Ukubhujiswa

Ukubhujiswa yigama elisuselwa egameni lesiLatini elithi destructio, elisho ngokuhunyushwa lisho ukubhujiswa, ukwephula isakhiwo esijwayelekile sento ethile. Ngokwengqondo, leli gama lisho isimo sengqondo esibi somuntu, esiqondisa ezintweni ezithile zangaphandle (ngaphandle), noma, ngokuzithandela, kuye (ngaphakathi), kanye nokuziphatha okuhambisana nale mibono.

Ukubhujiswa: jikelele

UDkt. Sigmund Freud ukholelwa ukuthi ukubhujiswa kuyisakhiwo esivamile somuntu, futhi bakholelwa ukuthi umehluko owukuphela kwalokhu okushiwo yilo mcimbi. U-Eric Fromm emsebenzini "I-Anatomy of Destructive Human" uyaqiniseka ukuthi ukubhujiswa okuqondiswe ngaphandle kuwukubonakaliswa kwalokho okuqondiswe ngaphakathi, ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi uma ukubhujiswa komuntu kungabhekiswa kuyo, khona-ke ngeke ukwazi ukuqhubeka kwabanye.

Ukubhujiswa kwabantu kubangelwa ukuthi umuntu umane nje evimbela ukukhiqizwa kwamandla athelayo, ebona izithiyo ezihlukahlukene endleleni yabo yentuthuko kanye nokuziveza. Kungenxa yokwehluleka kwendaba eyinkimbinkimbi yokuziqaphela ukuthi lesi simo esiyinkimbinkimbi sisuka. Kuyathakazelisa, kodwa lo muntu uhlala engajabuli ngisho nangemva kokufeza imigomo.

Ukubhujiswa nokuqondisa kwayo

Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, ukubhujiswa kungaqondiswa ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Ake sicabangele izibonelo zazo zombili izinhlobo.

Ukubonakaliswa kokuziphatha okulimazayo okuqondiswe ngaphandle kungacatshangelwa amaqiniso alandelayo:

Imiphumela engalungile kulokhu izoba yithinte kakhulu into yangaphandle, hhayi umuntu ngokwakhe.

Ukubonakaliswa kokuziphatha okulimazayo okuqondiswe ngaphakathi, noma ukukhiqizwa kwempahla, kufaka:

Kungaba khona ukubonakaliswa okuningi futhi konke kudala umonakalo othile, amanye amakhulu, amanye amancane.

Ukuziphatha okulimazayo nokulimazayo

Ukuziphatha okulimazayo uhlobo lokuziphatha olonakalisa umuntu, olubhekiswe ekuphambukeni okuphawulekayo kusukela emikhondweni ekhona yengqondo nakwezokwelapha, ngenxa yalokho izinga lokuphila komuntu elibhekene kakhulu. Ubuntu buyeke ukubuyekezwa ngokujulile nokuhlola ukuziphatha kwabo, kukhona ukungaqondi ukuthi kwenzekani nokuhlanekezeka kokuqonda kwengqondo ngokujwayelekile. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuzethemba kuyancipha, zonke izinhlobo zokuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo ziphakama lokho kuholele ekungalungeni kwezenhlalakahle, nakubonakaliso obuqine kakhulu.

Ukubhujiswa ngokwayo kukhona wonke umuntu, kodwa kubonakala kuphela ezinzima, ezinzima, mhlawumbe, izikhathi ezibalulekile zokuphila. Ngokuvamile lokhu kwenzeka ezinganeni, ngubani, ngaphezu kwezinkinga ze-psyche ehlobene neminyaka ubudala, zisabunzima ngokufunda imithwalo yokuziphatha nokuzihlanganisa okunzima nesizukulwane esidala.

Kwezinye izimo, izinguquko zobuntu ezibhubhisayo zingenzeka, ezibandakanya ekubhujisweni kwesakhiwo sobuntu noma, njengokukhetha, ezinye zezingxenye zayo. Kunezinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zalesi simo: ukuguqulwa kwezinhloso zokuziphatha, ukuguqulwa kwezidingo, ukuguqulwa komlingiswa nokuziphatha, ukwephula ukuziphatha kokuzibophezela, ukuzithemba okungenele kanye nezinkinga ekukhulumisaneni nabanye.