Igama elithi "isikhathi esidala" ngezikhathi ezahlukene lisho iminyaka ehlukile. Ngakho-ke, eminyakeni yobudala nephakathi kwabekholelwa ukuthi owesifazane ongazange abelethe ingane yakhe ngaphambi kokuzalwa kweminyaka engu-20 wayesele esekhulile ukukhulelwa. Phakathi nekhulu lama-20, lo mda "ngemuva ..." uthuthelelwe uneminyaka engama-24. Khona-ke abesifazane basebekhulile baqala ukubhekwa njengabantu abaneminyaka engaphezu kwe-28, noma ngisho neminyaka engu-30.
Ngokuvamile, leli gama elibi lisalokhu lishaya abesifazane abaningi. Vumelana, kuhlambalaza ukuzwa ekhelini lakho lesi sici, ngisho noma ubeletha okokuqala eminyakeni engama-35. Ezokwelapha zanamuhla, bazama ukukhipha leli gama bese belifaka ngokuthembeka - " ukubeletha kwesikhathi eside ".
Ngabe owesifazane ucatshangwa ukuthi udala-timer?
Noma kunjalo ukubeletha kwasekupheleni kubalwa ngokuhlukile emazweni ahlukene emhlabeni. Ngakho-ke, ngokwesibonelo, e-Ukraine isilinganiso sobudala sezinsana zokuqala siyiminyaka engu-24, eRussia - 26 noma ngaphezulu. Futhi emazweni athuthukile aseYurophu, abesifazane bathanda ukukhulelwa emva kuka-30-31, lapho umsebenzi wabo usufinyelele ezingeni elithile, ubudlelwane nomyeni wakhe baye babhekana nazo zonke izinhlobo ze-cataclysms futhi baqiniswa, futhi impilo ilungiswa esimweni "esanelisayo".
Ngokuvamile, izimbangela zokukhulelwa kwesikhathi sokubeletha nokubeletha ziwumphumela wokukhipha izisu zangaphambilini, okubangele ukungabi nabantwana kwabesifazane . Ngenhlanhla, imithi yesimanje iyakwazi ukusiza ngisho nasezimo ezibonakala zimbi kakhulu.
Ukukhulelwa emva kweminyaka engu-25 - pluses kanye minuses
Naphezu kokusungulwa komphakathi wethu ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uthatha isinqumo sokubeletha ingane yokuqala, kunzima kakhulu futhi kuyingozi kakhulu, ukubelethwa kwesikhathi kusenayo izinzuzo ezingenakuphika. Isibonelo, ukuthi ukukhulelwa okunjalo kuvame ukwamukelwa futhi kulindelwe isikhathi eside. Lokhu kuzoba nethonya elikhulu ekukhulekeni, ekubelethweni nasekukhuliseni abantwana.
Okwesibili, owesifazane oneminyaka yobudala uhlakaniphile kakhulu lapho ekhulelwa, ehlola ngokucophelela impilo yakhe, ehamba nayo yonke ucwaningo oludingekile, wenza konke ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umntwana uthuthukile kahle futhi wazalwa enempilo.
Ngokuvamile, owesifazane emva kweminyaka engu-25 usulungele ukuzala
Ngokuphathelene namaminithi, iningi labo lihlotshaniswa nezifo zesimiso segazi, kanye nezifo ezingapheli zenye izitho nezinhlelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane baba izicubu ezincane, izixhumo, okuvame ukuholela ekudingeni isigaba sokudla.
Kodwa-ke, lezi zinsalela zingashintshwa kalula zibe yi-pluses, uma uqapha impilo yakho, ngesikhathi sokuphathwa nokudlala imidlalo yonke impilo yakho.