukhula" amantombazane azama, alingisa abangane abanolwazi oluningi, ukunambitha nezithelo ezingavunyelwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili, utshwala, ukubhema noma izidakamizwa. Lokhu, mhlawumbe, yisici esibi kunazo zonke, ngoba i-psyche enesibindi kusuka kulokhu ngezinye izikhathi ilimala kakhulu.
Maximism: kanjani ongazuza?
Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke enikeza maximalism - lokhu kungamandla amakhulu. Uma uyiqondisa ngendlela efanele, ungakwazi ukuzilungiselela isiqalo esihle sokuqala okuhle empilweni.
Okuhle kunakho konke, uma kakade ngaphambi kokuqala kokukhula, ingane yanquma ezintweni zokuzilibazisa. Laba bantu abahlanganyela ekudansa, ezemidlalo, emidwebeni kanye neminye imisebenzi yokudala ethatha isikhathi esiningi samahhala, njengombuso, bancane amathuba okubhekana nemiphumela emibi ye-maximimalism, njengokuzama ukukhula "ngokushesha". Futhi uma intombazane noma insizwa inomgomo wokufeza okuningi ensimini ekhethiwe, izisusa ezihambisana ne-maximalism zizoba yisisusa esengeziwe. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukubeka imigomo yangempela futhi uhambe kubo njalo, futhi ungazami ukunqoba kukho konke ngaphandle kokulungiselela kwangaphambili.