Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi emhlabeni wanamuhla inani labantu abakholelwa emibonakalweni liye lahla kakhulu, phakathi kwabo kusekhona abalandeli bezinkolelo-ze. Ngemva kokuqonda ukuthi unyawo luni olufanele, ungabheka esikhathini esizayo futhi ufunde amaqiniso abalulekile. Izinkolelo-ze zavela amakhulu eminyaka edlule, ngenxa yokugcinwa kwabantu. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi isibonakaliso sinezincazelo ezimbalwa, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuqhathanisa ulwazi olutholiwe nezenzakalo zokuphila kwangempela.
Kuyini ukuchithwa kwesinyawo sokunene?
Esikhathini esidlule abantu bakholelwa ukuthi ukuvuthwa kuvela ngaphambi kohambo olude. Uhambo luyoba mnandi futhi ngeke lunikeze okuningi okubonakalayo, kodwa nabangane abasha. Uhambo luzosiza futhi, okuzokwenza ngcono isimo sakho sezezimali. Kweminye imithombo, ngisho noma kukhona ulwazi ukuthi isibonakaliso esisodwa sithembisa ukuhlangabezana nesinye isigamu. Uma umuntu one-itch, uhlela uhambo, khona-ke ungaqiniseka ukuthi umgwaqo uzoba lula, othakazelisayo futhi kumnandi. Kukhona isibonakaliso esitshela ukuthi kungani unyawo olufanele luhlungiwe endaweni yeminwe. Uma ukuhlunga kufakwe endaweni kule ndawo, kufanelekile ukulungiselela ukufika kwezivakashi. Imikhosi iyojabulisa futhi ithakazelise, okuyoyivuselela, isuse ukungezwani, futhi usengathola izindaba ezithakazelisayo. Isibonakaliso, lapho unyawo olunene luhlungiwe khona, lingasho ukuthi "umphefumulo ucela" ngemidanso.
Kuyothakazelisa futhi ukwazi ukuthi leli phupho lisho ukuthini, lapho kwakukhona ukuhlunga endaweni yangakwesokudla. Iphupho elinjalo likhombisa ukuhlangana okuphumelelayo, ngakho-ke ungafika endaweni umuntu ahlale ephuphe ngayo. Kunesinye isichazamazwi sezimpawu, kungani ukuhlushwa kwesinyawo sokunene kuphulukiswa, noma kunalokho, isithende. Abaphathi bamaholo bakholelwa ukuthi ukushaya kule ndawo kuyathembisa ukuthola izindaba ezilinde isikhathi eside. Ngokwezinye izinguqulo, umuntu kuzodingeka abaleke kumuntu.
Isho ukuthini isibonakaliso? Ingabe unyawo lwesobunxele lukhazimule?
Isikhathi eside abantu bakholelwa ukuthi ingelosi ihlezi ehlombe lokunene futhi uDeveli ungakwesobunxele. Yingakho konke okuxhunyaniswe nehlangothini lokunene lomzimba kunomlingiswa omuhle, futhi ngakwesobunxele - okubi. Isibonelo, uma unyawo lwesokunxele luhlanganiswa yisixwayiso ukuthi umgwaqo omude uzoba nzima futhi uzoletha izinkinga eziningi. Ukubamba esithendeni kuyithembisa ukulahlekelwa phakathi nohambo.
Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi akusiyo njalo inhlanhla ehlobene nezibonakaliso. Uma unyawo lushintsha isikhathi eside, khona-ke kufanelekile ukubheka imbangela kwenye. Lokhu kungase kube isibonakaliso sokuba khona kwesifo sefungal noma ukumiswa, okulunywa nje yizinambuzane ezithile. Ngokuvamile, uma ukucheka kungabikho futhi kukhula kuphela, khona-ke uye nakudokotela.
Ezinye izimpawu ezihambisana nomlenze onyawo
Uma umuntu eqeqeshwe futhi eqala ngezinyawo - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esihle, okubonisa ukuthi usuku luzodlula ngokuthula futhi ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Kukhona isibonakaliso,
Kwaphela isikhathi eside abantu bakholwa ukuthi abanini bezinzwane eziyisithupha ezinyaweni bazobe besithwalwa kuzo zonke izimpilo zabo. Uma umunwe wenkomba ubonakala ngokuqhathaniswa nabanye, kusho ukuthi umuntu unomlingani omubi. Ukuhlukunyezwa okunjalo kwabesifazane kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi kuyoba yinto esemqoka ebuhlotsheni bomndeni. Ngokwezibonakaliso zomuntu, uhlangothi oluphakeme lwezinyawo lubonisa umsuka omuhle wesintu futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Abantu bakholelwa ukuthi uma uNyaka Omusha umuntu wokuqala engena endlini enezinyawo eziphakeme, konke kuyoba kuhle futhi kungakapheli unyaka awukwazi ukwesaba noma yiziphi izinkinga nezinkinga ezinkulu.